There is a thin line between love and hate. In the tragic play Romeo and Juliet, the two main protagonists Romeo and Juliet prove that through their love prevailing the hatred their families have for eachother. The play ends with both Romeo and Juliet dead, but the families make up as a result of the grievances felt by the loss of their children. In In the play Romeo and Juliet, Friar Lawrence is at fault for the death of Romeo and Juliet because he has ulterior motives for helping them, his warnings are not prominent enough, and he takes advantage of the trust Romeo and Juliet had in him. Friar Lawrence had ulterior motives for helping the budding relationship between Romeo and Juliet develop, this ultimately lead to their death. The love …show more content…
“These violent delights have violent ends And in their triumph die, like fire and powder, Which, as they kiss, consume. The sweetest honey Is loathsome in his own deliciousness And in the taste confounds the appetite. Therefore love moderately. Long love doth so. Too swift arrives as tardy as too slow.” (2. 6. 9-15) Right before marrying Romeo and Juliet Friar Lawrence warns Romeo about the results of the passionate love Romeo and Juliet share might lead to. But that warning is overshadowed by Friar Lawrence’s choice to marry them within a day of them meeting. When Romeo first comes to Friar Lawrence to reveal to him his hopes for his and Juliet’s love, the Friar agrees to marry them. But then before Romeo leaves he gives him an eerie warning. “ FRIAR LAWRENCE. O, she knew well Thy love did read by rote, that could not spell. But come, young waverer, come, go with me. In one respect I’ll thy assistant be, For this alliance may so happy prove To turn your households’ rancor to pure love. ROMEO. O, let us hence. I stand on sudden haste. FRIAR LAWRENCE. Wisely and slow. They stumble that run fast. (2. 3. 94-101) He is constantly giving Romeo and Juliet warnings that he later takes back or causes them to overlook by making promises to help them with their relationship. Because what he says and promises goes back and forth so much it is …show more content…
But in the end he failed them, and as a result failed to keep them from dying. When Romeo was banished he came to Friar Lawrence asking for advice on what to do. “Father, what news? What is the Prince’s doom? What sorrow craves acquaintance at my hand That I yet know not?” (3. 3. 1-13) Friar Lawrence only tells him that he can spend the night with Juliet and that he must leave in the morning. He helps Romeo, but only to a certain extent. But then Juliet confides in him, when the situation is even more dire than the last. “O, bid me leap, rather than marry Paris, From off the battlements of any tower, Or walk in thievish ways, or bid me lurk Where serpents are. Chain me with roaring bears, Or hide me nightly in a charnel house, O’ercovered Quite with dead men’s rattling bones, With reeky shanks and yellow skulls. Or bid me go into a new-made grave And hide me with a dead man in his.....” (4. 1. 78-126) In this exchange between Juliet and Friar Lawrence, the Friar gives Juliet a potion that makes it appear as if she is dead. Then he says that he will send a letter to Romeo telling him about their plan and then he will come retrieve her from the vault. But this letter never reaches Romeo because Friar Lawrence trusts Friar John to get the letter to Romeo. But the letter fails to reach Romeo because of some complications with Friar John, and Romeo rushes to Juliet’s grave
As the title states the story of Romeo and Juliet was a terrible tragedy, because not all stories have a happy ending. These two lovers end up killing themselves to be together. Friar Lawrence was responsible for the deaths of Romeo and Juliet.
There are many people in “Romeo and Juliet” who attributed to their deaths. Lord Capulet was a very mean man who never treated his daughter right. Friar Lawrence didn’t mean to do any harm, but he did! Friar John had one job, but failed, which led to the kids death. Therefore, Romeo and Juliet weren’t at fault for their deaths because they had help from Lord Capulet, Friar Lawrence, and Friar John.
In the play Romeo and Juliet by William Shakespeare, multiple characters were responsible for the tragic ending of the play. One of the characters was Friar Lawrence who was a religious figure who married Romeo Montague and Juliet Capulet, two lovers from feuding families.Friar Lawrence is a mentor to Romeo and offers him advice about loving Juliet. Friar Lawrence cared for both Romeo and Juliet and married them despite knowing that the lovers were supposed to be sworn enemies due to their feuding families. He also rushed to Juliet’s tomb in order to make sure nothing bad had happened to Romeo or Juliet because Friar John’s failure to deliver the letter which was a crucial part of Lawrence’s plan to reunite the lovers. The letter outlined the friar’s plan and explained Juliet’s supposed death to Romeo but it didn’t not reach him in time which eventually led to the double-suicide of the lovers. However, Friar Lawrence concocted a poison which simulated a death-like state and gave it to Juliet which could have actually killed her which is a punishable deed. Friar Lawrence committed
Friar Lawrence played a key role in their love’s failure. Without sufficient foresight and logical thinking, Romeo and Juliet became victims to suicide due to the irresponsibility of Friar Lawrence he gave a poison to Juliet, he trusted friar john with a letter of great importance to give to Romeo, he left Juliet’s tomb instead of trying to stop her. Had he not have made these mistakes, Romeo and Juliet probably would not have not killed themselfs. If only he had thought out his plan better. He trusted Juliet a unstable girl with a potion to make her look dead so she would not have to marry Paris.
