I have been fortunate enough to have grown up in a content and supportive family. My parents are still married, my grandparents, and even some great grandparents, survived to see me grow up, and I have a good relationship with my immediate and extended family. My family and my experiences with them have formed me into the person that I am today. Despite having an average, middle class, white picket fence life, my family is not as ordinary as they seem on the surface. The element of my family that has had the most impact on me and my character is the fact that most of my family is set up in a matriarchal fashion. In short, the women of my family are resolute, confident, and in charge. Although the women of my family are in …show more content…
Despite these roadblocks, my self worth and determination was unshaken. Luckily for me, the lessons that I had learned in my family life provided a solid foundation for my character. During my first years at my Christian school, I readily imposed my opinions on gender equality into every debate or argument I stumbled upon. Ok, maybe it was more like the arguments and debates that I started. I showered my unlucky opponent with Bible verses supporting women, examples of successful females, and my own personal experiences with unflagging women. After a while, I began really enjoying and reveling in these often occurring, heated discussions. I even began seeking them out. This game of bait and catch that I played, however, left me with few friends and even fewer minds changed. It was in my freshman English class that I had a revelation during one of our class discussions. The teacher had asked us to pick the gender that we viewed as the better one and walk to the wall designated to that specific sex, and I was furious. I stood up, when it was time to pick our side and watched every single one of my classmates saunter over to the wall assigned to the male gender. As each kid took their spot against the wall, I sat down in my desk located in the middle of the room. This caused my teacher some concern. As my confused teacher approached my desk, I grew more and more incandescent. She proceeded to ask
My family is anything but ordinary, but it is this uniqueness that has shaped me into the person I am today. I grew up in an Indian family of 9...yes 9! It’s not that I have 6 other siblings; alongside my parents and older brother Jaineel, I also live with my aunt, uncle, two cousins, and grandfather. Indian tradition calls for the sons of the family to care after their parents when married, so my dad and and his brother deemed the best way to fulfill this role is to have a joint family with their father, wives, and children. My cousins, Annika and Zuri, have been by my side since day one and are truly considered my sisters. Living with so many people had changed me for the better; I have learned to greatly appreciate the love, support, and
I believe every natural of people have family that comes with a downfall, and always turn out to be functional by sticking to their values, culture, and beliefs. As for my family, I believe that culture and the nationality plays a big role in the household. I was raised by strict Haitian parents, that was always tough on me about education, responsibility, and independence. I believe my parents was only strict on me the most because I was the last out of four children's, which is I was the youngest. Alfred Adler did a family constellation and birthorder were Adlerians believes that the sibling closest in age and most different is the sibling that most affect how one defines the self (cite pg94). I related this to my life because I have sisters
In addition to the roles of gender roles being a factor to the importance of family, each member of the Younger family has
Last Fall, I took an Interpersonal Communication class from Josie Wood at Chemeketa. While I enjoyed most of the class, I remember one project in particular which I initially rejected as not applicable to myself. We discussed in class that men and women generally physically carry themselves differently and interact in the world in differing ways using non-verbal cues. Our text explained the non-verbal communication we use is often influenced by gender. The list for women seemed submissive and yielding. This is not how I saw myself; I expressed as much to Josie. She encouraged me to become more aware of my actions as I likely had internalized more female traits than I realized. I came to understand that through subconscious
Through our values, heritage,and traditions, my family has created who I am today. Although we can be loud and crazy, we are also loving and have each other's back!
Throughout my life, I have been extremely family-oriented as I have luck enough to get to know my grandparents and various cousins. My grandpa was my role model and introduced me to fishing and camping. After I joined Boy Scouts, he hoped to attend trips with the troop and gave me his tent and bought me camping gear at Christmas time. Watching how
I am not a member of your typical, cookie-cutter, All-American family. My older brother is the complete opposite of the traditional, overprotective, role model. My younger sister is not the best friend all the movies make it seem she should be. My parents are separated but refuse to make it official because divorce is looked down on in our Nigerian culture. And I love every piece of them. My family and the things I’ve learned from them have shaped me in ways most will never experience.
My family has impacted my development as well. Being the youngest of three louder siblings, has made me soft-spoken and easy-going. Many families have one or two kids and having multiple siblings has given me more perspective into life. I come from a large catholic family. My family’s clear beliefs and ethics influence me to be selfless, loving, and
My family has shaped who I am today. What is so special about my family, though, is how close we are. I see my cousins almost every week and there is never a dull moment with them. My grandparents, Sitto and Grandpa, keep my family going. They have allowed all twenty five of us to live a successful life. My grandfather created Industrial Protection Products and Industrial Protection Services that both sell fire protection products used in departments all over New Hampshire, Maine, and Massachusetts. My grandmother, known as Sitto in the Murphy family, assisted him in his work and shared ownership for many years. These two linked companies are run by my dad and my uncle. Without the success of my grandparents, my family along with many other families, would not be the same.
The master, ascribed status associated with being a woman has countless affects on my experiences and how it has designed my life. Everything I do is with the mindset of a woman, whether it is how I dress or how I speak. From the time when I was young, I was the first female child within my generation. Even at the age of five, I recall countless times where I had to prove I could “hang with the boys.” This sort of initiation occurred in countless ways from doing gross dares to having to show I can take a punch—literally. Enduring all this mayhem only seemed natural because I did not want to be seen or treated differently from the boys. Time passed and my woman-ness became even more prevalent as boys were able to get away with things that I could not. “Close your legs,” “girls do not play with toy guns,” “Put down the Gameboy, go play with
My family is an important part of what has shaped me into who I am today. My family is a huge part of my life and they impact me a great amount. Since I am around my family a large amount of time they have impacted almost everything about me. My beliefs, worldviews, actions, thoughts, attitude, and overall character have been shaped by my family. Everyone spends large amounts of time with their family when they are younger. It makes sense that a person’s cultural identity is shaped by their family, since that is what they are exposed to for their whole life. I like the same things that members of my family like and I say the same words and phrases that my family says
In class we discussed as a group about sexism and its effects on society. It was an interesting class that put so much perspective about the ramifications of this behavior. This discussion was around the same time of the Donald Trump scandal, where he made sexist comments and putdowns towards women. It made me realize that this is a current issue within the United States, where women especially are stereotyped or discriminated because of gender expectations or appearances. Thinking about the scandal, my outlook on the issue was that ‘men will be men.’ I wasn’t aware of my own micro-aggression that was being targeted towards my own gender. This class was an eye-opening experience where I began to realize my own perceptions and how I normalized
I was born in a family that is very connected. My family would help each other in many ways including help in homework, tests, quizzes, keeping the house in shape order and so on. The most important thing in my life is my family. The reason why I value my family so much is because they help me in my everyday life. My brother helps me with school, my sister helps me in writing my essays, and my mother and father keep the house clean and stable. If I didn’t have such a family, I would not be the person I am today.
No one can’t meet a family like mine’s. My family is well diversified. Every family member plays an important role in all my family’s lives. In my family, there are four people: my father, my mother, my little brother and me. My father is one who brings money home and is also responsible for organizing and planning family trips. My mother is the one who is in charge for making meals and makes sure everyone eats at the appropriate times. My little brother is the pet of the family. He actually doesn’t have any responsibilities, for he’s the pet. I am the rock of support in my family. I always go beyond my parents’ expectations. I also support my younger cousins and little brother, by being a role model that they can look up to. Another
In 1866 just before the family was to leave for America she was badly burned. Some of