I could really understand “Life Story” by David Shields. Shields wrote his essay in all bumper stickers. It may seem as a mess, but it is not. It made sense. The bumper stickers combined a lot of life advice. I have heard some of them before. One that I’ve heard a lot is “a woman’s place is the mall” (Shields, 83) I’ve also heard, “I may have grown old, but I’ll never grow up” (82). The sayings are very humorous but they still have meaning, not all of them. I think it is interesting how someone could put all these bumper stickers together and make an essay that made sense. After reading Shields’ essay “Life Story”, I have found that it is related to me in several ways, such as: cultural, religion, biographical, biological, and other things.
First, I think that I share with the author a biographical background with the author. Shields say “I may have grown old, but I’ll never grow up” (82). For me, I think the same as Shields said. It is true that we become old, but the fact that we do not want to admit it. Everyone wants to go back to being young. They are old in bodies, but their mind is still young. I think this is due to the fact that when you admit that you are old there is nothing left for you to do. Your body becomes weak, but your mind still the same. However, it
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shows a lot of wrong stereotypes for American and for different people from different countries. The writer notes “not all dumbs are blonde” (82). Shields indicates that there are smart blonde girls. Before coming to the U.S. I was thinking that blondes are very stupid. When watching a movie, the blondes are always stupid. In movies they never finish school and even if they finish they do not go to college and go marry a rich man or go Las Vegas. I always thought that was true. After coming to the U.S. I start seeing that the movies give me the wrong idea. The stereotype that blonde women are stupid, but after seeing with my own eyes I understand what Shields is
First, the forms of aging and life course structures depend on the nature of the society in which individuals participate. Second, while social interaction is seen as having the greatest formative influence in the early part of life, such interaction retains crucial importance throughout the life course. Third, that social forces exert regular influences on individuals of all ages at any given point in time” (Theories of Aging. (n.d.)). The movie portrays aging being more about living the rest of life rather than dyeing in them.
Review of Russell Baker's Growing Up Works Cited Missing Autobiographical works tell a story of their authors by compiling antic dotes and accolades. Most autobiographies are that of famous authors or other celebrities and provide a synopsis of life according to them. Russell Baker's autobiography, Growing Up, achieves all these things as well, but, it does more than just tell of his life.
*disclaimer: bare with me... the next 5 chapters are crap because i wrote them over a year ago...chapter 19 will be the start of some great shit*
Coming-of-age is still an interesting phenomenon because of how complex people’s personalities are. Authors repeatedly include this into their work because of it’s deep meaning. Harper Lee and David Dobbs are both examples of authors who included this concept into their work even though Lee hides it in her’s and Dobbs flat out states it. But there is one thing that both of these authors agree on, Coming-of-age involves recognizing different
The world changes faster now than ever. At the same time, in general, when people grow into their adult selves, the world progresses at even a faster rate, due to the way that adults live and experience life. As such, there is a need to express what it is like to live in such a world, while being a certain age. Ian Frazier 's "In Praise of Margins" wonderfully illustrates what it means to be a child - who is so carefree and can play without reason or aim - as well as an adult, who must always find meaning and reason in their actions, even if it means at the cost of truly enjoying life, and thus question why humans live in the way that they do. Of course, I’m on his side.
A Memoir of Survival in Cleveland by Amanda Berry, Gina DeJesus and Mary Jordan (Viking, 2015), chronicles the kidnapping of two women by the infamous Cleveland school-bus driver Ariel Castrol with their abductions, captivity and dramatic escapes. The book is currently #352 on Amazon. The shocking story ends as these heroic women escape but in Masquerade the torture continues through even after Rani divorces the maniac who had kidnapped her children and turned them against her. Just as Memoir speaks to any person trying to make sense of horrendous acts, Masquerade show women that there can be hope to escape violence.
Late adulthood in Erikson’s life stage theory is the difference between in integrity versus despair. (Ashford & Lecroy, 2013, p. 99) Doris has found her life to be very satisfying. The only thing she wishes could have been changed is the passing of her husband so early. She is content and proud of the way her children have turned out and where her life is currently. We have talked much about how things were as she raised her children and even that of when she was a child. Cappeliez calls this the reminiscence bump, the ability to recall memories from adolescence through young adulthood. (2008, p. 1) She appreciates the life she has been fortunate to have and enjoys sharing the memories she has. I observed the way her face lit up as we talked about her as a child and her children.
