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What I Discovered My Identities

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How I Discovered My Identities When I Moved 8000 Miles from Home.
“Personal identity” is the concept you develop about yourself and is something that evolves over the course of your life, shaping it along the way1. A person can innately possess intersecting identities based on factors or aspects in their life, some of which they have control over and others over which they do not what so ever. For me, personally, there are multiple aspects or elements that make up my identity and define me as a human being. Further, we explore how ethnicity & religion and gender & ability has influenced my life and how the “The Gender Similarities Hypothesis” authored by Janet Shibley Hyde points out flaws in the gender norms that society has placed but …show more content…

It was a few of days before my freshman year was to begin and I had just moved into the dorms. I was sitting at the communal lounge area on my floor and was on a skype call with my parents who were back home, basically letting them know I was ok, when a group of my white peer’s/floor mates walked in. I was still on the call with my earphones in, but I could hear this girl mock my accent and blur out racial slurs like I wasn’t there or couldn’t hear them. I proceeded to end the call and just as I hung up and closed my laptop, the same girl said to me, “Where’s your snake, I thought all of you people had one?” right to my face, to which all of her friends started laughing, leaving me fuming. For the first time in my life I felt inferior or that I was in the minority. I was outraged as to how a person to treat another human being solely based on his ethnicity or the color of his skin and it took all of will power to remain calm, because growing up in my religion I was always thought to treat others with the most respect (how you would want to be treated) and that Karma2 (the sum of a person 's actions in this and previous states of existence, viewed as deciding their fate in future existences.) will take care of everything, so I just proceeded to smile and walk away. My religion has its positives and negatives but in that moment it made me a better person in a situation where I felt that the world was a pretty cruel

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