"Do you want children", they say. "No", I half mumble. "Do you want to get married?". "No!", I yelp in arm flailing exasperation. "Oh you will definitely have children after the lovemaking when you find someone," said a coworker at my previous job. "You need a man!", said an older black woman in a commanding tone. As I am trying to form my identity as a college student, these are the phrases that I hear. To them I respond: Am I a danger to society, and the world, in general, If I don't have a 'man?Am I a threat to the world order? Maybe, I'm just a minority in this view, but I do not feel incomplete because I don't have a "significant other". I am more concerned with producing lucid and poetic writing than I am with getting "coupled off." Therefore, the wedding ring and the wedding dress that society says I …show more content…
I wonder if I am a standoffish and close-minded individual who doesn't want to be in a vulnerable position.Maybe the vulnerability part is true. It's funny because while my mind ricocheted with these doubts, I subconsciously believed that I would fly solo forever out of choice. I just pictured that I would lead a colorful and unconventional life filled with adventures in rain forests, deserts and zip lining. I then imagined how watered down my adventures would become If I had a significant other by my side. I usually conclude with the self-deprecating thought, "maybe I'm just too selfish." Excuse me, but I don't understand why people are guilt tripped for not having a significant other. I've gotten genuine surprise from adults and peers alike when I say I don't have a boyfriend. Maybe they are shocked by my resolute spirit that will not be crushed by their belittling reactions. I feel the tang of a backhanded insult when people try to make me feel better when they nonchalantly say, "you'll find someone," in an optimistic
in 2014 I had done a lot of fundraising in the past year such as selling about 50 spam musubis a day plus cookies and brownies and even selling bentos and doughnuts ands finally trail mix bars during school. even outside of school I did fundraising from car washes to even mowing yards. eventually I made enough money with the help of all my family to get to go on the trip. I even made more money so I could relinquish it so I can buy gifts and such things like food. I'm not infallible at Japanese because it so happens that I cant read any of the signs that are in japan. when we landed in japan it was amazing because the airport was so huge and had paintings that look so amazing. when we got our luggage, it was pouring rain when we went outside to the bus. it was about an hour and a
I have heard the phrase, “life isn’t easy”, so many times in my life. And I finally realized the truth in it.
cancer is the enemy. cncer kills over 20 thousand people a day occording to global report. this terrole disease is so common 12.7 million people a year find out they have cancer and of that number rouggly 7.6 million die. cancer being the leading cause of death world wide has led to several fundraisers to support our courageous fighters. a fundrauser i have been lucky enough to participate in is a 5k run/3k walk. i was 13 when i partocipated in my first 5k run/3k walk in stuttgart germany for a light the night for all kinds of cancers. pervous to the fundraiser i was sadly told my cousin who was just a baby at the tome had been diagnosed with luekimia. immediately i wanted to help, i began by spreading the word around my school and having my friends buy tshirts titled
The darkness consumed my cousin, but not completely. A part of me did not want to believe that she committed a mass murder and maybe, just maybe it was someone else. But the proof that the police needed was all there. We weren’t that close but it pained me to know that someone who i thought to be as a kind and caring person could kill people.
Last year, in October during the cheerleader’s concert, that my mom and dad were singing at, I asked, “Do you want to dance?” My mom said, “yes”. Walking out to dance, she fell and accidently tripped me and landed on my ankle. It felt as if someone was breaking my leg in half. It got really numb where I couldn’t feel it, but I still knew I was in some pain. Picking me up off the ground, my mom sat me on the bleachers. Everyone came over there and it was really embarrassing. My dad carried me to the car and we drove to the dollar store to buy me an icepack to put on it.
Auditions for the spring production of The Sound of Music quickly approached. My vocal chords did not understand the importance of that audition to me and refused to overcome my laryngitis. Rehearsing multiple times a day, drinking lemon tea with throat coat and Ricola, putting myself on vocal rest, I made every effort necessary to prepare. The day of auditions, I avoided all dairy and caffeine. After school, I nervously traversed the halls toward the choir room, every note of "That's Rich" from Newsies ringing through my head. Competitors passed audition forms throughout the room, and my hand deftly filled out the familiar paper.
