Jessica Meeks
OST 286-IT1
Amy S. Bledsoe
November 2nd, 2015
Report on The Gifts of Imperfections: Let go of who you’re supposed to be and embrace who you are
“If we want to fully experience love and belonging, we must believe that we are worthy of love and belonging.” (Brown). Many of the women today only think of themselves as someone’s daughter, someone’s wife, or someone’s mother. Who are we really? Albert Schweitzer once said “Success is not the key to happiness. Happiness is the key to success. If you love what you are doing, you will be successful.” This is a key to this book and how you can succeed and life. There are some wonderful lessons that I took away from this book that I think applies very well to today’s women and their lives
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She had invested years as an expert focusing mental and physical effort on the consequences of disgrace. She immediately began to see that a large number of people she had focused her efforts on throughout the years were in one of two basic categories in life: The people who were sad, hopeless, and unfulfilled in their lives, and those who were living happy, healthy, and living with a sense that their lives were complete.
She started to analyze the information she had from her study and found that those who were living wholehearted lives were not always the most successful in life. Those people were not accomplishing more or satisfying more than others. They were simply who they are. They trusted that they were worthy of compliments and love even though they were not always successful and did not have all the things we think of in regards to successful
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She realized that all women are successful, deserve love, and belong. As ladies, most of us work over time or even two jobs to attempt and be all things to all people. We work, go to school, take care of our homes, and work to be the foundation of our families. We aspire to be amazing moms, loving and faithful wives, and leaders of the workforce. We are taught from a young age that we are not good enough. That we have to be a certain size, and have to put our husbands needs before ours. We have to cook and clean. We have to spend time with our husbands and our families and still make a living and provide for them. We have to do certain things to be a good mom, or follow certain rules to raise good children. We are told that we have to make a certain salary or wear a skirt and heels every day to be successful in the workplace. In the event that we can boldly be helpless and make mistakes, stand up and be who we are at this moment, we can have the most fulfilled life even though we are not all that today’s world says we have to
- She fought for the right of women to vote gained in 1920, for better working conditions for women, and women’s rights in general
"The female doesn't really expect a lot from life. She's here as someone's keeper — her husband's or her children's." This quote from a young mother at the time of the 1960s describes the life of women in throughout era. Disgusted by their low quality of life, a plethora of women from all over the United States came together to fight the patriarchy and sexism that oppressed them on a daily basis. They fought to better the treatment of women nationwide and to create a country, and hopefully a world, that saw women as equal to men, not just as “the second sex.” The struggle for women’s rights is a continual issue even into modern times, and while the women of the 1960s didn’t solve all of the problems women faced, they were the spark that ignited the flame of feminism. When women started to fight for their rights, it changed everything from the way companies advertised to the way men thought of their wives, who were most likely at home. The ongoing battle for women’s rights influenced the nation in the 1960’s due to the struggle in women’s
the adversity she overcame growing up to get there. And later, in the profound research in her
Some thought women and children should know their place, or other countries should stay out of America. She stood up against all the hate towards her to keep going. She hoped for social equality and what she gained was just that. Her hard work paid off as she was giving facts that people needed to know. They needed to know that no one was going to hurt them and that no matter the gender or age, we were all the same and that we should be treated the same. As Jane Addams was making her mark in this world she was making a difference just for, her one stand of opening the Hull House. She was making the bad for future to come so we may build onto it
She was talking about her own story, her father’s career life, her friend Michael Matthews’s military experiences, the way that her mother taught her in her childhood. From those real-world experiences, we can see how the different environment, society background, and family influence individual in different ways; and how individuals with different personalities react in the same background environment. She made her academic studies simply enough by offering a share of context for readers.
She never had felt limited in what she could achieve even though she was born in a generation where women were only teachers, secretaries, or nurses. Because of this, she was able to go to college and receive a bachelor’s degree which was not too common in her time. After college, in her early 20’s, she had begun to raise her family after she gave birth to her first daughter. Although her and her daughter had differences, they were very similar. Like Barbra, her daughter pursued her talents and passion in music and her son has become successful like her in raising a family. She claims that there is “no manual to being a parent and sometimes you learn as you go.” An example of that was when she was often too harsh in punishing her daughter at times and often damaged their relationship due to the fact. She realized looking back that she was punishing her daughter too strictly because of her protective nature that her mother once acted towards her. While there were many difficult times, when she looks at her daughter and son with their 6 grandchildren, she believes family was a positive influence in her life. She not only had learned to be patient, responsible, and supportive, but she also gained pride in watching her children’s accomplishments.
She talked about how children came broken into her home, and it was her job to help repair their hearts. Her book details how she handled difficult situations, showed love to kids who felt unloved and demonstrated selflessness by always putting children’s needs before her own. I sat there amazed reading her book one night; I began to pray, “Create that kind of heart in me, God. Show me how to take who I am, who I want to be, and what I can do, and use it for a purpose greater than myself.” After finishing the book, I had never been surer of my purpose and what I am supposed to do in this life. I want to show children who are broken and feel unloved they’re special and tell them about a God who loves them more than they could ever imagine. I want to make it my goal that not one single child leaves my home without knowing hope for their
Rebecca MacDonald’s story instantly impacted me as I directly saw myself in her biography. Our fathers were raised in impecunious environments whilst our mothers lived in comfortable households. Altogether, this commonality reflects the nourishment MacDonald and I received. To begin, we both questioned the influences that provoked doubt into our lives. My parents never wholly expressed pride in my work, whether it was academics or athletics. Today, I recognize potential is immeasurable, it must solely be reliant on your own character as self-satisfaction is a genuine luxury. Despite unsupportive parents and a society that can’t comprehend my hardship, I have transformed my adversity into motivation. I’m already exceptionally self-driven to
Towards the end of the book, she tries to suggest a solution to not only the challenges facing women but the world at large. The obvious answer to this is by empowering more women. Trusting more women with powerful position is a step towards realizing this fact. A world as well as homes ran by half the number of men and half the number of women promotes a diversity that will improve the collective performance of the
She had no shame in her actions and she did not apologize or excuse herself. She used her womanish wiles to get where she needed to go and get what she wanted, she was not a damsel in distress or a silent back-ground character. She essentially lived like a man, she did nothing wrong, she allowed men to marry her and she inherited their fortunes when they died. She did not murder them, or cheat on them, she simply was their wife who had the great fortune of marrying rich and her husband’s dying young.
She was able to draw comparison between her cause and the cause of their forefathers. She even draws attention to the severity of the situation, and the fact that women were giving their lives for this cause. I believe that she was successful in making her convictions heard and I would not be surprised if a majority of her audience left with an entirely different stance then when they had entered. Emmeline Pankhurst gave this speech over one hundred years ago, and looking around, I find it apparent that her words truly spoke to the audience.
She does not allow victimization from her patriarchal society and Puritanical upbringing, which shows where “[…] good women are patient, love their families, and are grateful for the lives their husbands have given them. Good women believe in and unquestioningly adhere to the litany” (Reisman 650) and where “[…] failing to put the family’s needs first and failing to be content and happy make women bad […]” (Reisman 650). These views cause her to develop resistance towards them.
Achieving a strong sense of love and belonging through self acceptance, an idea reflected in Brené Brown’s TED Talk The Power of Vulnerability, mirrors the coming of age journeys of Scout, from Harper Lee’s novel To Kill A Mockingbird, and Gene, from John Knowles’s novel A Separate Peace.
Provide five examples of sound that are included in these 53 pages. What is the meaning behind each sound? Provide page numbers.
discovery of the idea of a newfound freedom lying in front of her. When it is later revealed that