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What Is The Chinese Parenting Style In The Roar Of The Tiger Mom

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Every parent always wants what is best for their children. But what is the best way to go about this? There are so many ways one can go and never know if you are right or are doing the right thing. You might believe you are doing what is best for your child or children, but other parents don't see that so it can be conflicting at times. In the essay, “The Roar of the Tiger Mom” Amy Chua explains with great detail, the many differences between Chinese mothers and western parents have in the upbringing of their children trying to prepare them for the real world. Amy Chua puts in her own insight of Chinese mothers trying to justify the Chinese parenting style, however, many western parents would defy Chinese parenting style .
Amy Chua formed a list of the things she would never allow her children to do. These things may seem like the normal thing for some, but seem completely bizarre for others. Chua does not allow her children to:

“Attend a sleepover, have a playdate, be in a school play, complain about not being in a school play, watch TV or play computer games, choose their own extracurricular activities, get any grade less than an A, not to be number 1 student in every subject except gym and drama, play any instrument other than the piano or violin, not play the piano or violin” (Chua 305). These are just a few of the many things that Amy Chua and Chinese mothers forbid their children from doing. Many Chinese mothers would most likely agree with these few basic

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