Life is full of incidents and events that throw curveballs at you. It is how you deal with those trials and hardships that make you the person that you are. Growing up, I always hated when things would suddenly change, and even today I still do. One of the biggest regrets I have, though small and simple, is when I quit playing the piano. Though this seems childish and not at all drastic, it is still something I really feel badly about not pursuing. By quitting the piano, something I was extremely good at, it has not only left a lasting effect on me, but my family as well.
It began when I was a young kid and my parents made me pick an instrument to play. Being only eight years old, I randomly picked the piano because I thought it sounded interesting.
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If I had decided to get over my anger and frustration, I could have probably been just as good of a pianist as my late teacher was. Today, my parents still talk about how I used to play and what their favorite pieces were. I know they wish I pursued my talent because it not only brought me joy, but them as well. They loved to sit and record me playing and never failed to miss a recital. I know they were so proud of my ability and how I was so willing to play the piano for others. Being a twelve year old girl who developed a talent so quickly was rare for my family. My other friends as well as siblings, at the time, were not able to even play instruments like I could.
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