Lastly, one of the most common or everyday recurring stereotypes around the world is a woman’s delicateness and feebleness. The generic vulnerability of women has become a seemingly meaningless attribute to our society, spurring jokes and objects of ridicule. Being seen as feminine is still an issue in our society. To many it is belittling and insulting to be called feminine, which enforces the stereotype even more if you already are a female (Greenwood, Ambivalent Sexism and the Dumb Blonde). One of the most common sexist jokes involves the stereotype of the “dumb blonde”. Characteristics of this joke include the stigma of a blonde’s stupidity and inability to comprehend simple subjects. This stereotype of the dumb blonde is more detrimental
In 1983 Aharon Appelfeld published a work of fiction titled Tzili that closely resembled his own personal Holocaust experiences. This work of fiction revolves around a maturing teen who is alone and on the run during the Holocaust. In Tzili, Appelfeld brings to life his characters, which include Tzili, Katrina, Mark, and Linda. Throughout this literary analysis Appelfelds’ memoir Story of a Life will be used to access the parallels that exist between Appelfeld’s own personal experience and his fictional work Tzili.
life is sort of like a huge football game. I believe this because to win a football game it takes diligence, dedication and motivation. This is often true in life and so for , you need to work vigorous at what you are doing, and love what you do. It takes dedication because you would like to be a perfectionist at what you're doing otherwise you can never get anyplace in life. It additionally takes motivation as a result of what you require to possess the state of mind to begin something, and follow through, time after time, to get it right, even if it’s something I may not wish to have to do.
Aging is a part of our life that the majority of us do not want, but it will happen regardless of what we do. When we are a little kid, all we want to do is grow up and be a big kid. When we become older we realize that wish we never said that, and seem to wish that we could go back in time. We always miss when we were younger, when we could be childish, do stupid things, and people would not think us to be weird. Then, they thought it was adorable, seeing a little kid doing stupid and funny things. Being a kid gives a sense of freedom; we have no burden thinking about school grades, or if we are going to pass the class. On the other hand, as a college student, there are so many things to do such as assignments, homework, quizzes, exams, and maintaining grades, but as we get older we become more responsible. Aging is inevitable and all that matters is what will we do with that time. If we waste it then we will not be happy with how our life turned out and we will keep saying, “wish we could go back”. In Mitch Albom’s biography, Tuesday with Morrie, Morrie Schwartz had a better perspective on aging and embracing his age: "It’s very simple. As you grow, you learn more… Aging is not just decay, you know. It’s growth” (Albom 118); certainly, popular culture tends to fear aging and even avoid the concept altogether, as indicated by Schwartz’s protégé, Mitch, who side-stepped his own age the closer he came to “forty,” for fear of “professional oblivion” (Albom 117). Those who wish
“Chasing Cars” by Snow Patrol reminds me of my favorite show Grey’s Anatomy. Whenever something serious was about happen this song will start playing and I would know someone is either going to die or have a sad moment. In an episode, Callie Torres, one of the characters, got into a car accident when she was pregnant. Her soon to be wife was driving and Callie asked Arizona if she would marry her and Arizona wasn’t paying attention to the road when a car came out of nowhere. When Callie got to the hospital the other doctors got to her into a ER room when they started singing “If I lay here, if i just lay here, would you lie with me and just forget the world.” This episode was my favorite one because it was a musical episode and I loved how it wasn’t like all the other episodes.
As a result of the mentor experience, my initial understanding of aging prior to the mentor experience changed. Initially, my understanding of aging what that it was an ongoing process of growth that can be denoted through the physical deterioration of the body. The body grows old, skin wrinkles, muscles shrink, and the bones weaken. However, this is not the only consequence of aging. Aging provides a new outlook on life and builds the spirit when reflecting on a life well-lived. Often times, aging is given a negative connotation when in reality it is a beneficial and positive process that leads to emotional, mental, and social growth. Consequently, one’s perspective of aging ultimately depends on their environments as well as their mediators.
“The greater the obstacle, the more glory in overcoming it.” Moliere, a famous author of the 17th century, explains that obstacles that stand in a person's way can make them stronger. This happens because overcoming an obstacle can make a person gain something and grow during the experience. This is one way a person can come of age. Coming of age is when someone grows mentally, emotionally, or spiritually. Coming of age mentally is when someone grows in their state of mind. Coming of age emotionally is when someone grows in their feelings, or in a relationship. Coming of age spiritually is when someone grows in their beliefs. This growth happens both in real life and in literature. There are many ways for a person or character to come of age
Society is big on staying and looking young. People are constantly working out, watching what they eat, and getting surgeries such as botox and breast augmentation. Our society is too concerned on looking youthful. Morrie had aging in better perspective, "The young are not wise, they have very little understanding about life. Who wants to live every day when you don't know what's going on? When people are manipulating you, telling you to buy this perfume and you'll be beautiful, or this pair of jeans and you'll be sexy It's very simple. As you grow you learn more. If you'd stayed at twenty-two, you'd always be ignorant as you were at twenty-two. Aging is not just decay, it's growth." Aging is more than the negative that you're going to die, it's also the positive that you understand you're going to die and that you live a better life because of it.