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Friar Lawrence Responsible For The Deaths Of Romeo And Juliet

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There is a thin line between love and hate. In the tragic play Romeo and Juliet, the two main protagonists Romeo and Juliet prove that through their love prevailing the hatred their families have for eachother. The play ends with both Romeo and Juliet dead, but the families make up as a result of the grievances felt by the loss of their children. In In the play Romeo and Juliet, Friar Lawrence is at fault for the death of Romeo and Juliet because he has ulterior motives for helping them, his warnings are not prominent enough, and he takes advantage of the trust Romeo and Juliet had in him. Friar Lawrence had ulterior motives for helping the budding relationship between Romeo and Juliet develop, this ultimately lead to their death. The love …show more content…

“These violent delights have violent ends And in their triumph die, like fire and powder, Which, as they kiss, consume. The sweetest honey Is loathsome in his own deliciousness And in the taste confounds the appetite. Therefore love moderately. Long love doth so. Too swift arrives as tardy as too slow.” (2. 6. 9-15) Right before marrying Romeo and Juliet Friar Lawrence warns Romeo about the results of the passionate love Romeo and Juliet share might lead to. But that warning is overshadowed by Friar Lawrence’s choice to marry them within a day of them meeting. When Romeo first comes to Friar Lawrence to reveal to him his hopes for his and Juliet’s love, the Friar agrees to marry them. But then before Romeo leaves he gives him an eerie warning. “ FRIAR LAWRENCE. O, she knew well Thy love did read by rote, that could not spell. But come, young waverer, come, go with me. In one respect I’ll thy assistant be, For this alliance may so happy prove To turn your households’ rancor to pure love. ROMEO. O, let us hence. I stand on sudden haste. FRIAR LAWRENCE. Wisely and slow. They stumble that run fast. (2. 3. 94-101) He is constantly giving Romeo and Juliet warnings that he later takes back or causes them to overlook by making promises to help them with their relationship. Because what he says and promises goes back and forth so much it is …show more content…

But in the end he failed them, and as a result failed to keep them from dying. When Romeo was banished he came to Friar Lawrence asking for advice on what to do. “Father, what news? What is the Prince’s doom? What sorrow craves acquaintance at my hand That I yet know not?” (3. 3. 1-13) Friar Lawrence only tells him that he can spend the night with Juliet and that he must leave in the morning. He helps Romeo, but only to a certain extent. But then Juliet confides in him, when the situation is even more dire than the last. “O, bid me leap, rather than marry Paris, From off the battlements of any tower, Or walk in thievish ways, or bid me lurk Where serpents are. Chain me with roaring bears, Or hide me nightly in a charnel house, O’ercovered Quite with dead men’s rattling bones, With reeky shanks and yellow skulls. Or bid me go into a new-made grave And hide me with a dead man in his.....” (4. 1. 78-126) In this exchange between Juliet and Friar Lawrence, the Friar gives Juliet a potion that makes it appear as if she is dead. Then he says that he will send a letter to Romeo telling him about their plan and then he will come retrieve her from the vault. But this letter never reaches Romeo because Friar Lawrence trusts Friar John to get the letter to Romeo. But the letter fails to reach Romeo because of some complications with Friar John, and Romeo rushes to Juliet’s grave

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