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Regrets Of An Accomplished Child Pamela Paul Summary

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“The theory risk homeostasis holds that you can make the playground safer, but children will just make increasingly risky moves,” says Pamela Paul in the New York Times article “Regrets of an Accomplished Child”. In this quote she compares the aforementioned theory of risk homeostasis with intellectual risk, stating how risk and accomplishment are by human instinct balanced out. However, in the situations of many students such as I this instinct is overrode by the fear failure. While this fear of risk is mandatory it is also necessary to combat it with a certain level of curiosity.
Everyone has a different level of fear and curiosity that spurs them to approach intellectual risk in their own unique ways. Many students avoid AP classes or honors because “in the high-stakes world of accomplished children, a B+ is akin to failure, and failure is not allowed,” as stated by Pamela Paul. In general, students have the fear of failure drilled into their heads since they were young, and to them “failure” is all about low grades as opposed to lack of learning. The few who are curious enough and have a strong enough desire to learn are the ones who are viewed as less accomplished because they take risks and so are the ones to fail, but they are also the ones who learn more. …show more content…

For example, it was only once Pamela was mid-job interview that she finally realized that it was not what she wanted to do with her life. “What happened to me dreams of writing, of public service?” Once she realized this she decided that she had to challenge every assumption she had made about who she was and what she wanted. To do that she completely removed herself from her comfort zone by moving to Thailand, a place with a different religion, different ethnicity and an unknown

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