Marriage Guidance: Summary Notes

Gender roles have built the foundation of society in a negative way. There are many sources and reasons to prove the harmful impact it has left on the world today. For instance, it has restricted people’s ambition as well as pursuit of achieving greatness. Gender roles have created a barrier for both genders trapping them from achieving what they aim for. Many people in modern society have dreams and ambitious pursuits, but are held back by the obstacle of gender roles and expectations. Hence, many movements and changes have been created to lighten the negative impact gender role has on the people of today’s world. Historically, gender roles have been a way of keeping order in past societies, but that is not the case today.

As a country, we have come a long way to reaching equality between women and males. During the 19 centuries women fought for their right to vote. When talking about gender, there are a lot issues that continue to be present until this day. Women had to fight for equality during the 19 century which lead up women in today’s society to have a voice. Despite of all the improvement close to gender equality, society still expect particular things from females and males.

Gender roles are a set of behaviors that indicate that a person should fit in to a category of either being male or female. This is society’s concept of how men and women are expected to behave. These gender roles were commonly accepted before the twenty-first century. Society viewed males as being the main financial providers for their family whereas women were viewed as the maker of the home, raising and taking care their children. Men were expected to be strong, athletic,aggressive,and dominant. While, women were expected to be weak, passive,nurturing,and subordinate.

Gender roles describe the normative expectations of a culture group regarding the position that both sexes should hold in society. It also refers to the division of labor tasks, differences in behaviors, preferences, abilities; personalities that society expects of specific genders, (Kaiser, C. R., & Miller, C. T. 2009). It concerns the processes of how gender roles socialize and interact with each other in society as a whole and as an individual, (Stockard & Johnson, 1980; Thomas, 1986). Gender role deals with identity and at times are conceptualized as the acceptance and identification with social roles and behaviors associated with

Over the past centuries and through to our present day; gender roles have been a controversial topic discussed by both men and women. Gender roles have been a highly debated topic, including marriage, employment, parenthood, and citizenry. In fact, gender roles have somewhat changed, and somewhat remained the same. One may ask. How have marriage roles changed over time? Has employment changed between the two genders? Have the positions that the parents take over time evolved or remained stable? These questions can be guided through; Source A (The Great Gatsby), Source B (Our Deportment of the Manners, Conduct, and Dress of Refined Society) and Source C (The speech from Emma Watson). These sources create tension and make disagreements because of

notions about the 'proper' roles of men and women, they can be said to be a product of

“Both within and across different cultures, we find greater consistency in standards of desirable gender-role behavior. Males are expected to be independent, assertive, and competitive; females are expected to be more passive, sensitive, and supportive. These beliefs have changed little over the past twenty years within the United States and apparently around the world as

I was observing Jess counseling Kim who was a lesbian, was born in a Christian family, and wonders if she should tell her family. She was stressed because her girlfriend already told her family about her sexual orientation, and she still has not done it yet. From my observation, Jess presented very good SOLAR skills, and attending skills. She had lots eye contacts with Kim through the whole ten minutes, and she was very relaxed as she talks to Kim. It was very obvious that she was very focused on what Kim regarding what she was trying to tell her. Jess used multiple encouragers including both verbal and non-verbal encouragers such as nodding while Kim was telling her story, key word and key phrase encourager. Jess was able to point out what

Gender inequality is a social problem that is widespread in society. It is referred to as the unfair treatment of individuals based on one 's gender. Historically, laws have opposed women to go to school, access certain jobs, and purchase property. Gender inequality has been experience through culture – honor-killing, sex-selective abortion, and society – occupation, gender roles, and education. The social expectations of men and women differ between cultures that are constructed socially and culturally. These expectations are displayed in roles, and behavior believed both by men and women and their interdependent relationships. Gender inequality can be further understood through the structure of sexism. Discrimination takes place in gender inequality for the reason that men and women are treated on the basis of gender alone (Amjad, R., Ashfaq, M., Kousar, R., Saghir, A., 2010).

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8). The traditional views of gender roles are indeed quite different from the modern views. The men in society are the bread-winners where as the women take care of the children and home. There are basic and common work roles, however in terms of behaviour and involvement there are gender role distinctions. The sex roles generally play out in modern society as well, some sex roles and stereotypes for girls are that they are “nonaggressive, nonathletic, emotionally expressive, tender, domestic, and nurturing. Boys on the other hand are “aggressive, value achievement, attain goals through conflict, and work towards monetary success” (Whicker and Kronenfeld, 1986; pp. 8). The males in the society are “emotionally anesthetised, aggressive, physically tough and daring, unwilling or unable to give nurturance to a child” (Lewis and Sussman, 1986; pp. 1). These traits are carried out by this particular gender mostly outside the society to demonstrate their strength. Those individuals who ignore to carry out these personality traits are seen as weak and unmanly. The women on the other hand are given the responsibility of looking after the family and are supposed to have the opposite personality traits. For instance a woman can show emotions but not outside of the family because of the shame that would bring to the

Gender roles is a problem that takes place in both the workplace, domestic conditions, and society. Often signified through the age-old stereotype. That men are required of the more "challenging" or more "advanced" jobs, while women restrict themselves to the less grueling and less beneficial positions. Terms such as "that 's a man 's job" is a leading cause of inequality in the workplace. Not to mention, gender roles and standards are set in the homes of many families everywhere. The so-called "picture perfect family" situation; the husband goes to work while the wife stays home to tend to the children. While romanticized as ideal, this concept is the very essence of a patriarchal society. Meanwhile, the brutally vicious society we live in often berates women 's self-esteems in more way than one. Stereotypes of beauty, or who are skinny, pretty, white, and wealthy, are unfortunately the ideal standard of women and

Thus, more and more profound changes are taking place in the traditionally and social construction of gender roles according to sex, leading to a conception of the masculine and differentiated and hierarchical in terms of importance, according to which they were attributed to the man roles and responsibilities in the public domain, livelihoods, and results orientation, Competitiveness, and strength, and to women 's private, home-based and family-based roles, on the basis of In more emotional and relational characteristics

Although the beginning of a marriage is often referred to as the “honeymoon phase”, newlywed life is not always smooth sailing for everyone. As the excitement of the wedding begins to wear off, the reality of living together and forming your own family begins to set in. While you are adjusting to your lives being merged together, it is completely normal to experience ups and downs in your relationship. The most common problems that you will face as a newlywed couple include: adapting to life post-wedding, communication, and finances.

Within and across different cultures, we can find great consistency in standards of anticipated gender roles. In the United States, like many other countries, males are expected to be independent, assertive, and competitive. Females are expected to be more passive, sensitive, and supportive. For example, when a woman gives birth, she is the one that is expected to stay home and take care of her children while the father goes to work and is the breadwinner for the family. In society, it is more acceptable and common to see the women stay home and take care of the house and children while the husband goes to work instead of the other way around. Stay at home dads are not as common as stay at home moms. However, it is up to the individuals on what they decide as a couple. Because of this, gender appropriate behaviors can be seen because of sex segregation and starting at young ages.