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The Bell Jar Analysis

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In The Bell Jar, Esther finds it extremely difficult to put her thoughts into words. She loses friends as she is unable to communicate with them. She lacks relationships due to her silent behaviour. “The silence depresses me. It isn’t the silence of silence. It’s my own silence,” (Plath 18) she says. Although at first Esther feels upset by the lack of connections she has, she loses motivation to even try and explain herself to others. Unlike Mr. Chance in The Cloud Chamber, and Deborah in I Never Promised You a Rose Garden, Esther’s mental state does not improve, and she is unable to resolve lost connections. Esther’s mother tells her, “the cure for thinking too much about yourself is helping somebody who is worse off than you” (Plath 161). However, in her case, she’s so disconnected from the people who were once a big part of her life, that she doesn’t know who to reach out to. She doesn’t see herself being capable of maintaining stable and happy relationships with others when she can’t even maintain her own happiness.
“Silence is murder,” (Greenberg 74) but unfortunately speaking up isn’t all that easy. Deborah, the main character in I Never Promised You a Rose Garden has lived her whole life misunderstood, and unable to find someone she can talk to about her challenges with mental illness. She often gets worked up and frustrated when trying to talk to others about her feelings. Due to her lack of success in the past, she doesn’t have much motivation to maintain connections and relationships with those around her. Her stubborn behaviour causes her parents to force her into seeing therapists in the hopes of helping her overcome her mental state. Deborah is afraid of her illness being incurable. She has a hard time trusting others with her feelings and that they could make it any better for her. “Half of your fear is that you will not be able to be stopped and it is this fear which makes it impossible to speak so that others can understand” (Plath 192). In fear of others being unable to help, Deborah holds back. She isn’t able to maintain relationships with anyone other than her mom, dad, sister, and best friend. Other than these four people, she doesn’t have the patience or trust to open up to others. On top

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