The first heartbreak I ever had was not even one of my own. I let words and sentences from a love story run through my blood, and to my heart, where it then cracked, fell apart, and possibly stopped beating for a while. I laid in bed for days. Perks of Being a Wallflower, why did you do this to me? I realized everyone has their own personality when it comes to reading. My reading disposition holds a deep sense of empathy. Because of this, in every story I read, I transform into any character I (sometimes) choose to be. I then experience the story more heavily since I am apart of it. I have learned that the trait of empathy can send you down a tunnel of agonizing pain that does not even belong to you, or it can put you on someone else’s …show more content…
Mental health was beyond the ability to be anything but mentally self-eroding. Confidence was lost on a map of self love that I had erased. A friend of mine had bought me a mainstream poetry book called Milk and Honey. They thought it would render me some “help”. It sat on the shelf for months until one night my ears were fed a TED talk by the author, Rupi Kaur. The book had been scanned by my eyes twice before they involuntarily shut on my third attempt. A book is no remedy for a broken heart, or a depressed little teenage girl. But THIS book is the exception. Particularly because the author speaks to me, and I see her in me and me in her (Or maybe that is just the empathy talking). Poems of self-love and recovery hung in shiny frames in my head for weeks. Through her words, positive feelings were generated.
These emotions created an aroma of love that now encompassed my body; the sweet smell of warmth filled me up. Poetry was once something that frightened me, but it ended up saving me, and continues to save me everyday. My love for myself and poetry had been found. It is astonishing how just words pieced together can cause someone to travel to dimensions of places and emotions, all while sitting stationary in their room. Our language is how we communicate, but it is not just communicate
The novel, Perks of being a Wallflower, displays an adventurous journey of a high school freshman growing up into the world. Written by Stephen Chbosky, a teenager named Charlie struggles to make friends and enjoy his high school experience. Throughout the story, he creates and breaks new bonds between diverse and special characters. The main theme of Perks of being a Wallflower is growing up. However, under this theme, there are multiple subcategories. For example, within the theme of growing up, Charlie meets new people,experiences changes within his family, gains new friends, and developed advanced literary abilities.
After beginning to read “The Perks of Being a Wallflower” by Stephen Chbosky, I have realized that this is definitely a story about growing up and just facing the trials of being a teenager. The book is made up of letters written from the point of view of a freshman in highschool named Charlie. He is a very interesting and dynamic character but, he is also very relatable. In many ways he is similar to the teenagers of today, even though the letters are dated in the early 1990s. However, Charlie struggles to understand people and simple social cues which makes me wonder if he has a mental disability.
Emotional Instability is most often caused by a traumatic event in life. This leads to an individual growing up to have drastic mood swings without reason. Examples of these mood swings are lashing out, dangerous/reckless behavior, crying randomly, isolating oneself from society and experimenting with alcohol/drugs. Stephen Chbosky’s book, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, follows the socially awkward Charlie entering high school after his only companion ,Michael, commits suicide.Under those circumstances, it is evident that this experience impacted Charlie because in various parts of the book he often becomes overly aggressive or breaks down crying for no reason. Similar to the Perks of being a wallflower J.D Salinger’s ,Catcher in the rye,
Passivity in The Perks of Being a Wallflower There are many life lessons to learn from in Stephen Chbosky’s, “The Perks of Being a Wallflower”. One of them being, “Do as you wish. Be as you are”. Charlie, the protagonist of the novel, is a high school freshman just trying to fit in. Throughout the novel he is faced with many difficulties as a teenager.
Homework can be a valuable learning tool to help students retain information. It allows them to go in depth exploring subjects they find interesting. However, excessive amounts of homework can cause students unnecessary stress and actually be counterproductive, turning them away from subjects they might otherwise enjoy. In the novel, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, by Stephen Chbosky, the author believes homework that engages students can spark their interest in a subject. Charlie Kelmeckis, a freshman student, tries to find his place in high school after being burdened with the suicide of his only friend, and being labeled as an outcast due to his shyness.
This modern, coming-of-age novel written by Stephen Chbosky follows the teenage life of a new freshman named Charlie. Through his letters to a mysterious stranger, readers follow his typical and not-so-typical experiences as he learns about friendship, relationships, sexuality, drugs, and everything that teenagers are often faced with growing up. Charlie gives insight into the non-glamorous life of a so-called “wallflower”. The use of “Point of View” in this novel not only creates the entire story line, but also adds a personal affect and relatable connection between Charlie and the reader. It is seen through his letters, and the way he writes them.
