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Self Disclosure Essay

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A very significant form of interpersonal communication that validate self-worth and personal identity is Self-disclosure. Self-disclosure is a form of communication that I struggle with personally. Self- disclosure takes place in any type of communication even if it’s acknowledge or not: small groups, interviews and on a first date. Self-disclosure is known to be intentionally but it’s a subconscious and conscious act of allowing individuals to get to know you on another level based off what you reveal. When deciding what to disclose, it is not limited to fears or failures but it is a whole rim of things :values, goals, dreams, like/dislikes,thoughts, feelings and behaviors. There’s consequences that comes when it involves self-disclosure …show more content…

I know that everyone has had a relationship that they would not trade for anything in the world. Through that relationship, you learn their routined responses which makes it complicated when it comes to self-disclosing because you withhold information based off how you expect them to respond. In high school, you always heard rumors around the school because people felt comfortable disclosing to someone they thought was worth it. On the other hand, I was more like an introvert in which I rather listen instead of engage in conversations. When it came to me making friendships, I always refrain from letting anyone get close to me because of what I seen in my environment. When rumors went around in school, the person it was about was beyond destruct. I always had sympathy for them but I promised myself I would never allow myself to be in that predicament. Therefore,, I always knew more about my friends than they knew about me because I did not feel comfortable self-disclosing based off past events that occur throughout the school year. I felt the need to learn from others experience instead of experiencing it myself. Honestly, I did not understand the importance of self-disclosure. The next school year, I was going through a tough experience involving college choices. I thought I had no resources at my school,that could assist me with the process. I used to think that I did not have real friends because they never asked me “how’s everything going?”, they just

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