According to the Merriam-Webster dictionary, representation is defined as a bias portrayal of someone or something that is being depicted in a certain nature, where as reality is the actuality of the world or the state of things as they exist. There is much harm in the conflicts that arise when something is being wrongly represented, not only for the people that are being represented but for the people looking into and out of the representation. This is where stereotypes are formed and is the core of the judgements among different races, cultures, genders, and groups of people. In the world of the BDSM culture, the practitioners of this lifestyle are and have been stereotyped for their lifestyle choices, which has lead to a false representation that is not only hurting the members of this culture but also curious onlookers. …show more content…
BDSM is an acronym that covers three different categories of practices or roleplaying. The B/D stands for bondage and discipline, which is considered to be using restraints in the act, but the restaurants do not just have to be physical, they can be psychological and emotional as well. The D/S represents domination and submission, where there is one person taking control and the other handing over their control. S/M is categorized as sadism and masochism. Sadism is defined as deriving pleasure from the pain or humiliation of others, and masochism is defined as deriving pleasure from ones own pain or humiliation (Herbert and Weaver,
Extra Mile. This is a category that basically says, I want my slave to surprise me by how well she is looking out for me. Does she not only do what I ask but also do extra things for me that I need? This show eagerness to serve like nothing else. For example, I meet Ashlie and she has a bottle of hard liquor, a plate of healthy food and wearing a new latex outfit -- when all I said is, 'I want you to be ready to meet me at 6 p.m.' She clearly has gone the extra mile to serve me -- I look at these as the bonus marks of the BDSM world.
Orange Is the New Black is a television series created for the streaming video website called Netflix. The online television provider is known for attracting many users, not only does it include television series but also movies. However, it is a global expansion that allows this specific series to seek attention from each median as well as international audiences. This brings me to my point on how female bodies throughout this series are represented. It explores patterns in representing sexuality and how these representations influence the messages that viewers take away. The portrayal of sexuality is one of the most attention-grabbing aspects of Orange Is the New Black, as an example, at the beginning, the first scene in episode one shows
Culture is a complex concept that incorporates society’s beliefs, values, arts, attitudes and more. People like to be able to categorize animals, objects and unfortunately people. This idea of categorizing people has been around all throughout history. Whether it be race, religion, politics, or gender, people like categorization. Ideas that stray from tradition and challenge cultural norms lead to discrimination and ignorance. For example, in the late 1800s and early 1900s women did not have the same rights as their male counterparts, and women continue to struggle to receive full equality, the wage gap. Transgender or “Two Spirited” is when a person’s personal identity and gender does not correspond with their birth sex. The movie “Two Spirits”
Picture a room full of whips, rope, floggers, a wooden St. Andrew's cross, riding crops, and handcuffs. To some, the thought of this room is disturbing and atrocious. To others, this could be their sanctuary and a pleasure palace. In light of a certain pop culture phenomenon, the once taboo and hidden bondage/discipline, domination/submission, and sadism/masochism (BDSM) lifestyles have been unearthed. E. L. James’s Fifty Shades of Grey series brought the unique relationship between Anastasia Steele and Christian Grey into the homes of millions of average individuals. A once secret lifestyle was now written out upon countless pages, sitting on the best seller’s table for the world to pick up and read. The
Baumeister claims that these fantasies can range from wanting to be blindfolded during intercourse to wanting to be bound and gagged or handcuffed.
