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Lying: An Analysis

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Many people in our society do not like the idea of lying, but lie on a daily basis. In a Poll half of the people said lying was never ok, but in that same poll two-thirds said lying was ok in certain situations. I firmly believe lying is acceptable in our society.

Lying is acceptable if it creates a more positive result than negative. For example, Bella De Paulo, a professor who studied lying stated,” If you are at a party and you disagree with something you partner said, you may stay quiet to keep a happy relationship.” (3) Lying by not saying anything can keep a positive relationship. Some people will lie to keep you and another person happy. In addition, Randy Cohen, an ethics columnist, stated ,”If you are on your way to an award ceremony …show more content…

For example, in the article,”The U.S Political campaign” it states Anna Frank survived as long as she did because people lied.(1) Since the people lied Anna Frank survived. This shows that lying can save a life. In addition, Harold Smith, 64, lied to his daughter about his health. He states,”why get her all traumatized? I tried to protect her.”(3) Since Smith lied to his daughter, she didn’t have to worry. This is showing an example of someone protecting others from harm. In conclusion, lying can be acceptable when people stay safe. lying Some people may think that lying is never acceptable. Many of those people that believe lying is never ok think that telling the truth is easier. Telling the truth may be easier, however, it may hurt people's feelings. If someone tells the truth to another person about how they look, they may get offended. Also, some people think telling the truth is less stressful. That may be some people’s thoughts, but if you told someone something bad that’s happening to you they might stress out. For example, a 64 year old didn’t tell his daughter about his kidney tumor to protect her from thinking about what may happen.(3)

I firmly believe that in our society lying is an ok thing to do. Lying to keep others happy and create a more positive result is acceptable. Lying to protect and care for others is ok. This is showing people that lying can be used in a good way and is not a

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