The Consequential Pleasures of Pornography

Pornography is commonly used in many cultures across the world. Within the United States, alone, roughly 40 million people regularly visit porn sites (Streep, 2014). And yet, despite its growing popularity, only a handful of studies have explored pornography’s potential effects on sexual satisfaction for those in exclusive relationships (Bridges & Morokoff, 2011; Daneback et al., 2009; Maddox et al., 2011; Stewart & Szymanski, 2012; Stulhofer et al., 2010; Zillmann & Bryant, 1988). As using pornography can potentially have negative effects on both the user’s and their intimate partner’s sexual satisfaction, it is important to

To begin, pornography has addictive characteristics and because of those characteristics intimate relationships often suffer. Today, men and women tend to become addicted to watching pornography and use it to masturbate. It has been proven that “problematic pornography is characterized by a predominant urge for behavioral engagement, referred to as a craving” (Allen 67). If both parties of a relationship have this urge or craving for pornography, this could cause their relationship to suffer. The sexual act lacks love and intimacy and becomes mechanical or second natured. Pornography has been compared to addiction and people who are addicted enable each other. Therefore, there is no

In the United States, pornography is considered to be neither legal nor illegal. With the exception of child pornography, there are no laws regarding the sell, distribution, creation, nor purchase of pornography. Despite studies finding it to be “degrading and detrimental to society”, Congress is not able to regulate pornography. One of the reasons is the current misinterpretation of church and state. Congress is not able to use religious standards of morality to judge obscenity.

Comparatively, college students are not actually having sex like the media has made them out to be. In fact, many college students do not even engage in sexual intercourse for the reason that they are not that interested in having a high number of hook ups while in school. Interestingly, the baby boomers generation feels that the committed relationships have been replaced with the “friends with benefits.” aIn the same fashion, the media has also been confusing older adults about the way the young people are living their love lives. The authors say that the young people are balancing fun and risk through sexual experimentation. Even though society has been more acceptable to women’s sexual liberation, they are still double standard issues that remain unchanged. For instance, one of the interviewees stated in the article that men can have sex with many women without being judged, while women are judged harshly for their high sexual body count. Another double standard situation is that men tend to care more for their girlfriend’s sexual satisfaction than their hook up

One of the interesting outcome that has been revealed with the studies of sexuality might be the behavior of masturbation. According to Alfred Kinsey in the 1950s, a sex researcher who studied about sexual behavior in human, concluded three main points about masturbation as; it is harmless, it is not a substitute for intercourse, and it acts as important role in women’s sexuality because its practice helps women to achieve orgasm during intercourse. However, recent research shows some incompatible outcomes of masturbation unlike Kinsey’s report. In the article, Immature psychological defense mechanisms are associated with women’s greater desire for and actual engaging in masturbation by Stuart Brody and Susan Nicholson reports that women who

From the Utilitarianism view point, pornography is seen as morally right because it provides the greatest benefit of happiness for the greatest good. The Utilitarianism suggest that there is an obvious solution that is fair, and it may be one that appeals to common sense” and that “one should choose to do that which produces a better outcome for the largest number of people.” (Mosser, K. 2013, Ch. 1.6). under Utilitarianism, pornography offers benefits in marriage because couples can revive their marriage by using pornography as a new tool to explore each others intimacy and satisfy their sexual relationship. Some

Before I started to write my paper concerning the book Wired for Intimacy: How Pornography Hijacks the Male Brain, I wanted to do some research on the author just to get a background idea of what I'll be reading. William Struthers is a neuroscientist and professor of psychology at Wheaton College. This book is appropriate for retaining information on how to help ourself avoid falling into the trap of seduction in a culture where pornography is highly watched and used on a daily basis.

The seemingly main reason there is such a growth in pornography is because almost everyone and everything in the world reacts and relates to sex. People are captivated with sex and are excited to see something new or something they have not seen before. People are always looking for a version of sex that is new or more different than the norm. This is soaring the pornography industry to grow one step further in order to keep up with the demand.

