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Personal Narrative: Just Hair

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Hair is just hair, I didn’t think it was a big enough deal that it could cause disagreements between best friends, but I was very wrong. A few months ago, I was pushing around the idea of getting a pixie cut and my friend was trying to talk me out of it. For some reason, it turned into a heated discussion and after a while, her face turned red and she yelled “Well I don’t need my best friend looking like a dyke!” and that was something that really took me back. I was very blown away because I did not think that there was still very many people who were still against that, and I definitely didn’t think my best friend was one of them. That was the day that I completely realized much she wasn’t okay with it. I didn’t talk to her the rest of that night, I really didn’t know how to. Both me and her grew up in a small baptist school, so I understand where she is coming from and why she would think it was, okay; but I moved past what that school taught me about people who were gay, and I guess I just assumed she did too. Even though I am not gay, she was discriminating against them and it really rubbed me the wrong way. One of my other really close friends is gay and the thought of someone calling him something like that really bothers me; when she said what she said, it definitely put a damper in our friendship. …show more content…

Then I would explain to her that I don’t see it like that at all. I explained that I saw it like people having different tastes. Everybody is different and some people like things that other people don’t. Even if you don’t agree with the other person's “choices”, I was taught my whole life to treat other people with love and respect, not hate. We got into some deep philosophy one night and we ended up being farther apart from each other then we ever have

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