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Looking For Alaska

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Happiness can come in many forms, but it is hard to find true, real happiness. George Sand, a French novelist once said, “There is only one happiness in this life, to love and be loved.” In order to find this kind of happiness, you have to be with others, because you can not love or be loved when you are alone. Happiness is meant to be shared, being with others can make ordinary things better, and others can bring you to ease about questions you have and choices you must make that cause you to become lost. Knowing these three things can either help you work towards becoming happy, or increase your current happiness with your life. Animals are meant to be in groups and work together or share to accomplish goals in life. This is why wolves, …show more content…

In Looking For Alaska by John Green the main character Miles was unhappy with his current setting and group of which he lived day by day with. He went searching for a “great perhaps” at a boarding school where he met new friends such as the Colonel and Alaska. This idea was one that his life would change for the good if he made the first step by putting himself in a new setting. Life became bearable with these two by his side and he was happy, he believed with them he could achieve this “great perhaps”. Once Alaska died he began to believe he had lost his ties to the possibility of it becoming true, he thought it was over without her, he became very unhappy for a while. Sometimes you may just want to be with a group for a short time as well, this is described in the poem “Happiness Is Only Real When Shared” by Ric S. Bastata. “I want my noodles shared with someone where conversations become spices where news become condiments where friendship makes the food more delicious” (Line 1-7). In this poem, a person witnesses people in a noodle shop eating alone, but the person does not want to be alone, they want to be together with others. This poem compares conversations to spices, news are the condiments, and friendship is the delicious taste. Without those things, being alone, you lose much of the enjoyment and are …show more content…

These people if good help you when you are not at your best, they support you. Sometimes you decide the people you are with are not ones you wish to continue to be with, this is something Miles decides in Looking For Alaska when he leaves home. He decides being in a new setting with different people will help him on his mission to find his “great perhaps”. With new friends around him and a new setting to influence him and support him he believed he could improve himself. Back at home Miles knew what he had to due at the time, which included school work and other things, but he didn’t have anything to go off of after or anyone other than his parents to support him. By going to a new school away from home and meeting the Colonel, Alaska, and others he obtained more people who could play the role of being his own group for support. Having people nearby who are willing to help you and support you is a key in happiness. Look at the Scientific American article Share Your Good News, And You Will Be Better Off. It says that telling your good news and listening to theirs in return benefits you. It claims to give you better well-being, more energy, and happiness. Also these supporters you share with can give you advice as to what to do with anything you are unsure about, this will help you stay in control and guided towards positive goals.

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