Lauren Gray
Professor Watters
Anthropology 310
11 October 2014
Weddings, A rite of passage
“A rite of passage is a public ceremony that marks, recognizes, celebrates or is believed to actually cause a change in a person and her or his status, usually brought about or related to increasing age” (Peoples, Bailey). Almost every culture has rituals that signal a change in life. Marriage is one of the most common rites of passage in any culture. Weddings and marriage ceremonies are clear transitions from adolescence to adulthood. “Some form of marriage is known to have existed in all human societies. Its traditional function in most of these societies has been to stabilize sexual relations and to unite a man and a woman in order to provide care for the young. In addition, marriage has linked and allowed for economic exchanges between different kin groups and has served as the primary coming of age ritual for women” (Nelson). In America we are known for throwing lavish ceremonies and expensive parties to celebrate the union between two people. I’ve attended quite a few weddings and participated in one during my lifetime thus far. Most weddings in the American culture follow the same itinerary.
Before a wedding ceremony is thought of or takes place the couple preparing for marriage usually separate from their families and begin to make a home together. During the separation phase from each of his or her families an engagement occurs. A typical engagement consists of the man
In Victor Turner 's terms “Betwixt and Between” (Turner 1979). The final stage is known when the passage is accomplished, and the individual has transitioned into a new identity (Turner 1979). Victor Turner used Genneps representation of the three phases of rites of passage to explain the transition from “boyhood to manhood” with the example of “Ndembu of Zambia”(Robbins, Cummings and McGarry 2016, 62). Victor Turner, constructed on Van Gennep 's model of the three stages of rites of passage and focussed on liminality. His work proclaims that marriage rites can transform people from one family fortune to another one and promote a culture to people who may have been complete strangers in the community. In Hindu culture, there are 16 rites of passages, with the 13th, marriage, being the most important one. These rites are known as “Samskaras”. For Hindu women, marriage marks the end of being a maiden, she must leave her parents house and begin life again in her husbands home as a married woman. The rituals associated with Hindu weddings fit with Van Gennep’s model of rites of passage of the change from being a maiden to a married woman. The bride is made to change her first name before the actual marriage ceremony takes place, this is an important aspect of Hindu weddings. One’s name is what defines us and identifies our existence, the bride is made to forgo her past identity and
A tradition found in American culture that is not found in other cultures is being engaged before you get married. While in America an engagement is a sign of an impending marriage, in other cultures, such as that of South Korea, the sign of an impending marriage is when the significant others are introduced to the family.
There are many unique concepts in marriages in India that differ from American marriages, such as arranged marriages. According to statisticbrain.com, “88.4% of marriages in India are arranged marriages”. The idea of having families set you up with your significant other is viewed as a very odd concept to people of American culture. Many other norms and traditions generally seen in Indian weddings differ greatly from what you might see at a wedding in America. There are many differences such as the traditions before the wedding and what goes on during and after.
There are various customs and traditions for marriage in United States based on varying factors such as culture, social norms, and religion. There are no unique practices because most of practices are derived from other cultures. The marriage practices and customs revolve around wedding attire, before wedding, wedding ceremony, reception, and after wedding. White bridal dresses are worn with a veil in weddings. However, those not wedding for the first time can choose any color of bridal dresses apart from white. Before a wedding, most have bridal showers where the bride receives gifts from the guests. Preparation takes considerable time to plan a wedding. In a wedding, groomsmen and bridesmaids are included (Lilian, 2013). The bride’s father walks the bride down the aisle to indicate approval of the groom. “The typical 21st century wedding can now feature a supporting cast of stepparents, half-siblings, Dad's new girlfriend and her kids, the bride's first stepfather and his new wife, and sometimes even the bride and groom's ex-spouses” Wedding cakes are used and couples kiss as a form of endearment. Cakes are seen symbols of fertility. It is a custom for the newly married woman to
Firstly, the wedding life for couples is significantly different even though it still has some few things similar. In both countries, the couples will an engagement ceremony before getting to an actual wedding ceremony. They both will receive wedding rings from their lovers. Also, they will sometime hold a reception the celebration party in when they share theirs happiness to their friends and happiness. On the other hand, there are still some contrasts between for the couple before and after the wedding. In the U.S, the couples are free to choose theirs partners, their parents do not interfere their children’s decision, but the couples cannot get married unless they have permissions
1. Indian marriages: In India specially North, People believe in Arrange-marriages. The wedding style is totally different in India than other countries. People can celebrate it anywhere like Temples, Gurudwaras, Community Center, At home etc.
