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Identity Or Confusion (12-20 Years)

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5. Identity vs Confusion (12- 20 years)
This stage covered my high school and college years. I didn’t go to middle school since the Philippines did not follow the K-12 educational system until recently. In high school, I moved to Naga City about thirty-five miles away from my hometown after receiving a one-year full scholarship from an exclusive all-girls Catholic school. My stay there was uneventful although I had excelled academically. They said high school was “cool,” but for me, there was nothing spectacular in it. I found some of the girls overtly emotional and just wanted to get everybody’s attention. Perhaps, I disliked them because I didn’t like “too much drama.” Being away from my family, I had to take responsibility earlier compared …show more content…

I met his stepmom in a Filipino party who later introduced him to me. We started hanging out, watched movies together and dated until my visa stay ran out. Although we came from different backgrounds, we found that special connection in our lives having similar experiences while growing up. We maintained our communication despite him living in the United States while I was working in the Philippines. He visited me twice in my hometown and met my parents and relatives. After five years, we decided to move to the next level in our relationship and got married in the summer of 2015. Moving to the US was an adjustment for me as I have to reintegrate myself in a new culture, a new role in a family and establish myself professionally in a foreign country. I had to reconcile the many difference and decide what will work best in new circumstances. At present we are living in Overland Park and hopefully, define the next stage in our family in the coming …show more content…

Generativity vs Stagnation (40 to 65 years)
In the next few decades, I see myself being successful in my career and family life. I will be active in community organizations and church activities. Likewise, I am interested in joining the academic field teaching college students. I’ll probably visit my hometown more often to visit family and friends.
James hopes to become successful enough to eventually buy a house and pursue hobbies such as traveling, cooking and perhaps home brewing, or hiking. He seems to be still working on a clear idea of what his future looks like, but he is realizing it is going to happen sooner than later whether he likes it or not.
I am more career oriented than my husband. However, we have the same hopes of living a simple life and enjoy the process.

8. Ego integrity vs Despair (65 and older)
I see myself working at this age as long as my cognitive function will still be intact. I’m just hoping that I got my maternal genes with their history of a longer lifespan and being productive in their old age. Perhaps, I will be working part-time in my job or in teaching. In my retirement, I will pursue my passion in dancing and play the piano. Aside from learning new hobbies, I would like to travel the world and probably semi-retire in the

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