Lixin Guo
PHIL 110 – ADF
Family Religious History
I grew up with my maternal grandparents in China. From an early age, I was taught the notion of filial piety, paying respect to elderly members while making concessions to the younger members. It plays a central role in my family as well as the families in which my grandparents came from.
My grandmother is born in a scholarly family heavily influenced by teachings of Confucianism. Strict rules apply to how children should behave to show respect to adults. For instance, children are not allowed to eat before adults begin eating, which exemplifies the belief that parents are authoritative over children. Unlike her parents, my grandmother is not keen on being an authoritative figure. She believes that a mutually respectful relationship with everyone regardless of age is the key to a harmonious family.
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I have adopted a secular view on traditions. Rather than accepting filial piety as an obligation, I see it as a guide to the moral conducts. Making sacrifices means more of a duty to preserve my cultural identity than a religious experience.
My grandfather, on the other hand, is from a poor, rural family. Although his family did not enforce a harsh discipline which is derived from the notion of filial piety, he is the most pious devotee to traditional practices in my family and sees filial piety as an obligation. It is his way of showing reverence to his mother, who changed his course of life. Despite the meager income, my great grandmother insisted on him to complete his college education so that he could find work that allows him to escape poverty. He feels heavily indebted to
I have found the sweet sixteen party is quite similar to a Quinceañero birthday party. Probably the most distinct similarities are that they are both an event that celebrates a girl’s transition from childhood to womanhood. They are both an important part of the culture, as well as are quite elaborate and usually expensive, depending on the type of party the parents want. They celebrate when a girl becomes a woman, which is a major stage in life because adults have more privileges and responsibilities. This is a big part of their culture because it is celebrated by almost all Spanish girls when they become women. Most of the time, these parties are elaborate, as they only happen to a person once in their entire
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In this day and age, if you were abused as a child by your family members it is more socially acceptable to leave your family entirely behind as soon as you turn eighteen, or even before that point. Back in China during and before the time of the Chinese Revolution, this was not the case. In The Good Earth by Pearl S. Buck, Buck demonstrates the bind of filial piety through the depiction of Wang Lung and his uncle. Since the time of the Chinese Revolution, the dynamics of a family have changed in a positive way because people are beginning to not be bonded to their family on the basis of filial piety.
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Your last name belongs to the family, and you can’t cut yourselves off from your ancestors.” To this, the young boy answers “Baloney!.” This particular argument not only highlights the cultural differences in their thoughts on the meaning of names but also the different definition of a family each culture has. In the Chinese culture, the family is centered around the veneration of the ancestors and elders are the ones who hold the power within the household due to their wise nature. While in American culture the family is commonly defined as only including the nuclear family members, the mother, the father, and their children. These values clashed during the argument between the grandfather and the child when the child not only disregarded the importance of his ancestors but also disrespected his grandfather to the point where his grandmother had to intervene and by stating “You mustn’t speak to your granddad like that.” The children further display their American interpretation of family when the boy tells the grandfather “This isn’t your home,” and then the little girl follows by stating “You’re just our guests.” This argument clearly displays the clash between family members of different generations dramatized by their
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Both religion and family are essential parts in the running of any society. Religion is the belief in a supernatural authority which unites a group of people. Normally, a family consist of people who share the same bloodline; however, it may also consist of a group of people who are legally bonded such as adopted children. In whatever type of the family, strong and healthy bonds are necessary. Among other factors, religion plays a significant role in strengthening the family bonds. In many religions of the world, family comes first. For instance, in the Bible, God created man and woman so that they could reproduce and fill the earth. In addition, God gave man power over all other living things. This shows how important people are to God. Notably, various religions have different values and expectations on families. For instance, Islam allows polygamy while Christianity allows monogamy. The relationship between family and religion can be evaluated using the functionalism perspective of sociology. This essay explains the functionalism perspective and analyses the interactions between religion and family.
I was lucky enough to grow up with so much support. Growing up like this taught me the importance of family and how to learn from them, which I believe led to an even deeper and rapid establishment of our family’s core values. My family as a whole has always taught me the importance of hard work, service, honesty, dependability, trustworthiness, and pure kindness. My Pappaw Buddy was like our superman; no matter what his physical condition was, he was always willing to help our neighbors. He never rested when he was supposed to because to him, there was work to be done. Another very important rule my family follows is to smile and speak to everyone you meet. Establishing meaningful connections has always been important to us, especially in our small-town setting. When my grandfather passed away, the entire town mourned; this showed me how many lives he really did touch, and how important it is to live for others.