Michael Oher, a young teen boy who had nothing left but himself, well at least that’s what he thought. Oher wasn’t born into the rich life, but the eight characteristics he carried with him are what made him rich. Each characteristic helps Michael Oher become a professional football player, but also winning the love of a kind family, the Tuohy family. So, how do the eight characteristics of a successful student tie into the life of Michael Oher? Summary: Michael Oher was a young boy who had to go through rough times as he was growing up. Fatheralong, Oher was taken in by the Tuohy family after they saw Oher didn’t have a home or anyone to go to for help. Once Oher gained the love of the Tuohy family, he became their adopted son, and soon he became the star football player of Briarcrest Christian School (BiJog). He became an interest to many colleges and after high school, he attended University of Mississippi. Personal Responsibility: In the movie The Blind Side, Michael Oher was part of the Tuohy family and after earning their trust, he was given a car. Later on, Sean Tuohy and Michael Oher were both in the car and having a good time riding together and on their way to pick up a new game. Oher got distracted and hit another car. After the blow both of the boys had taken, Michael made himself responsible (Hancook, The Blind Side). Accepting personal responsibility may be hard sometimes, but it takes a great deal of courage.
Self-motivation: Before the Tuohy family,
As infants grow up to be adults, they succeed and surpass phases in their development that prove mental growth has occurred. These phases, such as learning to be independent and being able to make decisions on their own or being persuaded by others, are well explained within theories created by theorists and psychologists such as Jean Piaget and Erik Erikson. These theories were created to show a unique psychological outlook on ones’ personal developmental growth. One of the most crucial phases is the adolescent stage; this stage sees a growth and development in the biosocial, cognitive, psychosocial and moral aspects of an adolescent’s life. The Blind Side’s Michael Oher is a great example of someone who is experiencing the adolescent stage. Michael Oher is a seventeen-year-old African American who grew up in the housing projects in Memphis, Tennessee and was separated from his drug-addicted mother. As a result, Michael went from foster home to foster home until he was adopted by the Touhy’s. Throughout the movie, Michael demonstrated various cognitive and psychosocial developments. Even through his struggles and experiences, he was able to overcome the obstacles and become successful as a student and as an athlete.
This movie-The Blind Side talks about how Michael Oher achieved his self-esteem during his adolescent time. Between the plots of the movie, we also included some development theories such as Erik Erikson’s psychosocial cognitive theory; Maslow’s hierarchy needs theory and also the operant conditioning theory that associated with Michael’s development.
A lack of personal responsibility can cause many problems. Not only for the person who is making the choice not to take personal responsibility but for the people around them. One such example related to law enforcement could be if an officer with a department vehicle doesn't get the
The Blind Side depicts the story of Michael Oher, a seventeen year old African American homeless boy from a broken home, taken in by Leigh Anne Tuohy, a wife and mom of two living in a well to-do neighborhood. Repeatedly running away from the group home after group home, he was placed in after he was taken from him drug addicted mother, he happens to run into the exceedingly accepting family. Only after the catholic high school football coach sees his size and agility he is accepted to the privet school, despite a 0.7 GPA and lack of a place to sleep Leigh Anne Touhy, along with only one of his teachers, take a special interest in him. The families give him
As he receives all these gifts, he becomes more comfortable with his friends and surroundings at home and at school as well. He tested in the 98 percentile under “protective instincts”. This can be seen not only on test papers, but also in near-death situations such as stopping the airbag from killing SJ and protecting Mrs. Tuohy from the gangsters in his hometown. Every other subject his teachers have tested him in, he has failed miserably. Therefore, Mrs. Tuohy hired a tutor, Miss Sue, to help Michael get better grades and learn more efficiently in school. Other than schoolwork, Oher has grown into a great football player as well; he has learned to play his position at left tackle, protecting the quarterback’s blind side.
Mike Winchell,Permian’s starting quarterback, strived to make his father proud. His father, Billy Winchell, had been in an oil accident that “Had cost him his leg,” and eventually his father leg go,all too soon for Mike(Bissinger,73). Mike’s fathers death at 13, combined with his parents split-up when he was 5, forced Mike to grow up at a very young age. Billy and Mike had a very strong father-son relationship,and his father assisted in coaching Mike the sports that he played; Billy was a very demanding and harsh,but compassionate instructor, guiding Mike through his baseball and football career. Billy was very leaneate in certain charastics of raising his son,but also consequential in other aspects,insisting “He had to go to college,there could be no two ways
Unfortunately, his father was murdered in prison so he could not overcome that obstacle. However, he was taken in by a foster family named the Tuohy’s who made him happy and treated him like real family. Biography.com says, “The young boy was finally taken in by Sean and Leigh Anne Tuohy when he was 16, and the Tuohys became Oher's legal guardians when he was 17”. In his junior year of high school, Oher began to excel in football. By the beginning of his senior year, Oher was the starting left tackle on the varsity football team. He quickly became a top football prospect in the state of Tennessee, which led to multiple scholarship offers from Division 1 schools.” This means that when he was taken in by Sean and Leigh Anne Tuohy and they became his legal guardians he began to excel at school and football. His mother was taken into a rehabilitation center, but this was an improvement since at least Michael was able to see her sometimes. His other siblings were all taken to foster care. It’s amazing that while he had all of these obstacles he still overcame them with a determined attitude and the help of some special people.