In Torture and Ill-Treatment Based on Sexual Identity: The Roles and Responsibilities of Health Professionals and Their Institutions by Simon Lewin and Ilan H. Meyer, they believe that “ establishing rights for the full range of sexualities must start by asserting sexuality as one of the core rights of all human beings and, therefore, as a right that should be fundamentally protected.” Furthermore, they also point out that heterosexual couples aren’t treated as badly as couples of the LGBT community. Any sexualities that is not heterosexual are not referred to as normal and are seen in society as threats. This causes many forms of ill-treatment and torture for these couples of another sexuality. Lewis and Meyer included in their article a list
The body is most often used to understand how a person identifies themselves and their sexuality as it is conveyed to the public via appearances and presentation of the body. These appearances are interpreted in conventional society, and can be viewed with distain when it does not fall within the norms of society. Exotic dancers are often criticized for their appearance based on how society has categorized and idealized their gender. To compensate in such a harsh environment, dancers tend to rely on body technology to maintain or manipulate their body to receive more attention and propagandize their body for their work. Often, the use of body technology creates rifts in a dancer’s identity and how they associate themself sexuality. The various
For example the movie 50 Shades of Grey, a movie about a girl who is a virgin and becomes involved with a CEO she had interviewed previously. Once they become involved he reveals he is into BDSM, a sexual activity engaging in inflicting pain. The movie contains several scenes that are dominated
BDSM Bondage and discipline, dominance, and submission, a form of Sadomasochism, encompass all inclusive term for forms of sexual expression that consist of inflicting and receiving physical pain, humiliation, and restraint. LeVay and Baldwin (2012), asserts that some couples like biting, slapping, and wrestling from time to time as a way of heightening their sexual excitement. Verbal abuse, or enslavement are a part of the dominance where the individual is forced to engaging degrading activity, such as licking their
But was I feeling this way because of an innate sense of right and wrong, or because of a standard of sexual preference that society has constructed? Alternative sex practices, such as bondage, domination and sadomasochism (from now on referred to as BDSM) are not inherently deviant. However, the contrast between these acts and society’s heteronormative, soft-core and monogamous portrayal of what sex should be directly influences the negative connotation, definition and ultimately the medicalization of anomalous sexual
A prominent challenge for many of the participants was discrimination...one submissive expressed anguish at the unkind words of an acquaintance who mocked BDSM practitioners to her face without knowing that she shared such proclivities. One man simply stated “I’ve been told that I’m going to Hell.” Fear of being mocked, prosecuted, or even “witch-hunted” led participants to feel that they had
BDSM is an acronym for bondage/discipline, dominance/submission, and sadism /masochism. The term BDSM is defined as a variety of erotic practices involving power play. Now because this term does not cover everyone in the kink community, known as an umbrella term, people are now starting to use the term WIIWD, which stands for “What it is we do”. I will be using symbolic interaction theory to describe why BDSM is not deviant in our society today. Our society is always flowing and changing with the environment around us. We have
From the case study of Mary, we propose the notion of perverse feminine masochism as antinomic with erotic feminine masochism, the latter being based on the change of desired object. The desire to be penetrated by the father, then by the lover, supports the investment of penetration as a promised opening. Thus, whereas erotic feminine masochism relies on the primary erogenous masochism, constitutes a basis of the first narcissistic foundations and counterinvests moral masochism, for some people, the encounter with the sexual might be contrastingly traumatizing and reactive pregenital anxieties of intrusion that may be compared with a revivification of incest (Schaeffer, 2002). Perverse feminine masochism is made
This article examines the effect of presentation of BDSM in the media in United States. Weiss claims that acceptance and understanding of sexual minorities such as BDSM community is going through normalization and pathologizing. The difference and what is normal sexuality and what is not a normal sexuality has been discussed in this paper. This article also examines the American postmodern consumer culture and how this culture effects BDSM. Weiss criticizes the capitalism but explains that sexuality is an exception in alienation that capitalism has brought to society. She explains that “Fetlife” has the similar approach by epitomize sexuality as something that we don’t need to buy it. She also argues that the major popular attraction for the
The oxford english definition of representation is “The description or portrayal of someone or something in a particular way”, which suggests that most representations are by the process of interesting mediation. In terms of representation, Robin Thicke's song ‘Blurred Lines’ is a perfect example of how women can be presented as sexual objects for the enjoyment of men. I chose this text due to the controversy surrounding it for this exact reason, as people found that it was exploiting women and encouraging rape culture. It went to number one in several countries around the world, and was banned in a large number of Uk universities.