Tommy Starling is a homosexual male Pawley’s Island, South Carolina. Tommy is happily married to his husband and they raising two children, ages 4 and 11. However, Starling reports his family is “constantly under the microscope” because contemporary society rejects the notion of two fathers raising two children. An anonymous person even said that their kids should be taken from them and that the parents should be hanged because of their sexuality. Their city even featured them in a publication making discriminatory comments towards him and his family (Bruni). Families in the LGBTQ+ community have been forced to endure society’s harsh comments and backlash against their families for years. Starling’s story perfectly exemplifies the of oppression of LGBTQ+ families even with new, progressive laws being implemented into society. Although the government has created laws to protect LGBTQ+ families from discrimination, the social changes have not caught up to the legal changes.
Although the federal law did not support the structural makeups of same-sex families until recently, the government has made many strides to implement anti-discriminatory laws regarding LGBTQ+ families in the United States. These legal strides include laws allowing LGBTQ+ families to receive loans, something so crucial to someone who wants to have a house and build a family, without fear of discrimination.In 2000, during the Rosa v. Parks W. Bank & Trust Co., the bank denied Rosa loans because she was born
The LGBT community in the United States has always had massive difficulty fitting into our society. For many years they put up with constant mistreatment and other forms of abuse coming from the those who do not agree with their lifestyle. They have for long advocated for the acceptance of their existence and punishment for crimes committed against them. One of the hardest battles the community has had to face was the right to marry in a society that still holds the values of a traditional relationship which is between a male and female. The struggle was quite harsh but it all paid off by 2015 when the supreme court granted gay couples the right to marry. This historical decision did not go without outcry and criticisms. Most of the dissatisfaction came from those who hold very religious values and beliefs that claims homosexuality is a sin. Religion has always been a part of the American way of life since the nation's founding and with that homosexuality has been demonized throughout our society. Now that gay couple possess the legal rights to have a marriage license, religious companies and/or stores are now denying service to LGBT couples as they believe it sinful on their behalf to even take part. Many people gay or straight who fought for gay rights believe these is pure discrimination and that stores should not have the right to deny service for any customer for any reason. However, this belief is unconstitutional and goes
A few states, which rely on the myths and stereotypes, have uses one’s sexual orientation to deny custody, adoption, visitation and foster care. For example, Florida and New Hampshire have laws that forbid lesbians and gay men from adopting children. Some instances have shown how one’s sexual orientation is used to their disadvantage, such as in Sharon Bottom’s case. “In a notorious 1993 decision, a court in Virginia took away Sharon Bottom’s two-year old son simply because of her sexual orientation, and transferred custody to the boy’s maternal grandmother. And Arkansas has just adopted a policy prohibiting lesbians, gay men, and those who live with them, from serving as foster parents” (American Civil Liberties Union, 1999, p.1).
One day I was looking out my window, watching my boys play. I started thinking about how they are the future of the world. They are the engineers, presidents, congressman, businessman, and lawyers of tomorrow. Later that day, I saw a news article discussing the issue of same sex adoption. As I watched I thought to myself, “where did we forget that it was about the kids?” So, out of curiosity, I began to look up some statistics about kids that have no homes, the ones that are waiting for good families. I started wondering if it is about the kids, then why, do we care about same sex adoptions at all. There are two sides to the argument of same sex adoption, and to really get a feel for the issue you must understand both sides. However, the two sides of the discussion are not entirely complicated although the reasons are. One side supports same sex adoption and the other side opposes same sex adoption. Both sides agree that what they want is what’s best for the kids.
This issue continues to arise and spark debate year after year and decade after decade however the facts remain that this issue should simple be answered with a yes due to the fact that all humans deserve a right to freedom and as such that right to freedom will technically dictate that they will be given the right to decide any decision they may come across, however on the technical side of debate the four main theories of morality& religion, ethical naturalism, moral relativism and nihilism all present a different side and different approach to the issue.
Love is universal for everyone no matter what race, sexual orientation, or religion. However, one cultural difference that is effected by society is gay marriage. Gay marriage should be viewed as equal to straight marriage and all over the world be viewed as socially equal. Three things that prevent gay marriage from being viewed equal are religion, political issues, and stereotyping in regards to sexual orientation. I have been raised in a gender equal house all my life and this has influenced me to be the women I am today and allow me to view people as equal no matter what race, gender, and sexual orientation. These three reasons are why the LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender) are not accepted into society, but they should be
In today’s society there are certain stereotypically people that are uninterested in gay or lesbian marriage. Everyone should have the right to decide on who they would like to marry. Gay marriage should be legal and a non-punishable offense because it can prevent teenage suicides, more children will be adopted, and people will not feel like second-class citizens.
As the society changing, the history of marriage also changes. Marriage is legally recognized union of two people as partners in a personal relationship, but do those two partners always have to be a man and a woman? Most people believe that homosexuals should be granted equal rights as heterosexual couples. Being as an important social issue, same-sex marriage has become a hot topic of public debates in the recent years. For over the past decade, public support for the same-sex marriage has quickly risen. The United States is one of over twenty countries that allow gay and lesbian couples to wed. I believe that same-sex marriage should be legalized in all countries for several reasons, such as being an issue of equal rights, separation of church and state, no negative effect on the heterosexual communities, increasing in child adoption, and decreasing divorce and suicide rates.
