As I entered the building, the depressing atmosphere overwhelmed me. The hallway was hollow; the light was gloomy; the air smelled obnoxious. I wanted to run away. This piece of memory comes from my Sophomore year when I first worked as a volunteer at the cerebral palsy center for children. You may be thinking, what an unsympathetic person I am to even have these feeling, but before all that, please keep reading. It is hard for people to distinguish indifferent from independent. Believing independence was the only essential component of the mature state, I tried my best to reach the it yet I interpret independent was partially wrong. Though my misinterpretation of independence led me to become tremendously autonomous, it also made me to …show more content…
Children with cerebral palsy often manifest symptoms, including but not limited to poor coordination, weak muscles and inability of speaking. Thus, they often only have indoor activities. When I took the child outside, he climbed around cheerfully on the trampoline and could not stop giggling. Honestly, I could not imagine someone could be so delighted for just such a simple thing. After he played on the trampoline for a while, I brought him some watermelon. However, he insisted on passing two pieces back to me. While I was wondering why he did that, he said, in broken pieces, “No, these are for you. You must be tired as well.” Although his pronunciation was vague and indistinct, his words precisely awakened parts of my heart that had not been completely dominated by obsolete “independence”. It led me to wonder, is it okay to be dependent? Does this idea violate my understanding of independence? After we spent the whole afternoon together, it was time to leave. Suddenly, he grasped the corner of my shirt firmly and asked me to please stay. Before this experience, I thought the only thing I could get from this was community service hours. Looking at him now, I felt something more valuable yet indescribable. I felt my responsibility of being an adult was not only caring about myself but also helping others who are in
When my older sister, Molly, was ten years old, she was a temporary cripple. Molly went through a pretty big surgery that would stop her from tripping over her pigeon toed legs. While living a couple months in her wheelchair, an uncle of ours came to visit. His warm welcome to my sister was pushing her into a corner, locking her wheelchair, and calling her a windowlicker. Thankfully, my sister has tough skin. She took what others would find scarring, all as a joke. It is hard not to be reminded of the unexpected response my sister gave while reading the essay “I AM a Cripple” by Nancy Mairs. Within this essay, the author describes her life as a cripple suffering with MS. While sharing her thoughts and emotions (gerund) from
I belivie that in the past and even today men are seen as the stronger sex. They are the ones who make the destions and control most things. This fact makes me want to work more harder and stronger to be able to take care of my self. I see my self as being able to be independent and deserve to be happy. And I want everyone to to feel and see themselves this way. I'm also fully aware that I'm not quite ready to be completely independent. My age has a lot to do with that. Most people wouldn't rent out an apartment at 17 years old. But as I continue to grow and change I will become more mature and capable of reaching that leaves of independence.
Being that i am getting older in age my declaration to you is that i get more freedom and to liberate. I'm writing this because i find it unfair that my brother had more freedom than me at the age of 16. I believe that with the same amount of freedom gave in to my brother and sister i will be more social and a more pleasant person to have around. I will gain more of a personality.
A morbid melancholy stole over me. Anxiety gnawed at my heart. I was a living corpse. There was a feeling of chill in the air every day as I felt. I faked illness so as not to go to school. Despair hangs heavy in the stifling air. It was a dreary day for me , cold and without sunshine. I dread people and always avoid people. The door was locked from the inside. A cold grey light crept under the curtains. The windows were secured with locks and bars. The room felt cold and sterile.The flowers faded for want of water. A single lamp was suspended from the ceiling. The clock ticked louder and louder in a quiet room. I regarded the room as a refuge from the outside
For my final project I interviewed my mother’s friend Tammy Carnes who’s son is diagnosed with cerebral palsy. During our interview we discussed what it is like we raise a child with a disability, and how the educational system aided in dealing with her child’s everyday needs. After completing this interview I feel a little more understanding of how the parent of said child may feel when dealing with the educational system meeting their child’s particular needs. A high point of the interview was Ms. Carnes’s surprise to the amount of dedication the educational system is making to ensure their teachers are well prepared for the different types of disabilities children may have. A part of the interview that surprised me was how truly patient
Many people dread Mondays, but I always looked forward to Mondays spent at TOPSoccer. This student-run, community-based program enables children with disabilities to learn the sport in a supportive environment. This is where I met Evan, an 11-year-old with cerebral palsy. Evan was limited in his mobility and had speech difficulties, which made communication trying at times, so forging a relationship with him was challenging; understandably, he wasn't the most willing participant. Over the next four years together, I continually sought new ways to engage Evan, whether pushing his wheelchair around the field house or playing catch. With my encouragement, Evan's attitude began to change. By my senior year, Evan's grinning face and clapping hands
Independence to me is the freedom to make my choices and take full accountability of the choices I make. I first realized my true independence in the summer of 2014 when I had the opportunity to spend two full months in Stockholm, Sweden visiting family. I had never before traveled by myself outside the tristate area, and let alone to Sweden. The reasons I wanted to travel to Sweden were mainly to see family, embrace new cultures, getting out of my comfort zone, and gain a new perspective in life.