This lecture is all about wedding fashions, accessories, customs, traditions and superstitions. Celtic Scottish wedding practices were part of ceremonies for many hundreds of years and had roots in pagan rituals. Tying the knot originated from the bride and groom ripping their wedding plaids (clan tartans) and tying the two strips together as a symbol of the unity of the two families. Centuries ago in Ireland the most popular day to be married was a Sunday. In ancient times, the wedding kiss was considered legally binding and represented acceptance of the contract of marriage by the bride and groom. Hand fasting is an ancient Celtic tradition that involved tying the hands of the betrothed together well in advance of their actual wedding day. It is similar to an engagement, a time when both parties decide if they really wish to commit. Choosing the colour of your wedding dress was very important. In the 16th and 17th centuries girls in their teens married in pale green, a sign of fertility. A mature girl in her twenties wore a brown dress, and older women even wore black.
Marriage is the one bond between two people that cannot be unbroken. It’s something that is shared between two people, or two ‘soulmates’ if you prefer. It’s when you have a big day and want to come home to share it with your favorite person. Marriage is like an everlasting friendship. A typical American marriage is usually between a man and woman. Recently, it has been legalized for same sex marriages to occur as well, but that will get explained a little later. The tradition is usually that the man will go to the future brides’ father and ask for his permission to ask his daughter for her hand in marriage. Usually the father will say yes, and following the man will think of clever ways to ask for her hand in marriage. Usually the man will think of romantic sentimental ways and plan it right to a tee. Once figured out, the man will proceed to follow in those planned outlines and when the time is just right he will then kneel down to one knee and pop the big question. Hopefully the woman says yes, like most women do, and that’s what starts the
marriage or the celebration of a marriage. Although marriage is the main theme of this
Weddings are a cultural manifestation of marriage. Lebanese marriages are directly related to their religious sectors and geographical placements. For example, a Christian Catholic couple will get married in a Catholic church and a Muslim-Sunni couple will get married at the Sunni Islamic court. In this article, I will elucidate the basic rituals of the traditional Lebanese Islamic wedding in Beirut. Then, I will expose socio-cultural burdens in this event within the Durkheimian sociology and Evolutionism. I will conclude by highlighting the simple version of an Islamic marriage.
The average wedding in the United States costs thirty-thousand dollars (Hicken). Couples and their families spend thousands of dollars on everything from hiring wedding planners and florists to buying decorations, the dress, the food, the rings and the party favors. That
Marriage is a significant social event in contemporary society. It is a means of building new bonds between two individuals and their subsequent families. The foundations of memorable weddings are built on those that bring often-distant family and friends together for the occasion, while dressed in their most sophisticated attire, surrounded by elegant flowers, a night of dancing, captured through the lens of an exceptional photographer. Although Hinduism and Islam are two extremely distinctive religions, their matrimonial customs do share some comparable elements, like most other cultural wedding ceremonies. In both religions, they are devotedly obedient concerning religious and cultural practices in their marital ceremonies.
The purpose of this paper is to provide information through research of the sacrament that in my opinion is most meaningful, the sacrament of Matrimony. The paper will include the history of matrimony, why marriage is considered a sacrament, suggestions for future development as well as why this sacrament was chosen. Before we can begin to understand matrimony as a sacrament we must first understand its history and what the sacrament of marriage is meant to represent.
Marriage is the institution whereby men and women are joined in a special kind of social and legal dependence for the purpose of founding and maintaining a family. (Webster's Dictionary.) When a couple gets married they make a vow in front of their loved ones and their God to be together for the rest of their lives and abide by each other. In the Hindu religion, which is the third largest religion in the world, weddings are very sacred, therefore a wedding ceremony takes a lot of time and effort and it is composed of different rituals and ceremonies. The Hindu marriage, "Lagna Vivah" is the connection of two human beings in a nuptial ceremony that takes place according to their religion. It's the connection of not only the man and woman
An unknown author once said “My love for you is a journey, starting at forever and ending at never.” A wedding is a sacred union the combines love for one another in with love. Both traditional wedding and eloping are both ways of tying the knot, but when choosing the appropriate choice consider how expensive is it going to be, how simple you want it to be, and how you want to celebrate the union.