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Summary Of Without A Map By Meredith Hall

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I believe that our actions and thoughts can and can not influence our future. We also can shape the things that happen to us and we are responsible for our own actions. In the biography, “Without A Map” by Meredith Hall, it tells a story about a young girl who grew up bonded to her insular New Hampshire community and comforted by the hallmarks of belonging. She had perfect attendance in Sunday school, classmates who seemed more like cousins, teachers who held her up as a model student, and a mother who loved her unconditionally. Then at sixteen, she became pregnant, and all at once those who had held her close and kept her safe turned their backs on her. The same day that Meredith was expelled from school, her mother told her “You can’t stay …show more content…

Meredith’s mother had told her, when she first found out that she was pregnant, that she no longer wanted to be seem with her daughter in the town because she was very ashamed of her and was disappointed. No matter how many times Meredith said she was sorry or apologize for what she had done her mother would not forgive her. Throughout the book, Hall tries to understand the terrible betrayal of her parents' love, a love bordered by conditions. In her story she explains how her father left her when she was little and the father had cheated on her mom with another women. Nothing had been the same ever since that incident. She explains that once she was done in the hospital she, “left the baby in the hospital for someone else to claim and walked out into the day.” She felt guilty, of course, but she had to do what is best for her because she was only 16. Meredith could not determine if she was going to get pregnant or not and she could not determine her struggles, they just came to her, but she handled everything that was thrown at her. As she grew older and more mature she was able to choose what she wanted to do with her …show more content…

She struggles because her father also has kicked her out of his house. She struggles to find herself and is lost in society. At one point in her life she was homeless and begging for food and selling her clothes and personal belongings for necessities. Meredith comes to her common senses and returns back home to start a life for herself At an older age of 30 she had to care of her mom because she had multiple sclerosis and was very worried about her, but sadly she died in her 40’s. When Meredith was 30 she met her son that she gave up for adoption, when they met there was no emotion. She found out his name was Paul and he grew up in poverty with an abusive father, it was a very important part in her life because they were finally able to meet and connect with each other. She never finished her senior year of high school, but she gets a second chance. She’s with other misfits and feels at home, during this stage she starts to find herself. She then is becoming old and weary and finds a cabin in her hometown in the wilderness. She seeks silent refuge within

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