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In A Box Analysis

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To have a heart of peace is to realize that others are not objects but human beings, which means to treat others as per their own selves, needs and expectations, to acknowledge the uniqueness of each individual. In contrast, to a have a “heart of war” is to use others, to treat them as objects, to communicate with others as if others should comply with one’s own view of things. These two kinds of hearts are two ways to approach relationships with others, two different ways of being with others. A “heart of war” is often not intentional but rather an unconsious or instinctual self-deception in order to face the emotional challenge that is to interact with another, an unconscius way to protect our feelings. To be “in a box” is to be self-deceived

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