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The Making of a Young Bully

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As I was walking the campus of my high school before school, I was pretty much left alone by the other students. I entered the math building to go to my first class and was inundated by a flood of people meandering about. As I attempted to make my way through the crowd, they parted before me, providing unobstructed room to pass. I looked at the faces of hundreds of students as each of them avoided making eye contact, trying not to draw attention to themselves. The one person who looked me in the eye, quickly looked away, but it was too late; I had found my next victim. He was a half-back on the football team, weighing about 180 pounds and was over 6’ tall. None of this mattered to me; nobody could beat me in a fight, I have been doing this …show more content…

I remember many times I would work really hard to be able to beat my father at arm wrestling so that I could finally be considered a “man”. I was the only one of the six boys to ever succeed at this, yet when I did, I failed; he attributed it to an arthritic elbow of his and would not give me the credit that I desired. There was a lesson to be learned here; you cannot trust anybody to be true to their word; even when you win, you lose.
Once I realized that intimidation and fear were skills I was good at (very good at), I put them to use constantly. Not having any power in my family life, I embraced this newfound confidence and used it to inflict fear everywhere I went. One time, I had been harassing this boy in my class and he got away from me. I felt like it was a personal failing, so I stalked him all day. It must have seemed that every time he looked over his shoulder between classes, I was there. When the 3 o’clock bell finally rang, he hurried outside to go home, but I was waiting for him there too. I had no intention of actually touching him, I had learned to intimidate from a distance and was experimenting with this new skill. I had finally become just like my father. I guess if I could not get his approval, I could be just like him instead.
And finally, “we are to seize the fighter’s edge in work and in play and even in love; we are to be valiant in the face of hostile forces (Staples),” As I mentioned earlier,

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