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Personal Statement : My Life

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In my past I was constantly striving for achievements, whether it was school, music, or good deeds in general, I wanted to be the best and stand out. This was not because those things gave me a sense of personal satisfaction, but rather it was because I wanted to finally be good enough for my dad to be proud of me or for my mom to take an actual personal interest in who I was and not what I could provide for her. By the time I had moved across the country to go to college and to, frankly, begin writing a new chapter in my life, I could name this struggle and recognize situations that would perpetuate this struggle. But by then the cycle had been set in motion. I have just recently come to a point in my life where I am more likely to not be as ashamed or self-defeating if I do not succeed or sacrifice as much as I used to. However, with that said, there are still areas in my life that would benefit from change and growth. I would like to be able to feel fulfilled in life and not have that fulfillment come from feeling like I have to constantly please others. I would also like to be able to better deal with the pressures of life before I send myself spiraling into a whirlwind of bad thoughts or seasons of depression. I most definitely believe that these goals can be brought about by personal change and counseling. Section Two: Counseling Theories Theory One: Psychoanalytical Therapy Focus. If I were to go to counseling and a psychoanalytical approach was taken, the focus

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