Growing Up With Single Mothers

Stephanie Gonzalez is a 16 year old teenager who grew up and was raised in Chicago by only her mother and older brother. Stephanie has had to persevere through several challenges and obstacles in her life due to the fact that her father left her when she was only an infant. Stephanie was willing to speak out about how her culture needs to relook at the way they view single-parent households in society and how she was deeply affected by the way she grew up (Gonzalez). The percentage of children living with single parents increased substantially in the United States during the second half of the 20th century. Only nine percent of children lived with single parents in the 1960s, while this statistic increased dramatically to 28 percent in 2012. Growing

Growing up in a household full of girls with a single mother, I learned how to be strong and independent. My mother was never really the type of mother to be affectionate, she had more of a tough love point of view. I was always expected to get the best grades I could possibly have along with being focused and determined to go to college which most of my family did not do. My mother taught me how to always be respectful and have good manners especially when it came to other adults. From the age of 5, I was doing chores in the house, and setting goals for my future.

I am a teen mother and I strongly believe single mothers are powerful and can do anything any other women can do regardless their marital status. I have reason to believe these things. I attend a teen mom school, we often have great single mom guest speakers who speak of their success. Listening to the stories of single mothers who everyday fight the ongoing battle of stereotypes, and win is inspiring. Being a single mother and successful is possible, society wants people to believe

However, by rising to these challenges, custodial single parents develop significant strengths. The positive benefits of being a single parent are that the child receives a lesson in independence. The child sees how strong the one parent is at providing them with everything they need without having to depend on someone else. The parents are showing their children that it is possible to live on their own, have an enjoyable life and take care of others while doing so. The children will know that they are a priority to the parent. When there is a second parent around the house, it can be easy to put responsibility off on them, but when the children see how hard the parent is working for them, they will understand how important they are to their parent. (Dowd, 1997)

In the article, “It’s Better To Be Raised by a Single Mom”, author Pamela Gwyn Kripke states that, “Kids of unmarried parents, according to all of those studies (of rich moms and poor, educated moms and not-so), are supposed to be failures.” If you really take a look at the situation of single parenting, it should be seen that it is not primarily who or how many people are raising the child, but rather how the child is being raised or brought up. If you really think about it, children with two parents in their household can take on the same emotional, social, and behavioral skills just as kids with one parent. Many say that for a child to be fully developed socially and emotionally, that they must be raised by two parents rather than one. In the article, “5 Things To Know About Kids Who Grew Up With Single Parents”, author Bob Alaburda states, “Growing up with loving parents can fill you with positive examples of how to handle relationships when you're older. Even having two parents who hate each others' guts can demonstrate what NOT to do. Either way, it's a learning experience. But children of a single parent are left to gain that experience on their

Growing up in a single parent household can affect your life in many different aspects, for instance how you view relationships, how you support yourself, and your future. I grew up in a single parent household and I understand the struggle of trying to provide for five children on a single income. When you just have one parent that must be the mom and the dad for the family it can get very difficult on some days. For instance, when you and your siblings have different things that you must do the same day. My grandparents had to help most of the time because my mom had to work and she could not be everywhere that she need to be.

When I think of a single mother the first thing that comes to mind is a hard working women that has to do all that's in her power to care and provide for her children. I also think of a hard working, independent women. Unlike the way I view single motherhood “7 in 10 Americans think single mothers are a “bad thing for society.”’ Single mothers are not bad for society they are just not as lucky as other females that have had children. Not all of the girls that decide to have children pick “the right” person to have that kid with. Majority or single mothers are not married but that is just a loss that they have to take