The meaning of independence” is a book on the political journey of the three important men namely john Adams, George Washington and Thomas Jefferson, who were the first to seek independence for themselves and their country people. This is a beautiful book is written by Edmund S. Morgan in 1976. Who was also the writer of popular books such as Benjamin Franklin (2002) , Inventing the People: The Rise of Popular Sovereignty in England and America (1988), which won Columbia University's Bancroft Prize in American History in 1989, and American Slavery, American Freedom (1975), which won the Society of American Historians' Francis Parkman Prize, the Southern Historical Association's Charles S. Sydnor Prize and the American Historical
I slowly get off the plane, wishing I could go back to Bangladesh. I am going to miss the fourteen years I have spent there. Surprisingly, I’ll even miss the unclear foggy sky and the dreadfully slow traffic. My family wanted to get out of this corruption and move to a better place. They decided to go to a large country in North America called Canada.
Under the amalgam of leaked gasoline, rain puddles, and tobacco smoke is the smell of which is irresistible for an only child - the smell of independence. The place where this smell reeks most strongly is the place where independence was born, in the great city of Philadelphia..
Along with many other Zers, independence is my “thing”. Since I was a little kid, I’ve had to pave my own way through life. My older brother and sister were always competitive with each other, but I couldn’t do everything they were doing because I was younger; I stuck to playing dolls by myself instead of playing sports with my siblings. I don’t really play with dolls anymore; however, I do not want to go to Marquette University and major in business like my older siblings. To my parents dismay, I also dread having to do things other people want me to do. I am always being told to clean my room or to do the dishes, and the very fact that I’m being told what to do makes me not want to do it. This is also seen when I’m told I can’t do something,
It was suffocating, walking through that hallway. Every step I took in it, the less bearable it got. “Why am I doing this?” I was saying, “This is horrible, I’m above this. I should go back inside, watch some TV. No, c’mon it’s just the heat. I’ve already gotten this far.” I kept
On July 2, 1776, American achieved its independence from the British and was recognized as a country, but at this time slavery was still in full force. I do understand when someone tells me why celebrate a holiday if your people are still enslaved? I myself don’t really value the holiday as a freedom day, but I do still respect the sacrifices that were fought for my freedom. A lot of people on social media were voicing their harsh opinions regarding the holiday and don’t really observe it as a day of independence. I think there is a lot of awareness regarding the true meaning of the holiday and how black people don’t want to celebrate a holiday that has little to not meaning to them.
In this story, the main characters are seven friends and one man. Some of them have known each other since their childhood. They all look alike but they are so different. They all fight for their independence. Friends all have really gone an extra mile. And how are they different, you will find out from the pages of this book.
Graduating and getting out on your own is a difficult step to make. There are a lot of things that you have to take into perspective. The choices that you make when you get out of highschool believe it or not are crucial and life altering. Decisions that you have to make are ones like what you want your career to be, where you want to live, and a big decision is buying a house. In making these decisions you have to do a lot of research and things to be prepared. I did a lot of research in hopes of finding a career that I would like and three things that I could see myself doing was owning my own spa ($100,000 yearly salary), managing a spa($60,000 yearly salary), or being an