Love is often perceived as a lustful emotion, one that can cause irrational behavior. However, it can also be a force for good, helping individuals “find themselves” while maturing and forging new relationships. Both types of love are demonstrated in Stephen Chbosky’s novel The Perks of Being a Wallflower.
Everyone has a movie that helped them through a specific time in their life. Either they watched it over and over again, or it was related to what they are going through. Perks of Being a Wallflower is the movie that influences me the most. This movie is continuing to help me deal with my journey of being in high school. I relate to Perks of Being a Wallflower because I was a scared freshman, watched my senior friends graduate, and now I am the older sister to a freshman.
Summary of Plot The Perks of Being a Wallflower is an endearing novel written by Stephen Chbosky. The main protagonist is an introverted and attentive teenager by the name of Charlie. In the exposition, Charlie begins writing letters to an anonymous person. He does this because he was told that the person would read whatever was sent to him.
Stephen Chbosky’s film “The Perks of being a Wallflower” and J. D. Salinger’s book “The Catcher in the Rye” are two coming of age texts which link to the theme of alienation through the ‘coming of age experience ' . Both protagonists in the film and novel experience alienation from their respective societal expectations. Charlie from “perks” is a reserved teenage boy who is tormented by his past of sexual abuse and death of his aunt and best friend. Although isolated by his own reality, Charlie seeks out to gain relationships and has stable reliable support systems. Holden Caulfield from “catcher” is an ostracised vulnerable teenage boy who is growing up in the 1950s being extremely at odds with his identity and self belonging. Holden’s
I never read this book until after I watched the movie this past year. My little sister gave me the book and we read it together, making it even more special to me. After reading The Little Prince it made me want to stay in touch with my imagination and childhood wonder as I get older. For, “All grown-ups were once children... but only few of them remember it.”
We chose to write about Patrick. Patrick is played by Ezra Matthew Miller at the age of 20. Patrick is a senior at the same high school Charlie goes to and shares wood class with him. He jokes a lot and doesn’t take things seriously and therefore he isn’t a very good student. In the beginning of the movie Patrick is joking around and leads him to getting the nickname nothing and soon everyone at school start calling him that. He has a stepsister named Sam who’s one of the main characters and they share their love with music. Patrick is homosexual and has a boyfriend named Brad. He doesn’t struggle with being gay but his boyfriend does so they keep their relationship a secret. When Brad’s dad
In the novel The Perks of being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky, the story follows Charlie who is just starting his first year of high school. He has lost his Aunt Helen as well as his good friend Michael. He has always been a bit of an outsider and the two people he lost were the the people that seemed to understand him the most. After that he became even more strange to others, everyone constantly waiting for him to crack.
During my English 2070 course over the summer, we explored different aspects of personal relationships and finding our true self by studying several of literary works. Taking this class wasn’t exactly what I had I mind to take over the summer. Surprisingly, I actually enjoyed the class. As I watch these characters come to life, I couldn’t help but relate to some the struggle they faced as life goes on. Some the struggles I share with the characters are: Loneliness, Depression, and finding personal meaning to life. The themes I will mention is this essay show some the darker moments of my life I personally called: The Dark Abyss.
The average American teenager has grown up in a world of labels and stereotypes: from movies depicting high school as an environment where exclusive friend groups command the school to magazines portraying flawless people and rendering them the paragon of beauty, American teenagers are constantly under pressure to conform to a certain label. The book The Perks of Being a Wallflower by Stephen Chbosky follows a boy named Charlie as he enters high school. His mental illness is apparent throughout the text, but it is never acknowledged until the very end of the book. The novel is a series of letters that he writes to an unknown recipient. His impartiality and honesty in his letters create an objective view of the events that unravel throughout the story. The Alan Review even describes the story as “one of the most honest literary portrayals of teenage life within the last decades” (Glenn). The high schoolers in The Perks of Being a Wallflower are submerged in a society where labels are prevalent: if one does not belong to a certain social group, they are deemed outcasts and ostracized by their peers. Charlie is lucky enough to have found friends in high school who accept him for who he is. Others are not so lucky, and are forced to change who they are in order to appease the societal pressures to conform. These individuals are left wondering who they really are, after years of pretending. The pressure students in high school face to fit a certain label and conform to the