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My Experience Essay

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There are many experiences that play a part in my effectiveness and limitations with me helping people. I spent twenty-five years as a hairdresser, which gave me a lot of experience listening to people talk about their problems and solutions to life. I also became very comfortable with the details of their personal lives. I come from a large family, I have three sisters, so with four girls in the house my parents taught us skills that I have kept. We were taught to work as a team, to respect each other and have good communication skills. I started taking church seriously after my children were born. This is where I learned to be more patient and compassionate with people. With all the life experiences I have, the ones that have taught me the most are the hard times in my life. My parents divorced after being married for thirty years which was heartbreaking for my sisters and myself. I was a teenage mom and then married and divorce after a twenty-five year of marriage. And the biggest challenge and life changing time for me is when my son started using and became addicted to alcohol and drugs. There is a saying, “What doesn’t kill you makes you stronger”, This describes me during the many years of going through this difficult time with my son. I do believe our own life experiences help prepares us to help other people. Three skills I have that I feel helps me with helping people are; honesty, active listener and being able to identify my own

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