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Male Body Image Issues

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Body image issues are a delicate topic within the male gender. The ideal man by American societal standards, is supposedly tall, slender, and tan, with somewhat defined muscles at the least. Body dissatisfaction is generally seen as feminine issue, something that is a likely factor in why so few men speak up about their body image problems. Homosexual males, however, generally do speak up more about the issues they face with how they look. A lot of these men are affected by the beauty myth in a similar manner as females; because they are not seen as masculine, they tend to turn to their looks as what they have to offer to potential partners and their peers. Unlike females, homosexual male’s body issues go beyond the too fat narrative, many …show more content…

Homosexual males, more often than not, align more closely with the female beauty myth than they do with the male beauty myth. Most gay men, like straight women, often engage in social situations where their appearances will be highly scrutinized by one another. When meeting potential partners “in the gay world, your body is the only currency you’ve got to negotiate with” (Pope, Phillips, and Olivardia 217). There is a notion in Western society that straight men have the ability to wow women with money and material things despite their appearance, that notion does not apply to gay men. Their images are analyzed in bars, gyms, and beaches the same way straight women’s bodies are analyzed in similar scenarios. Unlike straight men, who tend not to dwell on appearance when interacting with one another, gay men and straight women tend to be the biggest critics of one another’s appearance. Naomi Wolf quoted critic John Berger in The Beauty Myth, stating that “men look at women. Women watch themselves being looked at” (Wolf 58). This quote applies to homosexual men as much as it applies to women. Women and gay men have become used to being looked at in our society, and not just in a sexual way. When they are out in public women and gay men constantly look at their peers, taking in to account body shape, what they are wearing, their hair and their makeup and then compare themselves to their observations. Heterosexual men normally are not taking in to account what they next man is wearing or what he may be shaped like, and even when they do observe, it is not usually because they intend to compare themselves to the other straight man. This is one of the biggest factors that accounts for the large difference seen between hetero and homosexual males when it comes to body dissatisfaction. “Gay culture [makes] gay men more prone to dissatisfaction with their bodies

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