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Free-Range Or Rage

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Free-Range or Rage? Parents always fight to make sure their children are getting the best of life by always assuring they have what they need to have a set future, as well as never having to deal with the downs of life, but you can’t always prevent life to happen. In multiple articles, various parents express their individually unique parenting styles, which distinctly explain why their method works for them and how it can work for multiple parents by enforcing their beliefs and techniques, but the question still remains. What makes a good parent? Is it the morals they inflict on the child, is it the religious beliefs, or is it just a nature vs nurture instinct that allows you to make those decisions. In general it remains a set structure, …show more content…

Even if having a successfully, controlling, and demanding standard leads to good motives and a successful, set future, these kids are more likely to suffer from either depression or anxiety, because they never have a taste of what freedom and “go with the flow” development is. Always having everything set out in a certain plan with no back up is not just time consuming, but overwhelming. Still those who follow this does lead to the parental desired job, the child struggles to maintain happiness and/or have a miserable life. On the contrary, those raised with free-range parenting, tend to be happy kids and even lead to be happier …show more content…

Yes, something should be tweaked and maintain some parental involvement, but it shouldn’t be soul crushing. As well as allowing your kids to be autonomous and having them learn responsibility they also take this by handling mistakes on their own and develop strong survival skills and street-smarts. In the end you can try and look for the “best parenting book” out there and take its advice, but in reality no one knows your kids better than yourself. As Jennifer Senior quoted in her TED talk, “All these books well-intended…I do not see as help when I look at that shelf. I see anxiety.” (Senior, TED talk) In other words do what you feel is right, we were given our nature vs nuture instincts for a reason, so why not use

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