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My Colrity : Personal Reflection

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Throughout my pledge process, I always questioned myself. I questioned whether I should even be joining a fraternity and if it’s the right thing for me. I questioned if I even could fit the persona that these brothers wanted me to be. These types of questions tore me apart throughout my pledge process, however… they lead me to ask myself another question which has shaped me to the brother I am today. That question is, ‘what can I contribute to this chapter, while being myself?’ By continuously asking myself this, I am given a reason to keep on climbing to bigger and better things. This has allowed me to make those early and essential connections with brothers during my pledge process which then helped me push my fellow pledge brothers along with me to the end. Even after being initiated and becoming a member of Kappa Sigma, I still try to ask if what I’m doing is enough, whether it’s in academics or on the rush committee. During my pledge process, I would use this question as my reason to help and contribute to the chapter. Like if a brother didn’t want to do safe ride, I would volunteer in their place, if the block needed to be cleaned, I would be the one pulling out the mops and starting the dishes, and when a brother needed some food, I’d get some panda express and take the bus right to the block or even cook for the brothers right in their rooms. To some, this might seem like I was just a pushover and I was easily manipulated to do these remedial tasks, but to me, I

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