“You better not act a fool outside this house” Grandma would tell me as a very young boy. My family dynamics as a child I would say was far from broken, there was plenty of happy moments with no kinds of abuse or neglect. However, it was different, and it was hard. My mother was fifteen years old in December 1994 when I was born, and my father was not there, and just recently have I connected with him on any type of level. There was eight of us living in my grandparents two, bedroom home in West End as my grandparents took in three of my grandma’s sister’s children due to personal problems and addiction. My uncles were essential in helping me find my identity and self-worth in my Birmingham City experience in my early elementary school years. They and my granddad were the only male figures in my life for the first eight years. Everything a normal father would do and teach his son about life, I learned from them. One of the most influential and loving overall person in my life has been my grandma. She checks every box, and more of the functions of the grandparent the textbook discusses “managing, caretaking, coaching, assessing, nurturing, assigning, and patrolling… they tell children what to do, and how to do it “. (Faye Z. Belgrave, Kevin W. Allison, 2014, p. 154) Although her discipline was no joke, she was the most expressive with her parenting towards me, even more so than my mom, who was young and learning how to parent. Momma was and still is an expressive parent, but
My great-grandmother was raised by her mom, dad, and other relatives. She, and many cousins, were raised up as brother and sister in a close-knit family. Harriett Marshall, my great-grandmother, was born in Saltillo, Tennessee on January 7, 1931. She has lived through many trying times. It is a blessing to live through so many events that changed the nation, even the world. She has lived through the following events and many more: The Great Depression, World War II, the historic signing of Jackie Robinson, Brown v. Board of Education, the Civil Rights movement and many more.
Many of us take people in our lives for granted and don’t realize how important
If I had the opportunity to interview anybody in my family it’d be my grandma because she grew up very poor and had to work for everything she ever received. She now is a millionaire and has traveled all over the globe. Grandma has always been a brilliant lady, and has had a full life.
Right when I walked through the door, I got a burst of happiness. I felt safe, warm, and loved. The house smelled just like a fresh batch of moist, delicious brownies right out of the oven. There wasn't a single time I walked through the door and felt disappointed or sad. This feeling is just one of the many reasons my grandma had a huge impact on my life.
“Stop making excuses. We both know you can just stop it” huffed my grandmother as she angrily turned around and left the room. This unemotional and crass behavior my grandmother was exhibiting was not something I was accustomed to having directed at me. I was her firstborn grandchild, her only girl, and it was scary to me that she would treat me like
There have been countless influential people in my life that I’ve come across. One who was a meticulous inspiration continues to be my grandfather. My grandmother had remarried to the one I call “grandpa” when I was at the age of five, and they both took to each other’s grandchildren as their own. With my mother and me only living a mile down the road from their farmhouse out in the country, I’d spent heaps amount of time there as a child. Indeed, I had been without a father but my grandfather stepped up to the plate and had taken me under his wing and willingly played the personification of a father figure.
Religion has always been around for many years and will continue to live on. Since 2014, there are an estimated 4,200 different religions, all over the world each believing in different things Having their own set of rules and tradition that must be followed. Storytelling became a way to give people advice or telling people what would happen if they disobey their religious rules or tradition. In the story of a grandmother, it critiques religion for the way it can lead to snap judgments and a loss of freedom.
I was able to provide a private space for LD to express her grief, to extend my sympathy and allow her to verbalize her loss, grief, and sadness and to some levels guilt about her dislike for grandma’s old cultural ways. I advocated on LD’s behalf in seeking supervision to address my concerns about LD’s safety in the home. I spoke to the supervisor, and together we spoke to LD’s dad about the 31 year old male tenant who is renting a room in the house. Grandma was a constant figure in the household and was always there to supervise, in her absence, I felt the need to communicate with LD’s dad about the presence of the 31 year old and who would provide supervision. Dad has adjusted his schedule to be there in the household to supervise his children since his mother’s death. I engaged, assesses and intervene on LD’s
Oh Junior, such a poor kid. Growing up with such an array of disabilities has definitely taken a toll on him. Seeing him constantly falling victim to teasing and bullying certainly makes me sad but sometimes I feel that he brings it upon himself; of course I am not allowed to say that though, being his grandmother I am required to be supportive of my grandson. I wish that he would somehow manage to at least find a few new friends. The only kid I ever see him around is that Rowdy boy. I know that they have been friends since birth but he is absolutely cruel and is constantly fighting others on the reservation - I do not think that he is a very good influence for Junior to be around. Rowdy had
Who in your life has caused you to become a better person? For some people it's a parent who has shaped you since the day that you were born. For others it's the stranger who always says hi to you when you see them on the street. Maybe it’s the couple down the block who struggles to make ends meet, but always has a positive attitude. It may even be the person who has hurt you the most. These people make us a better person even when we least expect it. I never realized the effect my grandmother had on my life until she stopped recognizing me.
So i spent the night at my grandma and grandpas and in the morning we all woke up in the morning we all got in the van and all the kids including me took nap in back and when we got there we had to put camper up and take boat to ramp to get it to the campsite
Ever get the chance to put together your own outfit for the day? Well, I mean literally have you ever had to sew together your outfit? If not, well let me start it off with “WOW!”, grandma's work isn’t as easy as it seems. Not only did i learn how difficult it is to sew, but i had the chance to be able to express my funny side. This week i chose as one of my portfolios a unique project, where i sewed together my outfit. At first, i envisioned it being a joke, since i would never wear it personally, but I saw the fun and good vibes it would bring to the classroom atmosphere. We started off with the simple idea of creating one of the outfits used by one of the boys in the movie, The Sound of Music. First, we had to sketch out a drawing of the outfit to get an
I will always remember going to grandma's house on christmas eve,me and my family are so excited to open presents, eat the great food and spend time with family.My grandma has three kids, my mom and my uncles.She has two sisters and five brothers.She was born on 1046 at Celina.Grandma has two grandkids me and my brother Collin.My grandma is sweet loving and generous.
I knit constantly. It all started when I was nine years old and, my family and I spent the holidays in Jackson, Mississippi with my dad’s side of the family. On Christmas morning, we awoke to Mannheim Steamroller’s “Deck the Halls” echoing throughout the house. If you’ve ever heard this version you know there’s no sleeping through it. With a handful of aunts, uncles, grandparents and cousins, wrapping paper flew and ribbon was strewn about, the hardwood was a field of red and green. Soon, I came across a pair of huge size 50 wooden knitting needles and a skein of multicolored yarn. My grandma was going to teach me how to knit.
I will tell you a tale of a woman of great success. This is a woman that has inspired me to be something great one day and to never give up trying. Though she may be growing into her elderly years she has lived a very challenging, joyful, loving and successful life. She is a woman of great faith and character, she is my grandmother.