All people look for love in this world and the perfect person in out there for everyone. The ideal spouse is a woman that takes care of her husband. In Suzanne Britts “Neat People vs. Sloppy People” she states “ [sloppy people] give loving care to every detail”(55). A wife will not be sloppy for her husband is the sloppy one. She will clean his messes after him. A perfect wife has to be out there it can’t be too much to ask.
A wife will keep a perfect figure year round. She will cook five star meals every night anything less is unacceptable. In Judy Brady’s I Want a Wife “[the perfect wife] will cook the meals she will be a good cook”. (51) A wife's duties are the most important things in her life. Sloppiness is just a side effect to their
The traditional gender role of a women includes participating in household work, caring for their children, and showing obedience and dependence towards their husbands. “The Good Wife’s Guide” reinforces the traditional gender role of females. “The Good Wife’s Guide” is written in the 1950’s, after women have gained suffrage. The author of the article goes in depth of what he or she believes is the role of a woman. The first direction of the guides states, “Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready, on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have been thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they come home and prospect of a good meal (especially
The article is about how a not perfect wife will hold back her husband and he will not do well at work. The article tells women how to be a perfect wife and what not to do. A perfect wife is “Friendly, part of her community, her primary interest is her husband, her home, and her children” (page 335). This article makes the board conclusion that if a women is not the perfect wife, her husband will not be promoted or even loss his job. Bad wives are “Complaining, domination, and wife-in-a-rut” (page 335-336). This article tells women how to behave as if every marriage is the same, it also makes it sound like if a women is anything but the perfect wife then her husband will not
In the short story ?Why I want a wife? by Judy Brady, she goes into detail what being a wife is like. The tedious details of day to day activities, the strain and hard work of being a ?good wife?, and the unappreciated
In Judy Brady’s essay, “I Want a Wife,” she examines why she would like to have a wife. Brady believes that a wife performs all house chores and the husband does nothing, but to expect the wife to do everything for him. Brady tries to persuade the reader to look at a husband viewpoint of what a wife should be. The essay was written during the early 1960’s, during the second wave of the feminist movement in America. Brady is pushed by certain reasons to write, “I Want a Wife” to show the humanist humor.
In the 1970’s the average family had a wife that would take care of all of the cooking, the cleaning, everything concerning their kids, and even caring for her husband too. They did all of this without complaining, while their husband was at work. In those times nothing less was expected from them. In the article “Why I Want a Wife” Brady uses ethos, logos, and pathos to illustrate her opinion of what a wife do in a marriage, in which she infers that wives do too much for their families.
In Britt’s essay, “Neat People vs. Sloppy People”, Suzanne Britt criticizes neat people in a humorous way for certain behaviors. Britt creates a humorous tone and a good impression for sloppy people. This excerpt appears in a book “Show and Tell” Britt writes “It is her journey into the awful cave of self” (214). At first, I was offended by Britt’s essay, but after I realized Britt was using humor, I was able to look at my sister and her sloppiness differently.
Are neat people inferior to sloppy people? This question’s answer will differ depending on the type of person you ask. According to Britt in her essay, “Neat people vs. sloppy people”, the answer is yes. She uses certain qualities, such as oral description to differentiate neat people and sloppy people, how neat people are lazier, and how neat people are wasteful. Her qualities help explain to the readers why she thinks that her answer is true.
In paragraphs three through seven, Brady provides the reader with what she desires in a wife. Through repetition and tone, she shows the reader the unrealistic roles of a wife.
The title of “Neat people vs. Sloppy People” in relation to the whole essay representing the main message of the article discussing the similarity and differences from these topics. In this case, the title was effective, showcasing the idea the essay was talking about. Therefore, the implication of the text was effective since it reflected the title.
In the writing, “Neat People vs. Sloppy People” Britt focuses on contrasting two diverse people, neat and sloppy. At first glance one would believe that her criteria is what is sloppy and what is neat, rather than how the two think. She concentrates her criteria on moral and sentimentality of the two oppositions. “They have a cavalier attitude toward possession,” Britt wrote about neat people. This explains that neat people don’t care about the sentimental value of an object. Neat people focus on neatness solely. In contrast she writes, “Sloppy people can’t bear to part with anything. They give loving attention to every detail.” This opposes neat people. Sloppy people care about each and every object individually. Sloppy and neat people are
Society has told us for the last hundreds of years that the woman’s job around the house as shown in Figure 1 is to cook, clean, and take care of the family. One man, Tom Junod, who
In Judy (Syfers) Brady’s article, “I Want a Wife”, she expresses her opinions in a satirical commentary that offers hypothetical criteria for an ideal wife, with an underlying message that deals with how people should be grateful for all of the deeds and chores that women do. Brady utilizes the strategy of
In Dave Barry’s “Batting Clean-Up and Striking Out” and Suzanne Britt’s “Neat People vs. Sloppy People Both show similarities and differences between the many personalities, the organizational structure of the essays, the literary elements used in both text, and the many connections they share and their thesis statements. Barry’s essay is the more leveled out humor essay because he creates a balance with his humorous tone, gives personal evidence, and uses point by point structure. However, Britt’s essay uses subject by subject structure with a bolder humorous tone.
When Brady classifies herself as “a wife and mother” she is automatically labeled with the responsibilities that were enforced by societal beliefs of that era (Brady 229). Women were considered inferior to men and struggled to gain equality. Husband's required too much of their wives as to their physical needs; “I want a wife to keep my house clean.” Their social needs, “When I meet people at school that I like and want to entertain, I want a wife who will have the house clean, will prepare a special meal, serve it to me and my friends, and not interrupt when I talk about things that interest me and my friends.” In addition, their sexual needs, “I want a wife who is sensitive to my sexual needs, a wife who makes love passionately and eagerly when I feel like it, a wife who makes sure that I am satisfied.” (Brady 229-230). Women did all these things everyday to please their husbands, although they received no fringe benefit in return. The cultural values that were viewed at this time emphasized the discrimination and equality that Brady desperately wants her audience to
Another disagreement I have with Brady is that she makes it seem as if the duties she is listing out wife duties, she does not support her statements at all which make it seem as if only she encountered these events such as when she says, “I want a wife who will listen to me when I feel the need to explain a rather difficult point I have come across in my course studies...I want a wife who will type my papers for me when I have written them.”. This makes it seem as if most, even all husbands will go back to school and have their wives do their class work for them when it may have just for Brady.