By what means would we define the term friendship? Most would define it as a bond created based upon mutual trust and support. With that one must ask themselves: Can a friendship prosper without the act of being truthful and obeying the duty of friendly correction? The answer is No. Marcus Tullius Cicero wrote a text on friendship. Cicero established a model for Latin prose; his surviving works include speeches, treatises on rhetoric, philosophical works, and letters. His text on friendship outlines all of the great qualities that define and dispose of a friendship. A healthy friendship is one where you can be honest with one another. Individually learning to accept corrections is important as well as the ability to be humble when giving …show more content…
Where as if they are telling you to in a sense “throw it in your face”, then you have a reason to be upset and not what to accept what they are saying. Correction is the state of being free from error. When you witness a friend making a mistake or doing something wrong it is your duty to correct them. A good friend is one who gives corrections not someone that goes along with something they know is wrong. In doing so it is better to give corrections free of insult or ulterior motive. You should never go along with what someone wants to do simply because they are your friend. Giving corrections helps people to grow. No one wants to take part in a stagnant relationship; it’ll get you nowhere. Cicero says “So all diligence must be applied here: first, to make sure that the advice lacks any harshness, and second, to make sure that the correction lacks any trace of insult. In serving one another, however, let there be companionship – let sheer conformity be far away, something unworthy not only of a friend but of any free man”. From that we understand the idea that a friend isn’t someone that will try to conform they are someone that will stand up and tell you right from wrong. Giving corrections that come from good intentions verses hatred or malice. Being truthful and correcting your friends when they are wrong, are both vital components of a friendship? A healthy friendship cannot prosper without
Friendliness is a necessary virtue because if you are unkind to everyone in the world then you will not have anyone. Friendship is a necessary part of the good life. There are a few types of friendship: of the different types, the only genuine friendship based on virtue. Friendships that are sorely based on usefulness or pleasure generally are not enduring. Because they tend to only last as the long as each party needs the usefulness or pleasure they use in the relationship, where a friendship that is based on virtue is based on wishing all the good in the world for the other person. This is a genuine friendship that is necessary for self-knowledge, which helps both parties to grow in virtue. The virtue of a friend is to love them, without restriction. Friendship presupposes justice and goes beyond just
Aristotle once said, “Friendship is a single soul dwelling in two bodies.” There are many things that go into the process of friendship. Some people deal with friendship one way while others deal with it in another way. Cicero had a lot to say about the different aspects of friendship in his time, but how would he view modern friendship? Some friendships Cicero may not be proud of; like the common relationships that are forced on in a classroom or work place and the lack of allowing nature to take control and make the friendships that are meant to happen. However, Cicero would be happy with the way the higher level friendships have developed in virtue
In the modern age friendship comes in many different shapes and sizes. There's the good and there's the bad. You might even find some types of friendships surprising, for example an "entrepreneurial relationship". In the book "Of Mice and Men" Lennie and George are friends, but not very good friends. George is unfortunately friends with Lennie for the wrong reasons.