If Friar did not go through with the young teens plans, their lives would not end the way they did. If the Friar acted more like the adult he is, Romeo and Juliet would be in much less danger. For example, Friar Lawrence immediately gives Juliet an idea when she comes to him expressing that she would rather kill herself than marry Paris, the boy that Juliet’s family is forcing her to marry. He instructs her to take the vial at night and to make sure her Nurse, who has taken care of Juliet her whole life, is not with her. As said by Friar Lawrence, “Hold, then. Go home, be merry, give consent To marry Paris. Wednesday is to-morrow. To-morrow night look that thou lie alone… Take thou this vial, being then in bed, Take thou this vial, being then in bed, And this distilled liquor drink thou off; stiff and stark and cold, appear like death” (4.1. 95). This response by Friar to Juliet is crucial because it shows how he immediately listens to her without thinking beforehand. Friar explains all of the effects of death, which slightly scares Juliet. He’s also not one hundred percent sure she will wake up, which also adds to her sceptical thoughts. The immaturity of Friar Lawrence made a large impact on Romeo and Juliet’s
The first of many problems that Friar Lawrence creates is when he consents to marry Romeo and Juliet, which ultimately leads to their deaths. Friar Lawrence believes that marrying Romeo and Juliet will end the feud between their two families: “In one respect I’ll thy assistant be, for this alliance may so happy prove to turn your households’ rancor to pure love” (II.iii.97-99). Even though Friar Lawrence knows that Romeo and Juliet should not get married, for many different reasons, including Romeo’s obsession with Rosaline not even a day earlier, the Friar decides that this marriage has a small chance of ending the feud, so he goes ahead with it. Friar Lawrence starts a chain reaction of problems after he agrees to marry Romeo and Juliet,
Romeo and Juliet, the well-known tale by William Shakespeare, raises numerous conclusions on who is to blame for the events that led to the unfortunate end of the two star-crossed lovers. However, one character in particular sticks out as the one who drives the plot into challenging moments. Due to his callous demeanor, marriage-related judgements, and inadequate planning, Friar Lawrence is the main reason for the deaths of Romeo and Juliet. Near the beginning, Lawrence permits Romeo to wed Juliet in an attempt to ease tensions within the families, but being oblivious to the consequences he ultimately sparks the tragedy. Lawrence berates Romeo's snap judgments on love, saying, “Wisely and slow; they stumble that run fast.”
Friar Lawrence is a very wise guy. He challenges Romeo when he switches the focus of his affection from Rosaline to Juliet. “Is Rosaline, that thou didst love so dear,/So soon forsaken? Young men’s love then lies/Not truly in their hearts, but in their eyes” (II.iii.66-68). Friar Lawrence does not believe that Romeo's love for Juliet is authentic. He thinks it is meaningless because it is so changeable. Just days ago, Romeo was crying his eyes out to Friar Lawrence about Rosaline. Friar makes a convincing argument that Romeo's love for Juliet could be nothing more than a small crush.
With a flicker of hope that the marriage will work and end the feud, Friar Lawrence remarks that, "this alliance may so happy prove to turn [their] households' rancor to pure love" (II iv 91-92). The blame can be placed on Friar Lawrence because he cares too much for Romeo and Juliet and eventually takes an extreme and risky approach to facilitate their union.