The final sample was composed of 6879.56 girls from grade 8 to 12 (Riskind, Tornello, Younger & Patterson, 2011, p. 1958). From this final sample, approximately 2386 surveys were missing data about partner gender and sexual identity, so they excluded those girls from the “analyses on a pairwise basis” (Riskind, Tornello, Younger & Patterson, 2011, p. 1958). The authors with the results were able to confirm their first hypothesis and rejected their second hypothesis (Riskind, Tornello, Younger & Patterson, 2011, p. 1959-1960). First of all, results show that people with heterosexual or lesbian sexual identity were older than people who considered themselves as bisexual (Riskind, Tornello, Younger & Patterson, 2011, p. 1960). Another finding was that the majority of heterosexual girls answered that they only experienced sexual exchanges with male partner while lesbian (40%) and bisexual (58%) reported that they had sexual intercourse with both genders (Riskind, Tornello, Younger & Patterson, 2011, 1960). However, 68 % of girls who reported sexual intercourse with only females answered and labeled themselves as heterosexual (Riskind, Tornello, Younger & Patterson, 2011, p.

The adult-entertainment industry erupted in the late twentieth century and has expanded recently due to improved technology. Millions of men and women alike watch these films and arrive to the conception that what is portrayed on the screen is how a relationship should be. In a recent article in the New York Times, it was reported that 80% of men and 50% of women feel that their sex life is lacking due to pornography, and 40% of the people within the same poll have broken up with their spouse or partner due to the “lack” of love life. Clearly, the adult entertainment gives both genders a false conception of how a relationship and sex life should be. Pornography portrays sex as overly exciting and thrilling, which can lead to dissatisfaction with one’s partner. Such a situation can cause a rift between couples that can result in divorce and break-ups, which leads to fewer

When discussing the detrimental effects of pornography use, I want to make it clear that I am focusing specifically on the harmful effects pornography has on the individual(s) watching it. Pornography is harmful to many groups and people. And the harm it brings is so widespread that I can’t even discuss all three groups. I could spend a lot of time and effort talking about why it’s harmful to those who create it (those who are exploited in the creating of it), and I could also talk about the third category of harm, which is the objectification of women, or people. However, my argument is going to zoom in solely on its harmful effects on the people viewing it.

Humanity has struggled with determining the best option to solve their ethical dilemmas that they run into in their life. Analyzing and determining the best option to take can leave an individual lost in faith and building a relationship with God. Building a God foundation in your life will help you in every ethical dilemma that you face. The only way to solve an ethical dilemma with viewing pornography is to view the dilemma according to a Christian worldview and compare different options to solve the ethical dilemma.

In recent years, the term pornography has been primarily associated with that which is accessed and streamed over the internet, rather than the literal definition of, “obscene writings, drawings, photographs, or the like, especially those having little or not artistic merit.” This form of visual pornography is a popular and successful business as it is viewed for fulfilling pent up sexual desires, however it promotes the act of having multiple sex partners without the need of any commitment. Although it is for this reason that this business is permitted, there are many overlooked, long – term affects that have become topics of controversy. Not only does pornography affect those who indulge in it, but it can influence those who divulge

Lindsay Rohland (2015) defined an ethical dilemma as, “a complicated situation in which one must make a difficult choice or decision in the face of conflicting morals.” The choice between right or wrong may seem a challenging but a person’s morals are typically influenced by religion. Christianity has answers for every dilemma a person could be facing. The ethical dilemma of pornography will be analyzed by the Christian worldview, and compared to the perspective of the pantheistic worldview.

Some relationships are brought together by the use of pornography, maybe by helping to create a spark or rekindle the sexual factor that is no longer present. Other relationships have been completely ruined by excessive pornographic use or when one partner doesn't agree with their partner watching porn and or masturbating.