Cicero makes holds friendship to a very high standard. Cicero writes about three rules of friendship that his explicitly states that he disagrees with. The first view states “…that a man should show toward his friend the same affection that he shows toward himself.” (Cicero 71). Cicero makes the claim that one should do even more for a friend than for themselves. “And there are many circumstances in which good men give up on many an advantage quite properly their own, or even allow such advantage to be wrested from them, in order that their friends rather
Friendship is one of the most valuable components in life. Friendship has the ability to change lives in a positive way. Friendship changes people’s views on life to a more positive outlook. “True friendship is when someone knows you better than yourself and takes a position in your best interests in a crisis. Friendship goes beyond sharing time together, and it is long lasting.” (Friends.com). As we spend a lot of time with our friends, friendship opens our minds to different ways of viewing the world. Unfortunately, sometimes strong barriers may be placed by those who see two people’s friendship as a threat; since people are influenced by their friends, friendship could make people question what
I believe Cicero position in the discussion about friendship is stronger than Aristotle’s position because Cicero believes friendship exists between two people, he also went deep in talking about friendship, the limits of friendship, how loyalty is important in friendship, the way friendships get stronger and older, which is also talked about the golden rule of friendship which he stated in section nineteen “put yourself on a level with your friends”. He also talked about the cause of friendship which he stated in section eleven that a belief in a man’s virtue is the original cause of friendship that friendship can hardly remain if virtue be abandon. By this , he made me understand virtue
Aristotle states that the “proper function of man consists in an activity of the soul in conformity with a rational principle, or, at least, not without it” (Page 17 1098a ll. 3-5). The proper function of man is needed to understand happiness. In this understanding, Aristotle explains that happiness is the highest good one could wish to achieve through human function. Aristotle states “a happy man lives well and fares well”(Page 19 1098b ll. 20-22). This allows the reader to begin questioning what the necessities are in order for one to fare well. One answer to this question may be in regard to friendship. Aristotle asserts that friendship is the greatest external good. According to Aristotle, it is possible to say that a friendless man is able to fare well because “supremely happy and self-sufficient people do not need friends”(Page 263 1169b ll. 2-3). However, “happiness, as we have said, needs external goods as well.” (Page 21 1099a ll. 32-33) With this being said, it can be determined that a friendless man cannot achieve supreme happiness, because, while he may be self sufficient, he is unable to perform acts of good for friends.
Friendship is a key aspect of life. Friends are your support system, who you go to in time of need, and who you share memories with that can last a lifetime. In today’s society, many friendships are broken up because of trust issues or the lack of positivity that may be spread through the group.
Friendship is another relationship that is worthy of mending, as true friends are hard to find and a deep friendship should be treasured. Discussions and confrontations may be necessary in order to reach a common ground, and sometimes this may involve hurt feelings. However, getting everything out in the open will often enlighten all those involved, and may even strengthen the friendship and allow an even deeper bond.
Instead of lying to their companions about what they think, they should give them their opinion. It could be negative or positive, but this allows the other person to realize how they should improve their personality. Friends should behave honestly toward each other instead of trying too hard not to hurt their feelings. Even in the case of different opinions, they should still stay honest. They should not lie in an effort to make their side or belief look better. Instead of giving their friend untruths, they should show them both sides to any belief: both the favorable and the opposing
Friends are an important part of people life; however, anyone should lie to make them happy. I believe that telling someone the truth is always important due to is a way of keeping friends and knowing them better. It is better to tell them what you think about them instead of telling them what they want to hear. There are many ways of telling people the truth and not doing it by flattering because later might regret about what the person said. I strongly believe that there are three ways of telling the people the truth than having them as an enemy such as, critics, hurting, and deceiving them.
What power does friendship hold in the world of politics? Is it all together nonexistent? The world of politics has always been upheld as competitive, fierce and cut-throat. British politician Alan Clark once quoted, “There are no true friends in politics. We are all sharks circling, and waiting, for traces of blood to appear in the water.”
It takes two friends actively being friends to each other for the relational good of friendship to occur (Fowers, 2005). In real life there is no taking turns in “doing” friendship between friends because it is a shared good.
Friendship is an integral part of the life of any human being. Most people feel the need to have a person who they can communicate with and talk about their challenges at any given time. Friendship is essential in
Friends should support each other at all times. In anything friends do, they should respect each other's opinions and support each other. Not only must friends be supportive of one another, there should also be a sympathetic tone when needed. Friends should not only listen, but also understanding needs to take place, as well as help. When a friend is in need, you are waiting for him as he would be waiting for you. If a friend is not sympathetic and aware of your needs, then there is a weak friendship. Each should know his friend's goals, needs, and wants. If these things are not known, then there is a weak relationship. Friends should set goals together to help develop a strong relationship. They can even help each other along the way. One person's weakness could be another friend's strength. A person needs to be loved, and that is what a friend does. A friend needs to be respected as well as loved. Not only should a friend's needs be fulfilled, but also certain wants. A friend wants a person who will listen, love, and show respect, just as anybody would. A friend is also loyal and trustworthy. When friends talk to one another, it is known that the conversation should just be between them, especially if it is personal to either of them. Neither person should share any of the information with someone else. That is just like invading someone's privacy when you repeat something that a friend tells you without permission. You should be able to confide in and