Also he officially joined the Tuohy household at around the same time. For him, life and football became intertwined as he became a top prospect for colleges because of his high school games. Chapter five is a transition for the book, shifting towards how the stars aligned for Michael to become the prime example of a star offensive lineman. As he grew as a person and football player, the game evolved with him. When he got more mechanically skilled, Oher stood out. Meanwhile in the NFL, there was “a new prototype of the NFL tackle that made [Oher] so interesting to football coaches.” (103). Now he was a star, the perfect build and skills to make the NFL, which for a high school athlete is incredibly high praise. Without the growth he experienced playing for Briarcrest, Oher would not come close to the opportunities he received. Now more than ever he was his own person, and he had a way to express it through
Michael Oher throughout his life overcame several obstacles that shaped and helped him become a strong, stable, achiever. Michael Oher grew up in the ghetto complex he called Hurt-Ville. Living in Hurt-Ville was terrible it was just like the name it hurted living there. You had to deal with gang violence and
Michael Oher is a complex character, this is mostly due to the fact that he speaks very little, and so in order to understand him better we must look at his actions. In the movie After watching the movie The Blind Side it is easy for one to see that at the beginning of the film Michael struggles with internal conflict, specifically about school and his living arrangement with the Touy family. The first time we see Michael really open up about his internal conflicts is when we hear his poem entitled “White Walls”, in this poem Michael talks about how he does not want to listen to the teachers and that he feels out of place in this new school. With the Touy’s Michael also feels out of place, this is shown the first night he stays with them,
Furthermore, community in sport occurred in the movie when the Tuohy’s took Michael in as their own and made sure he had everything he needed to get into Ole Miss. The Tuohy’s feed, clothed, and brought Michael a car to help him, but others thought the Tuohy’s were using Oher because they knew he’d be successful along the way, also the NCAA stated that Oher was being used as commodity. In the movie Parent-Child interactions occurred when Michael and Mrs. Tuohy was in hurt village and mike told her don’t worry ill protect you, that part established a form of trust between the child and parent. Also, when Mrs. Tuohy went over to the head coach telling him to coach up and play Michael because she knew he could be something special. The concept of interpersonal communication appeared in community of sport in the blind side is when every college coach showed up to the home of Mike but he did not know but Mrs.Tuohy knew but mike was never aware, therefore, it was a non-verbal communication between the coaches and Mike, also because of his talent but none of those coaches asked about his academic standing, they all wanted Mike because his football
In, Touching Spirit, by Ben Mikaelsen, the author provides multiple examples of “accepting responsibility”. When Cole encountered a life and death situation with the Spirit Bear, Cole realized how beautiful nature was and felt sorry for everything he ever hurt or destroyed. Cole was about to die, but Garvey, Edwin, and Rosey helped heal him. Luckily, Cole had another chance to return back on the island, but he had to pay for all the supplies he needs to survive on the island. Back on the island he had to build and cook food all by himself, but Garvey and Edwin tutored him along the way. Everyday, Edwin made Cole wake up to roll an ancestor stone and soak in the pond to release all of his anger. After Peter tried to commit suicide twice, Cole
Michael Oher was born in Memphis, Tennessee in May 1986. His father was a conventional at the local prison and his mother was a drug addict. He was one of twelve children. Because of this he reiterated first and second grade and switched schools 11 times in just 9 years. He was put in foster care at age seven and often switched foster homes. The periods in between foster homes he was often homeless.
The main character Micheal Oher’s, who is introduced to us through his rough life growing up. Micheal never knew his father and his mother was a drug addict. HIs mother gave birth to a total of fifteen children, who of course due to her drug addiction raised themselves basically. Michael spent his teenage years running away from a string of foster homes and situations. Michael got tired of foster care
“The Blind Side” is a movie based on a true-life story of how Michael Oher goes through the difficulties in his life before he becomes one of the best defensive players of the NFL football team. Growing up in a broken family; where he had a drug-addicted mother, the father being in the prison and he, himself was always going in and out of the foster homes, as the audience, we all probably have already expected what will happen to this young man.