Day1: Today was my orientation day, I was given a green t-shirt with the champions logo on it to wear every sunday I volunteered for. I was expected to be there at 10:45. My hours were 10:45-12:30, 12;45 the latest depending on how long the service carried on for. When I come in I ought to watch over all the kids as they arrived one after the other. I had forms I had to take home and bring back in as well as a teacher handbook to complete.
People say that siblings do not have an impact on each other, that they just fight all of the time. Well that is a lie. A sibling is a friend, family, and the one that is there when no one else might be. They are the ones that are there from the first breath, the first words, and the first steps. My brother, Donovan, is my rock. He is the one that I know that I can trust with anything. He is four years older than I am. He stands five feet and eleven inches tall. He is muscularly built with a military haircut. Usually he is wearing shorts and a t-shirt. Every now and then he will be in a golf shirt and khakis. He either will smell like his dog Rex or like his deodorant. His smile is one in a billion. When he talks, I hear a somewhat low voice with a hint of a country accent. He can be a bit of a smart-aleck. It seems like he constantly has to be moving. My brother is a guy that anyone would be lucky enough to know and have as their friend.
I am particularly proud of the fact that I did well in my event during track season. I was asked by the track coach to run in an event that I have never done before--300 meter hurdles. At the beginning of the season my times were slow and my technique was poor. I watched the other hurdlers and emulated their effort. I took direction from the coach. As the season progressed, my times steadily improved. At the end of the season I competed for a spot in the regional finals. I am happy that I competed even though I didn’t make the finals. This experience demonstrates my self motivation, my ability to overcome stress and a degree of competence I didn’t know I had in a sport in which success is largely determined by individual effort. At
“Break!” the three judges called simultaneously. The two competitors rushed back to their spots anxious to see who had scored the point that time. “Judges call points!” the center judge commanded. At the same time, all three judges raised their red flags in the air giving competitor Will Franken another point. It was the final round in the youth 4th degree black belt sparring competition. These two competitors had won every round they had been thrust into, and now they were battling each other for the gold medal at the Tiger Rock Martial Arts world tournament in Nashville, TN.
Growing up, I had a lot of amazing people to look up to, including my father. He was my hero and was always encouraging me to push myself and try new things. My father was in the military for many years and was a drill sergeant, so he was very good at persuading people to do things, my six year old self included. He taught me many lessons in life and has helped me grow as a person.
Being single, married or being in a relationship has become part of one’s identity and each of the titles come with stereotypes attached to them. In society, it is expected of people to get married almost like an instinct; so there is pressure on people to get married. This pressure is heaviest especially on women as if that defines their worth as a person. Therefore, when women of certain age are faced with the question and they answer “No”, they receive a look of pity and then follow up with a “comforting” statement such as “It is okay, it will happen to you soon.”. It makes some of the women feel inferior just because of their relationship status.
Therefore, even with the simple tale of the “Soul Mate Theory” is inadequate, especially when the person puts logical reasoning behind it. How in the world will a single person discover “the one” against millions of people? Most people would get negative with even the idea of never meeting their own true lover, and with the majority of the entertainment department pushing the idea of a partner just makes majority of people think that without a soul mate, the person would most likely live lonely with cats. Making some people insecure about being single for long periods of time because society would label them as being a “loner” or they would maybe have the idea in the back of their heads saying “I do not need a person to be happy because I am
Then the 134 arrived. I got on, showed my pass to the bus driver and
Another expectation of singleness is being wed in the Lord. I think this means that I will live my life with the lord and love him with an everlasting love as He did when He sacrifice his son and gave us life to live. We are the bride of Christ. I am His daughter who loves me unconditonally. I think we can see the fulfillment that comes from know Christ and see his goodness that is around us. He fills us with a happiness that overflows and gives me something to look forward to each and every single day. There is a fulfillment that comes when knowing Christ. He has me in his hand and loves me no matter