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Friendships Bond Together In Steinbeck's Of Mice And Men

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Friendships bond together for many different reasons. Consumer friendship is short lived like a drug and dies out when the pleasure high is gone. Entrepreneurial friendship is all about making the money. When the profit goes down so does the partnership. True friendship is a long lasting often lifetime journey of sharing each other's joys and sorrows by just being there for each other without thinking of yourself. Of Mice and Men is a book that tells how two very different men bond together in friendship while traveling together as farm laborers. George is a small, smart man who speaks for Lennie who is a huge man with a simple mind that gets him in trouble. They share the dream of earning enough money to buy their own farm where Lennie can …show more content…

According to the article, the last and most elusive behavior for keeping friends is being positive. “The intimacy that makes a friendship thrive must be an enjoyable one.” (Karbo). The more we feel good about a friendship, the more we are willing to expend the energy it takes to keep it alive. This lack of positivity shows that George and Lennie’s relationship will not remain a true friendship. Those who argue that George and Lennie’s relationship is not an example of true friendship would state that it lacked positive qualities for George as being with Lennie was more trouble than George could take. George and Lennie had to keep moving from job to job as Lennie kept getting into trouble. George was furious, “I got you! You can’t keep a job and lose me ever’ job I get. You do bad things and I got to get you out. (Steinbeck p11). If George was alone, he could live easier and not have to deal with always having to get Lennie out of trouble. Lennie consumed all the joy of the friendship with always getting into trouble and did not have a true friendship with George. George and Lennie’s relationship is a true friendship even though is has its ups and downs. According to Fehr’s research in the article, successful friendships possess an understanding of give and take. “Hefty helpings of emotional expressiveness and unconditional support are key followed by acceptance, loyalty and trust.”(Karbo). Our true friends are there for us though the thick and thin. This shows that George and Lennie’s relationship is a true friendship. So even in the end of the book, before George shot Lennie in the head, theirs was a true friendship. Lennie had accidentally killed Curly's wife and Curly was coming to kill Lennie. In the final scene,” Lennie said “I thought you was mad at me, George.” “I never been mad, I ain’t not” said George. Lennie

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