Achieving Erzulie In the book Breath, Eyes, Memory by Edwidge Danticat, Sophie’s ideal image of women has been heavily shaped by her Haitian upbringing and cultural norms. Her mother, Martine, and aunt, Atie have an even stronger connection with the Haitian ideals and norms which also influences Sophie. These women all have very set views on how women are “suppose” to live and behave based on these societal norms. Sophie wants to become the spirit Erzulie because she see’s it as the goal representation of Haitian femininity. A negative time for Sophie was in the beginning of the book when Sophie was regularly virginity tested by her mother. Once she finally broke her own hymen and stopped the testing, she felt momentarily powerful. …show more content…
This continuous assault wouldn’t have been a worry of Sophie’s if she was able to be like Erzulie- who has many husbands and remains pure. She would not have to even break her own hymen because men would desire to be with her and want to marry her without even engaging in sex- ultimately leading her mother not to worry if she remains a virgin or not. Another issue that pushed Sophie to leave joseph was her negative self-image and low self-esteem. Since Erzulie is the goddess of love and women this would basically be referring to her as the most attractive, and most beautiful out of all women. Surely Sophie wouldn’t be opposed to becoming the embodiment of beauty and having such standards derive from her. This would most likely solve her self-esteem issues and would have given her less of a reason to leave Joseph. Since Erzulie stands for both sexuality and being a virgin Mary, Sophie would be able to have the best of both worlds- especially considering her wife status. The only conflicting factor would be her child Brigitte. This piece wouldn’t fit into the attaining Erzulie concept but won't necessarily stops Sophie from wanting to achieve it anyway. The only way this would be possible is if perhaps Brigitte was adopted because a “pure” woman can’t be impregnated or else she would no longer be …show more content…
Since her mother was never perfect for her, she can attempt to be perfect for her own daughter Brigitte. Furthermore, this vicious cycle of a poor quality of mothering can finally be put to a stop and end with Martine. At Martine’s burial, Sophie makes the comparison of a Jezebel being similar Erzulie in that both are shameless, fearless women and how they can oppress men. This all of a sudden contradictory statement to the positives she’s used the goddess for is surprising. Although, in Sophie’s eyes, this oppression of men was a positive characteristic instead of a negative one. This made the power of Ezrulie seem even more inviting to Sophie which led her to the desire for her mother to stand for the goddess even in death. The characteristics of Ezrulie played a crucial role in Sophie’s life. From the time she was first introduced to the statue as a child, all the way to her mother’s burial- Erzulie was a key influential piece of Sophie’s being. This goddess shaped her character in slight but rather unique ways and unsurprisingly became an idol to her in the
Although a hero’s “goddess” is not always an actual god-like woman, Edward’s is. After working for Amos for three years,
In Zora Neale Hurston’s “drenched in Light,” Alice Walker’s “everyday use,” and Jamaica Kincaid’s “Girl,” each of the three moms are managing issues with respect to their little girls’ personalities. For instance, Grandma Potts dislikes her granddaughter, Isis striking trademark attributes, which are womanist, thus she is exceptionally strict on her granddaughter. This is particularly evident when Grandma Potts says that she will beat her granddaughter for setting out to shave her bristles from her jaw while she was resting. Similarly, in Jamaica Kincaid’s Girl, the mother is so stressed over her little girl’s character that she gives a long address to the little girl while continually alluding to her as a prostitute with a specific end goal to keep away from her girl being marked in that capacity in the public eye. Moreover, in Alice Walker’s “Everyday Use,” the mother likewise tries to stretch the significance of personality to her girls by showing that their way of life should be showed off prideful by utilizing the knit on a regular premise.
The author shows how Esch has started to express her rebellious side but also shows that she still feels hesitant about what she was doing. Esch is shown as a girl who’s body has started to change as she starts to become a woman. In this
She is being raised in a world where women are expected to suffer silently and to be at the mercy of their men. However, men were not expected to return this slave-like behavior for the women. This setting of the novel allows the reader to see exactly how treacherous life can be. This suffering is so present in Estrella’s family’s lives, yet she somehow is able to bring the family along no matter how difficult the situation may be. She is still trapped in between two very different worlds: "She tried to remember which side she was on and which side of the wire mesh she was safe in" (59). Her mother may be taken over by a world of suffering, but she is not so beaten that she cannot pass some of her fighting
A foil for Adele Ratignolle, Mademoiselle Reisz serves as a living example of an entirely self-sufficient woman, who is ruled by her art and her passions, rather than by the expectations of society. A small homely woman, unmarried and childless, Mademoiselle Reisz is a talented pianist and somewhat of a recluse. She represents the anti-mother along independence and freedom. The first time she is introduced in the novel she is introduced as being “eccentric and quarrelsome”, from that we are able to infer that she is unlike the other women. Later as the novel continues to progress from her house and manner of expression we are again able to infer that she is unlike the other Creole women. For her home is an apartment above everyone, with a view, that is disagreeable and often cold. Mademoiselle Reisz is the woman that Edna could have become should she have remained independent of her husband and children and lived to old age.
The issue of gender roles is one of the central themes of this novel. All the main characters of the novel spend their whole lives trying to conform to the standards of masculinity and femininity expected of them by the society. The inability of the main character of the book to meet the expected stereotypical roles not only causes them personal turmoil but also makes their social life miserable. They try to fit in the ascribed gender roles of their Dominican culture, but are simply incapable of doing that. However, the society does not understand their incapability and makes them pay for their nonconformity.