In the United States, the so-called “nuclear family” is still considered the typical American family unit. However, in recent years the colloquial definition of a family has become more inclusive and accepting of those made up of gay parents, interracial parents, single parents, and even those who choose not to have children. Despite the general upward movement in positivity towards these different groups, a recent Pew Research poll has come to show that a good majority of Americans (approximately 70%) believe that one of these is inherently “bad for society”: single mothers (Conan 2011). This kind of attitude is not new, either; single mothers have continuously been viewed by society as lacking or incompetent, looked upon with disdain, ridiculed, and are often even cast aside by their own families. This stigma attached so firmly to these single mothers hurts deeper and more painfully than just as an emotional blow. Poverty is a huge concern for single mothers, and one could argue that society’s attitude towards single mothers is one of the root causes of this. The stigma against single mothers should be eradicated because it is largely based on misinformation, and single mothers already have to deal with blatant sexism and racism in the United States. To generate sympathy for these mothers and create a more welcoming society towards “alternative” family types such as theirs, an advertising campaign should be taken up to show the struggles these women go through along with

For many decades, kids who grow up in a single parent environment have been outcast as different or said to be less educated. Being raised by only one parent seemed impossible but over the years it has become more accepting. Today many children have grown up to become stable and more successful in life whether they had one or two parents to show them the path to adulthood. The problem is how the children are raised rather than who the child is raised by. Does a child need both a mother and a father or is one parent enough? Does a young boy/girl need a father figure around? Does a young child need a mother figure around? What people often forget is that raising a child does not depend on the shape of the family; it all depends on how the parent

For a long time, many children grow up in a single parent family home has been seen as various. Being raised in only a single family household appears to be difficult to numerous yet over the years it has turned out to be more common. In today’s society many kids gown up and become unstable emotionally and become successful with one parent or both parent to show them right from wrong. The issues that lie are what the difference of children being raised is by both parents versus being raised by a single parent? Does society believe children need both parent to succeed? Do males need that father figure in their life to succeed? With much theory, this subject has turned into an exceptionally interesting contention. What individuals must comprehend

If you live with a single parent, trust me your not the only one. It’s very common for a child to grow up in a home where one of the parents is absent. There are more than 30 million kids in the United States who live with a single parent and 16,334,000 children under the age of 18 in single mother homes. Being a single mother comes with many obstacles to overcome in order to be a great parent. Single mother homes affects a child’s psychology causing negative effects on a child’s esteem, behavior, and education.

You can see most fathers that are incarcerated and you find many lone- mothers are raising the child. That’s where you can find the boy or girl alone and that’s where you can get your high level of poverty and behavioral problems. Rebecca O’Neill said, 70% of young offenders identified by Youth Teams come from lone-parent families. American studies have shown boys from one-parent were twice as likely to be incarcerated by the age of 30 years old (Page 10). Rebecca O’Neill said, Children ages from 11 to 16 years were 25% more likely to have offend in the last year if they lived with lone-parents and it’s because lack of supervision from the father.

Many single mothers are living paycheck to paycheck — working minimum wage jobs and unable to improve their financial situation. Some are stuck in an unending cycle of poverty, while others have erected walls that stop them from moving forward. Many single moms long for change, success, and financial freedom, but after facing multiple setbacks, they have given up on their dreams.

Parenting styles have had many controversial issues over the decades. The way people raised their children back in the 50’s and 60’s are completely different from today society. Back then they believe in the nuclear family, which is a family with a mom, dad, and children. They believe staying together at all cost. If something was breaking or broken you fixed it. At times you wonder if they stayed for love, money, or just for the sake of the children. Now and days it is not the same. Families are broken up for many reasons. Rather it be by death, the other parent wanting out (such as divorce). But in the end there is always a single parent left to take care of the kids in most situations. When something like this happens a negative connotation is brought to the single parent. This paper would show the effects of being raised by a single parent. Just like everything in life there is a good and bad side to everything. So in this paper you should learn the negative and positive effect of being raised by a single parent. The problem of the matter is that society tends to write off the child of single parents. Stating that they are lead down this road of destruction and grouping the entire single parent raised children without seeing the other side. Not saying that being raised by a single parent does not come with it hardships, but the fact is that there is still hope for those children and they can do very well. By always stating the negative it leaves the

Another obstacle that I have had in my life, is being raised by a single mother. The fact that I have never had a father figure has been difficult for me at times. For example, without a father my family has only one income to live off of. Even though my mom has done a phenomenal job raising our family with that single income, we have struggled at times. Another example, is that without a father I lack support at times. My mother is always there for me