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Personal Narrative: How My Mom Changed My Life

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As a child I did not understand the candy-coated excuses I had been told about the world I lived in, I knew there was a larger situation I knew nothing about. I later learned why it was harder for my mother to do things, why it was harder for her to work all day then come home and play with me; I later learned my mother was bipolar. I had to understand that mom would retreat to her room with no warning and would not come out until the next day, had to understand that it was a normal thing. I can admit that I was blessed as a child, as long as you do not look too long, we lived a comfortable lifestyle while both of my parents were working and life was easy for me and my sister. But that was only when I was a small child, one day would be …show more content…

In the following months, I would become very familiar with the waiting room of the local unemployment office, and the big brick building that mom always had to drop papers off at (later I would learn it was the DSS building, the building where we got our food stamps from). My mother eventually tried to find work and she did, but her illness would eventually cause her to slip back into old habits of not getting out of bed. My father saw this repetitive cycle and decided to go back to school to get his associates degree in electrical engineering, he was a good student and made the honor roll, graduating in 2009. Afterward, he began to look for work but told everyone that the jobs he applied to always told him he was either overqualified or underqualified, he began to get frustrated and stopped looking as hard. Later in life, I learned that he had confessed to my mother that his memory was going and he had forgotten a lot of what he learned before he ever graduated. My mother was tired of the situation and knew she had to get something done, so she filed for disability, and that is how we have lived ever …show more content…

Those were the times my mother did what she had to to get what we needed, she went the Baptist Crisis Center to get help with bills, the local food banks to get canned goods, and Angel Tree through the local schools during the holidays. Along with the rough time came the scary times, the times where mom did not have enough energy to clean and do dishes and dad had his hands wrapped up with my sister and me, it does not seem like a big deal; until DSS gets called. The last time DSS came, my sister and I had to stay with our great-grandmother and my father had a week to get everything straight before they came back, this was also the last time my mother was hospitalized because of her

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