It all started in my Junior year of highschool, that was the time I came to learn the “truth.” After coming back from my summer break, I began to notice strange things about the way others and myself acted, people would treat each other poorly and try to embarrass each other simply for the way people look or dress. At first I thought that the actions were just normal human reactions to something weird, but then I thought what is the qualifications for normal or weird? Who created those qualifications, and who gave them the right to dictate who is an outcast and who is with the “in-crowd?” Should human beings really discriminate against each other and treat each other poorly simply because someone else or even you yourself dictated that certain actions are weird or abnormal? Then I asked myself the biggest question of all “Should I really allow myself to be embarrassed by what others have dictated to be weird?”
Anxiety, the first feeling that hits me when the word “presentation” or “speech” is said, following that, is an overall feeling of dread when I realize that until after the project has been presented, I will need to trudge myself through thick, globs of stress and anxiety to cross over to the next set of presentations. Junior year was evidently the most convenient time for teachers to place such globs of stress and anxiety, as they appeared in a bizarre abundance. It is not as if I did badly on presentations, on the contrary I almost always received good
I hope to control my anxiety while speaking in front of a group, since there might be a situation in my field that requires me to inform others of daily logs or protocols. It would be fulfilling to get others passionate about a subject that I favor and means a lot to me, as well as presentations are an expected process in future classes and need to be mastered.
Humans often act in ways they know to be incorrect or wrong for their own social benefit, often because we fear being different. One example of this is the Asch Conformity Experiment, where 75% of participants would choose the wrong answer on an obvious question just to not stand out from the crowd. After the experiment, all said they felt self-conscious and feared disapproval from the group. Another example is when those in a social group have preferences or choices differ from the rest of the group, they will often conform to the rest of the group's opinion. Nobody wants to be the only person to dislike a certain food or think a certain way, they fear they will be judged negatively for it. As social creatures, we seek for and strive other
In our society everyone expects to be the same, however, no one is ever going to be the exact same. Everyone has different beliefs and different interests. Today people judge the nice stuff people can afford and the way people dress. In the story, “The Doll’s House”, there were two girls known as the Kelvey sisters and they were really poor. “They were dressed in “bits” given to her by the people for whom she worked” (Mansfield 203). Nowadays people judge you on appearance and if you are dressed sloppy you are more likely to be made fun of. If you cannot afford the up to date things people have a reason that they don’t want to talk to you. If you are wealthy you are more likely to be judgmental. Not all people are like this but it is known
Do you wonder what it is like for people who are different? How their life is affected by others opinions and thoughts? “Society looks down upon freakish and extraordinary individuals alike and views them with suspicion… they especially fear loners, those mysterious creatures who pursue their own values…?” (par.4). This quote from, “The Sociology of Leopard Man,” can be true to some people because society does do this to people who are different. Many people can agree with this statement about society looking down on individuals with different thoughts. These individuals change their appearance to get attention and no matter what they do society will not like these individuals beliefs. These are reasons why society looks at them in a bad way.
Society tends to have a set definition of what “normal” means as well as how people should behave. The view a population has on normality is an outcome of culture, individuals, and the environment that surrounds it. A person is raised to regard behavior in a certain way, which tends to result in them having a fixed opinion of what is acceptable. An issue of this phenomenon arises when people cannot endure others having a different standpoint on what is customary. It causes individuals to argue and leads to the inferior giving in, submitting to those whose views are much more socially accepted. When the majority pressures their opinions on
We must decide for ourselves whether to conform to such a social etiquette. We are taught as soon as we are old enough to grasp the idea that it is bad to be unique and to avoid being different. At some point, however, we must decide within ourselves whether to spend every day trying to be like everyone else because society says we should or living each day true to ourselves. Our strength as a person is proven through what we decide. The benefits of being true to ourselves greatly outweigh any negative aspects of choosing that path.
Many are different in their own ways, and they deserve to express themselves with ought being judged for it. In the article," The Sociology of Leopard Man," by; Logan Fey's, he argues that everyone should be able to express themselves with ought being judged for it. In agreement with Fey's argument, society should not consider people "freaks" for expressing themselves how they want to. This is why most people thy to "fit in" because they do not want to stand out; however, other might disagree by stating that," People only do it to get attention" Being a freak to society is being "different'', not normal.
For years we have been conditioned to think, feel and act a certain way based upon what society deems ‘correct or right’. If we disagree with this way of life or thinking we are often shunned and discriminated against for differentiating from societal norms.
Anxiety is one of the most common illnesses in America. Your palms can get sweaty, you get nervous and your blood pressure can increase. Some students can go through anxiety every day just by having to go to school or present in class like I am now. I am presenting a speech in front of a decent size class some of who I am familiar with and some of you who I barely know so that can be a bit scary and nerve racking.
I don’t believe we’re free in America. We’re haunted by our history of racial discrimination, A stupid blind hatred.
In years past, I felt as if I need to conform to what was around me to fit in or be considered a normal person. I struggled with this for a long time until I realized on how unhappy I was. I thought that if I had done all these things that I belonged with my peers .I learned that I would be much more happy in my own skin and doing things that make me happy as well. I learned that it was okay to be different and have a strange personality and perspective on life.
In my economic class it comes to presentation time, my nerves start to freak out. I always get good grades when it comes to the written parts such as the slides or the posters I make. But, it’s nothing if I didn’t explain it in front of the class what my presentation is about. My teacher understands my feeling and he tries to make me present, but somehow I miss school because of the presentation. I don’t like saying the words in my presentation slide, I always feel the tears that try to come out from my eyes and I choose to miss school. Sweats are all over my body I feel like I am in the shower when I am in front of the whole class.
This experience made me start questioning the idea of normality. I realized that norms measure a person's happiness. If a person is normal, then he or she has found security and happiness. But, what about the rest of us? Just because I have not achieved, and in most cases unwilling to achieve, the norms of society, does this make me inferior to the norms? Beside myself, many people have internally agonized over the idea of norms and how they serve society, especially dealing with appearances. Everyone comes to a point when they evaluate their lives against these standards. Often times, in a person's quest for normality, they have to conform and try to destroy their differences from what they perceive to be normal. Before they realize they are different, they are, in a sense, content with their lives. This idea can be found my many writings such as Elizabeth MacDonald's Odalique. "My hair is short can less feminine at this time, my face rounder, my body plumper.
Racism is the belief that one race is superior to another. Discrimination has been going on for generations among generations. Many years ago people of different races were divided from each other. Public places were segregated, colored people had to use specific water fountains, schools were segregated, and blacks had to sit at the back of the buses. If they were to disobey, then there would be consequences and repercussions. Equality was a figment of imagination, a dream the minority groups had. Throughout the years racism has decreased and many things pertaining to racism were made illegal, but that doesn’t mean racism disappeared. If people were to resume racist behaviors, that can lead the world back to the days of inequality.
“If we cannot now end our differences, at least we can help make the world safe for diversity” (“Diversity”). John F. Kennedy said this for a reason, to encourage us not to discriminate against others for who they are. My question to you is why do we discriminate against people for what they have or something they can 't control? Why do we think that someone with a disability is so different or incapable of doing things? I mean you weren’t told to judge people, so why would you think it 's ok? We are all made to make a difference in the world so everyone should try and show it. In our world, there is a lot of diversity and we don 't accept others for who they are: we need to celebrate those who can not control what disability they have or what they look like, such as people with Alzheimer 's.