There are four very different parenting styles that can be used in the upbringing of a child. Uninvolved parenting style is the combination of indifference with limited acceptance and involvement. Parents with this style are negligent and seem to not care about their children. They give nothing and expect nothing. Children with this kind of child rearing experience tend to have depression and anger problems. They also suffer in academics with weak self-regulation. These children, as adults have great difficulties because they cannot adapt to a world full of rules and laws, when they had none growing up. Many of these children and adults may end up in trouble with the law enforcement. Permissive parenting style is when parents are high …show more content…
The Authoritarian parenting style is high on control with no acceptance or understanding, which can even be called oppressive at times. These parents are the highest authority in their homes and are extremely harsh and expect perfection at all times. Children who have been exposed to this parenting style are usually apprehensive and have little to no self-regard. Nevertheless children exposed to this kind of style typically are better athletes and artist because they can perform well in tedious nonstop practices because that is all they know and understand. They perform better under authority. Consequently, these children lack creativity and imagination. They can even be bullied in school due to their submissive and servitude traits. Unfortunately, this may lead to possible suicidal thoughts. Obedience does not automatically mean intimidation. The most successful and effective parenting style up to date is the Authoritative parenting style. This parenting style is the amalgamation of high acceptance and involvement with flexible behavioral control techniques. Authoritative parents are the most successful because they provide a stable environment that invites growth and change instead of stifling it, they also provide a strong resilient family and where their children may feel safe. These parents are the perfect balance between assertiveness and understanding. Children nurtured with this style
Permissive parents allow complete freedom to their children and there is very little discipline visible. Permissive parenting was “Popular in the 1950’s and 1960’s” because of all the troubles going on during WWII. (5) They like to tell their kids “One more time…” whenever the kids do something bad. An example can be if Timmy asks his parents if he can go to a party. They tell him he has to be home by 10pm. Then his parents tell him the limit is 10pm. Then he suggests 12pm and because they do not want Timmy to be angry with them they let him do whatever he wants. Permissive parents have a fear that their kids will not like them. Unlike authoritarian parents, permissive parents make rules but they never enforce the rules. The children in this parenting style are usually immature, dependant, aggressive, and unhappy. They do not do well academically because of their inability to regulate to the school rules.
Concept 2 - Parenting Styles There's three parenting styles there's authoritarian, authoritative, and permissive. An authoritarian parent is someone who is strict, imposing many rules and not nurturing. An authoritative parent is someone who is allowing discussion with the kids, placing limits and nurturing. An permissive parent is someone who is inconsistent with few rules and very loving. For me, my mothers parenting style is authoritative, she can be strict, being not too
How a parent raises their child can affect the child later on in life. There are four parenting styles: authoritarian, authoritative, permissive, and neglectful (uninvolved). Each of these parenting styles can affect a child in some way. Some parenting styles have more negative outcomes than others. Some have both positive and negative outcomes.
• Evaluate the different types of parenting styles and their influence on development during infancy and early childhood.
Authoritarian parents normally do not interact with their children in positive ways and usually install fear into the child. Punishment is usually harsh and given without explanation. Children with authoritarian parents are often anxiety- ridden. Studies have shown that these children have lower self- esteem, show high aggressiveness and typically do less well in school. Permissive parenting consists of high nurture and acceptance, but these parents lack structure and control. These parents look at their children as “free spirits” who need space to learn and grow. Permissive parents are usually inconsistent with discipline. Children with permissive parents normally are impulsive and irresponsible. These children also lack any self- control since none was expected (Sclafani 47).
Which parenting style will lead to a child becoming successful and stable in life? Many argue about the answer to this question. There are four main types of parenting styles. There’s authoritarian parenting which follows a set of strict rules and doesn’t necessarily nurture the child; apathetic towards their emotions, demanding a sort of blind obedience from the child. Authoritative parenting which takes a more moderate approach; setting high standards, nurtures, and responds to the child’s emotions. Permissive parenting which is reluctant to impose rules and standards, preferring to allow kids to regulate themselves. Finally, there’s the hands-off parenting in which the parent doesn’t involve themselves
There are several parenting styles which guide children throughout their life. These parenting styles can be either good or bad and this will have an effect on the child; either a positive or a negative one. This essay investigates the parenting styles from which emerge questions about the role of the mother and the father. It also focuses on the ways that either too much mothering or too much fathering might have an effect on the child’s identity later on in its life.
In my recent psychology class we studied parenting styles. They are grouped into three different categories; authoritarian, authoritative, and overly permissive. This gave me insight into a couple of different programs I’ve watched on television.Authoritarian parents are parents that set strict rules to keep order and they usually do this without much expression of warmth and affection. “They demand obedience to authority.” (Coon & Mitterer, 2010, p. 91) When the child questions the parent, "Because I said so," is often the response. Parents tend to focus on bad behavior, and not positive behavior, and children are scolded or punished for not after the rules. Authoritative parents help their children learn to be responsible for
The four parenting styles are authoritative, authoritarian, permissive and neglecting-uninvolved. I will start with the authoritative style “creates a positive climate for their children, promoting autonomy and supporting assertiveness and individuality”. (Broderick and Blewitt, 2015). Authoritarian style is “parents that are low on responsiveness, but highly demanding”. (Broderick and Blewitt, 2015).
Diane Baumrind lays out four parenting styles. These styles are authoritarian, authoritative, permissive and uninvolved. The authoritarian parent is a parent that has high
Children that grew up with parents with an Authoritarian style of parenting often had poor social skills, lower self esteem, and basically always concerned of their actions because they are afraid of the consequences. Children with Permissive parents know that they will always have it there way. Children that grew up in this way of parenting tend to me immature, and often escape responsibilities. Children with Authoritative parents tend be better off than the other children who’s parents style of parenting was either authoritarian or permissive. These children turn out to be the happiest, most successful and basically a more cooperative friendly child.
This is a less positive parenting style, which tends to look at the wants and needs of the parent rather than the child. These parents have excessive demands regarding, expectations, behavior, and obedience, with less flexibility. These parents also do not account for the child’s interests, talents, strengths or weaknesses, and are denied expression or opinion. These caregivers use more power assertion, as children’s discipline is usually corporal and harsher. As a result these children have more difficulty with socialization, and tend to follow impulses, as caregivers are inconsistent with discipline (Baumrind 1967, 1971 as cited in Covell & Brain
The primary focal point of the authoritarian style is on respect rather than parent-child relationships. Authoritarian parents are known for being strict. They lay out rules and expect their children to follow them without question, even if the child has a valid reason for questioning a decision. They establish many rules for the household and leave little or no room for negotiation on policies. Authoritarian parents also fail to explain why the rules exist because they believe that, as the parent, they are the authority on all decisions and shouldn’t be questioned.
by parents, and for the most part with children’s best interest in mind which is one of the main similarities. The parent does not choose a parenting style the parenting style chooses the parent. However, knowledge of the parenting styles and the effects of all three will help parents decide how they can raise their children in a way that is most
When raising children, parents tend to develop certain parenting styles. These styles fall into four general categories that are defined by the behaviors the parents exhibit in most situations. One of the styles, that is thought to be the least desirable parenting style, is the authoritarian style. Laura Berk, author of Development Through the Lifespan, describes this style as uninvolved parents who are unaccepting and controlling of their children. This style of parenting produces children who have high levels of anxiety and unhappiness, along with low levels of autonomy (2014). Another style of parenting is the uninvolved style, this style is also viewed as undesirable. Much like the name would suggest, the parents that fall into this