According to the Brown, the spirit, also known as Mater Salvatoris, is referred to or is known as the “ ‘…. mother…’” (222). Ezili Dantó is also known to be tough, strong, and protective of her child; however, the most important fact is that Ezili Dantó is independent even with the presence of her lover, Ogou. Brown states that Ezili Dantó, “…knows she cannot depend on him, and she would never dream of marrying him…” (235). It is then said by Maggie, Mama Lola’s daughter, “…My grandmother taught us…you don’t need man, to be the father of this…of that…we woman…we could do everything!” (236). There is an evident parallel here when Maggie practically says that there need not be patriarchy in their lives. In a similar way, the matriarchal figure of Ezili Dantó serves to show that the Haitian women do not need a “man” to be the breadwinner of the family. Along with the matronly symbol of Ezili Dantó, many women like Mama Lola had to take care of their kids, and protect their family; that was their drive –the lives of the
For instance, she wishes to dress smart only in case an accident should occur so that her body would be identified as a woman. She shows her being a “good woman”, contrary to a “good man” who “is hard to find”. But by doing so she reveals how artificial a Christian she is, that appearance for her is more significant than a “good Christian” spirit. It is her who divides the world into “good” and “evil” but she little realizes the actual parameters of these values. Her subjective point of view makes the borderline somewhat blurred, even the name of Jesus in her speech “sounded as if she might be cursing”. In fact, she is far from an epitome of virtue and it is only the fatal encounter with the Misfit that makes her realize the error of her ways. Hence, to some extent, the Grandmother may be treated as a common Everyman.
The passage that I read is about renowned female Baroque (and Renaissance) painter Artemisia Gentileschi.She was taught by her father at a young age. However, as a teenager, Gentileschi was sexually assaulted by another artist and friend of her neighbor, Agostino Tassi. Later on in her life, she returned to painting and married painter Pietro Stiattesi. They eventually separated, and Artemisia lived a life of self-reliance and independence. Her art emphasized classical and biblical themes, but also focused on stories, especially of women. She also used female characters as metaphors to convey themes like oppression, suffering, injustice, and triumphs of women. Gentileschi gained popularity soonafter, and became the first woman to be admitted
Her role as a Voodoo priestess saw her not only as a religious figure but also a medical doctor, a psychotherapist, and a social worker dealing with health, love, work, and family problems. There are not many like Mama Lola (Brown, 2001: 4). In her ethnographic study, Brown’s focus is two fold. Firstly the books intends to understand the meaning of Voodoo in the everyday lives of Mama Lola’s family, which is presented as a typical family of the faithful. Secondly, she turns to the living, dynamic nature of the religion, which has to accommodate itself to the different environment of the immigrant experiences of a Haitian family living in Brooklyn.
Chrétien breaks the rules of fin’amor in order to teach the readers about true love by adding the component of psychology to his characters. Chrétien immediately breaks the rule of fin’amor early in the story by allowing Erec and Enide to get married. Chrétien uses psychology to portray what fin’amor should be by showing the emotions behind a character who is both a lover and a partner in marriage. Chrétien first used psychology when Enide said, “I know
She knows that committing adultery is wrong, but her id drive makes her not able to resist from doing adultery with Rodolphe. Why this adultery is committed cannot be separated from the stupidity of her husband who always thinks that Emma is happy and will never betray him.Emma's adultery is committed not only with Rodolphe, but also with Leon who she meets again in the theater in Rouen incidentally. Leon who did not have any courage to love her at his first time meeting Emma, at her second chance he is braver and more aggressive in seducing Emma. Emma who has been disappointed by Rodolphe and thirst of a passionate love, plans away to meet her id's drive to fulfill her dream. Turning a corner, she would recognize him by his curly hair, which invariably escaped from beneath his hat.Leon continued along the pavement. She followed him to the hotel; he climbed the stairs, opened the door, entered the room... then, what an
The low status and expectations given to women through the dawn of time, allowed them to grow out of their cage and improve their social standing. For a very long time men have seen women as fragile possessions whose only use is for farming and housekeeping. Destined to being seen as possession to men, women have struggled to become independent and live their own lives since long ago. In The Erl-king, by Angela Carter, the protagonist is the perfect example of a woman who escaped from her destiny of being enslaved by the man she once loved.
Both Elinor and Marianne get their hearts broken by the men they loved. In the beginning, Elinor meets a man named Edward Ferrars and the two immediately click almost like they were meant for one another. They soon face troubles when they find out others don’t find them good enough for each other. Marianne tells Elinor that she finds Edward too dull, while Edwards’s mother doesn’t approve of them being together. Putting others aside, the feelings between them begin to grow and we start to question if they are falling in love. Eventually, Elinor and her family end up moving to Barton Cottage, causing things with Edward to become complicated. They begin to communicate less, and Marianne finds it strange that Edward had not came to visit Elinor yet.
When applying the lectures and readings to this film, I first wanted to focus on the issue of Judith giving up her career for marriage instead. In chapter one of Erber & Erber, the idea of affiliation is brought up and how we as humans use others to define who we are in the world. Judith was dependent on her husband and was willing to give up her own career to be with him. This could be due to their difference in gender and the way that gender has shaped the way that the character perceive their roles in society. While the man is possessive and controls the relationship as well as his wife’s choices, the wife does the best that she can to be a positive presence in the relationship. In the film, this affects Judith in a negative way because her whole life in centered around just one person.