After Friar Lawrence realizes that Friar John never delivered the letter, he makes his way to the tomb. He arrives too late and finds Romeo and Paris dead and Juliet regaining consciousness. Upon seeing Juliet heartbroken when she awakens, the Friar hears the watch coming and tries to convince Juliet to leave with him by saying “Stay not to question, for the watch is coming. Come, go, good Juliet, I dare no longer stay” (5.3 lines 158-159). Juliet refuses to leave the tomb and Romeo, so the Friar leaves her and hides. Friar Lawrence showed extreme selfishness by leaving at that moment when Juliet needed him the most. Furthermore, it was his fault that she was in that situation, so he should have stayed and attempted to comfort her. Instead he left Juliet to mourn Romeo and stab herself with his
Love is considered one of the purest yet most complicated feelings in the world. There are different types of love, friendship love, romantic love, even sexual love. We humans have evolved over time, but the concept of love has not evolved with us. Romeo and Juliet is a tragedy written by William Shakespeare about two young passionate lovers whose deaths unite their feuding families. Although no single character deserves all of the blame for the tragic ending in the play, Friar Lawrence can be considered partially responsible because of his decision of immediately agreeing to marry Romeo and Juliet, trusting a 14-year old with a highly dangerous potion,
Friar Lawrence has good intentions while making his decisions but the good intentions don’t equal good results. Romeo goes to Friar Lawrence to ask if he would marry his new love Juliet and himself. He asks the Friar this, the morning after he snuck to Juliet’s balcony. At first the Friar is hesitant because Romeo just met Juliet the night before, but then agrees in hopes it will end the feud between their two enemy families. The Friar believes “...this alliance may prove to turn your households’ rancor to pure love” (2.3 98-99). When Friar Lawrence says “this alliance” he is referring to the one that Romeo and Juliet have formed. Their families, the Capulets and the Montagues are hateful enemies, but the Friar believes that marrying the two could turn the “households’ rancor to pure love”, meaning Romeo and Juliet’s love could end the feud between the two foes. Friar Lawrence is supporting their love so the outcome of it could potentially be positive. He has right motives for making the decision to marry the two, but he seems to ignore
Romeo and Juliet, a tragic love play written by William Shakespeare, is worldwide topic of discussion. Opinions on whom or what is to blame for the death of these two star-crossed lovers varies depending on the viewpoint. Because they put their children in that difficult stance of hatred, the families face accusations. While the families face blame, Friar Lawrence receives the same for not acting appropriately and in a timely manner. But, at the end of the day, the curse of youthful impulsiveness is the primary cause of this heartbreaking story.
He is apart of both Romeo and Juliet’s lives and his willingness to agree to assist them, lead them to their downfall. Friar Lawrence believes he is helping, creating a way for the Montagues and the Capulets to stop their feuding. He says, “In one respect I’ll thy assistant be; For this alliance may so happy prove To turn your households’ rancor to pure love” (Shakespeare 2.3 90-93). In the beginning, Friar Lawrence believes that helping Romeo and Juliet get married will help bring peace among the Montagues and the Capulets. His intentions are pure and for peace in Verona. But, he also has bad thoughts about what might happen with love as quick as theirs and how it will affect everyone else. From the play, Romeo and Juliet, he says, “These violent delights have violent ends, And in their triumph die, like fire and powder,” ( Shakespeare 2.6 9-10). Friar Lawrence is warning Romeo about how quick true love can come to an end. He is aware of the fact that something may go wrong, but proceeds to follow what Romeo and Juliet ask him to do. Ultimately, Friar Lawrence plays a big role in the tragedy of Romeo and Juliet, but there are also a few others who do as
He does this because one of his ulterior motives throughout the play is to stop the conflict between the Montagues and the Capulets. This devotion is different from the others, as it is devotion to an entire city and a deity, rather than just a person or a family. When Romeo reveals his love interest, Friar Lawrence sees an opportunity to fulfill his goal and he takes it. He reveals his ulterior motive when he states that “Two such opposèd kings encamp them still / In man as well as herbs—grace and rude will; / And where the worser is predominant, / Full soon the canker death eats up that plant.” (2.3.28-31). This metaphor for the conflict between the two families reveals the Friar’s beliefs regarding what will happen if the conflict continues. He states that both good and bad behaviors exist, but when bad behavior is predominant, people will die. As a member of the clergy, Friar Lawrence’s goal is to prevent the loss of lives that would happen if the conflict continued. This means that he becomes devoted to the task of keeping the peace in Verona. The extent of his devotion is revealed when he has to adapt to Romeo’s banishment; he will stop at nothing to end the conflict. He instructs Juliet that “Thou shalt continue [to sleep] two and forty hours / And then awake as from a pleasant sleep. / Now, when [Romeo] in the morning comes / To rouse thee from thy bed, there art thou dead.” (4.1.107-110). He will continue no matter what. Even if he has to fake a death, he remains devoted to his cause. In the end, the Friar achieves his goal of peace, albeit without sparing Romeo and Juliet. Friar Lawrence is the most devoted character in this play, and stops at nothing to achieve what he believes will benefit the most in the long-term. Once again, Shakespeare shows readers that devotion can turn deadly, making them question whether or not the ends justify the