From the time of colonization of and settlement in North America, the institution of marriage mostly consisted of monogamous arrangements between a man and woman. That said, the restrictions on marriage has lessened as time passes and society evolves; and with the evolution of society came a change in America’s traditional cultural norms, customs, and values. It is noteworthy to mention that for the majority of America’s history, displaying same sex behaviors was a punishable offense; consequently, the gay and lesbian community could not participate in marriages, civil unions, and domestic partnerships as it was considered illegal. Prejudice and discrimination in the form of marriage inequality were often ignored, however, during the past few decades, there has been a steadily increase in media coverage of the LGBT community’s unjust treatment. Naturally, an increase in recognition and supporters of and advocators for social, civil and political, and marriage equality forced state legislatures into a position where they could no longer ignore the issue and had to address marriage and civil partnership discrimination on political and legal grounds--without religious factors. As a result, the long standing and constitutional ban on same sex marriage were repelled, and the U.S. state constitutional amendments were amended to legally recognize same-sex unions; which goes to show how influential the media can be when it comes to social issues.
Ellen DeGeneres, who is a famous TV host, once said, “Do we have to know who’s gay and who’s straight? Can’t we just love everybody...” marriage is not about if your straight or gay it really about who you fall in love with and how that person is going to help you expand your life. As the year's pass, America became divided between being for or against gay marriage. The fact that in 1986 was when the court first considered the matter in gay marriage with the case of Bowers V Hardwick, a challenge to Georgia law authorizing criminal penalties for a person guilty of Sodom which prove that gay right law was questioned all the way back in the 19centuries. however, they are two supreme court decisions involving gay marriage, one decade apart, have left a lot of people wondering just where the law now stands with respect to the right to engage in homosexual conduct. However, we as the people, need to come together and help them give that right back to homosexual couples so they could be able to marry and live freely with their spouse. In addition, gay marriage should be legal in every state because denying some people the option to marry is discrimination and create second-class citizens; however, marriage is human rights and same-sex couples can make a better couple.
Catherine Hoffman and Matt Stevens both argue for gay marriage, but interestingly enough, they argue it in two very different ways. Their appeals are both similar in the sense that ethos is used, while they are contrasted through the way they present their ethos and what point of view they argue from. The primary method used for both posts would be an argument.
Every year society progressively becomes more and more excepting of things that use to never be okay or considered the norm. Television, movies, and media overall have a huge impact on making things start to seem normal and opening up people’s eyes, so they become more comfortable with it. People nowadays are greatly influenced by the media as a whole and look to it for advice on little things that us as people might not even recognize such as fashion, news, and norms. Although, being influenced by the media is not always a good thing but it has sure made huge moves for todays society. Same sex marriage on screen is beneficial to the Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender also known as the LGBT Community and even those who believe that it does not matter what gender you are you should just be able to be with the one you love.
Marriage has been around for centuries. It is our way of legally linking two people who want to honor and commit to one another. At one point in time, marriage was so simple: to find someone, get married and stayed married, religion and race did not matter. Today, more people are becoming comfortable with who they are. It now has become one big nationwide debate whether people of the same sex should share the right to wed. However, the answer is simple, why not? Recognizing and adopting same-sex marriages throughout America is the right decision because it will benefit the United States ethically, politically, economically, and socially.
Wrong, disgusting, abnormal. These are the types of words that used to be associated with same-sex marriage. Modern day values of Australia are constantly changing, thus evidently, same-sex marriage laws should be legalized to represent these changes. Australia as a nation values the importance of its citizens being treated equally. We despise the acts of racism or sex discrimination. We aim to justify the wrongdoing of others and we discourage those who deny innocent people the rights that they deserve. However, in saying this, Australia has a major flaw. All of us here today, as Australian citizens should be proud of what a high class and in many aspects well advanced country we are privileged enough to live in. But how proud can we really be when we are still denying the basic human right of marriage for those of the same sex?
On June 26th, 2015, same-sex marriage was deemed legal in all of the United States. For most, this was a huge victory and a big step in the nation. But for some, this was a huge let down. Same-sex couples everywhere have been fighting for a long time for rights to marry, while others still believe that marriage should be between man and woman. Same-sex marriage should be legal because it is a civil right, it promotes equality, and there are no negative effects to legalizing it.
Adoptions from the LGBTQ adults is a great thing because it gives the chance to make a family and put a child into a good home. It helps kids get out of the child welfare system. There are 107, 918 foster children that are waiting to be adopted, and every year there is around 50,644 kids that are adopted. That number has been closely the same for five years. According to Live Strong, “Gay parents may be able to better convince a child that they understand bigotry and discrimination because they have been exposed to them” (Live Strong). Being raised by two gay people will help the child learn that people should not be discriminated for who they want to be with. The children will have an open mind set and they will not judge others. It is important in life to have more people that want to love others instead of hating on them, and it is important to legalize LGBTQ marriage because it will spread more love around the world.