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In the Koh reading, one of the main points of emphasis was parental role expectations placed on children. More specifically, how in refugee families’ parental role expectations are higher than the expectations in non-migrant families. The authors explored this by looking at Burmese families and their daughters after they migrated to Australia. Detailing the familial expectations pre and post migration. The findings the reading presented was how pre-migration many of the girls were expected to perform task that aided in the family’s survival, and after migration there was a dynamic shift that forced them into less crucial roles.
Pre-migration, the lives the families lived were vastly different than their post lives. The families that had been …show more content…

The families no longer needed to operate in survival mode, causing a role reduction in certain areas while expanding their roles in others. The girls went from providing roles, to assisting their parents in their communication functions. The authors also point out how the girls also received less independence post migration. The families in fear of the new culture and the dangers that came along with implemented restrictions onto their daughters for social interactions, while also increasing educational expectations. The new roles that the daughters were given post migration seemed to be sources of stress, which is different to their obedience and understanding …show more content…

I think it’s a natural inclination in society to assume that if a child from a migrant background is having a hard time it’s because of they’re in capable of integrating properly into the society. I think that we assume a lot of the times that the inability to integrate comes from the cultural clashes between the receiving and sending countries. People assume that it’s the values that the refugees have that don’t comply with the societal values and norms that the receiving country has, and therefore they’re incapable of truly “fitting in”. While the issue of a child assimilating properly could be due to cross cultural value clashes, the article points to the fact that the parental role expectation actually play a large role into the integration.
Reflecting back, I think the Koh reading managed to deepen my understanding of the struggle the kids have to go through. For example, there’s a girl named at IOSC who is the oldest of three. It’s not widely publicized, but the kids in this family have hinted to the fact that they are refugees and that they lived in camp. This girl is almost 16, and she doesn’t come to tutoring often. One day while I was helping her cleanup she was telling me how she hates going to school because she was having a hard time understanding the

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