This paper is written to share my personal spiritual journey. I will discuss the influence my family has had during my upbringing on my religious and spiritual practices. I will additionally share how my spirituality has changed and evolved over time as I married and now have a family of my own. This paper will describe how spirituality has determined and motivated my personality and the adult I have become. This will help me to expound on how my personal spiritual beliefs will establish a respectful, collaborative, and caring relationships with my future clients.
Introduction
From the time I could comprehend that certain people, beliefs, behaviors and things had value, I have held my family in a high level of importance. I enjoyed being a part of my family and since I was the first child of my parents and the first grandchild of both sets of grandparents, I was doted on. This was never so apparent as the advantageous attention I received from the grandparents. Throughout my childhood, I was safe, secure, felt loved, was taught right from wrong and attended church and Sunday school regularly. The values and attitudes that were taught in the church were modeled at home. The early focus on God and Christ became imprinted in my mind and became a solid part of my personality even as an adult.
Early Years I was born in a small town in South East Alabama called Dothan. My mother and father’s parents lived in the same town and I was blessed to spend a large quantity of time with them. I see this time now as quality time that truly instilled in me my beliefs that have stayed with me all these years. My granddad owned a grocery store within the less privileged area of the community and I spent a lot of time there with him. I saw first-hand my granddad’s spiritual kindness and generosity towards all people in this part of my life. He frequently bailed people out of jail anonymously, helped them when they did not have food or paid someone’s power bill when they were about to have the electricity turned off. I learned later that my granddad was not always a good Christian example. He had previously been an alcoholic, smoked cigarettes, was unfaithful to my grandmother, could be mean spirited and was
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The Lord states all things are possible through him (Philippians 4:13, King James Version), this is the motto I find myself holding to at this juncture in my journey as a novice researcher. The journey is similar to climbing a mountain, where the experiences will encompass both successes and struggles as at the peak the finished product will demonstrate an understanding of the process the identifies a topic and addresses the problem. This week I found a reflection wrote in April when I took this course but withdrew due to caring for my dying Grandmother. I am pleased that I did apply some of my advice without realizing, but saddened that some I did not as it applies to now. During both attempts at working towards completing the capstone, I experienced significant life events related to family losses and over commitments. Thus, this paper reflects and compares the advice from April with what I have learned and would suggest in the future. In April I advised myself to make a plan and manage my time when reading material for the research (Klinger, assignment 2017, April). Additionally, it cautioned on the element of self-care and commitments, which would have been wise to have read at the beginning of this
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Almost everyone has a worldview of spirituality. More frequently than not it is unspoken and held silently. Therefore, many individuals have questions and seek apprehension through curiosity. Furthermore, there are several people who are strong in their beliefs and do not have a quavering devotion to the Lord, but have complete faith. There are also several that are strong prayer warriors or know at least someone that is. However, many claim to have faith, yet they never stepped into a church. There are also numerous individuals that do not necessarily pray, yet others feel prayer is a false hope. Throughout the circumstances, people generate positive thoughts and energy through the hardship of life. Nevertheless, they are evenly essential to me because they, believe, as life attempts to devour them. To me that is the key element of the matter, belief. My spiritual journey goes something like this.
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