Being different isn't a bad thing at all; it's a great thing. People around the world are judged everyday of their lives for their sexuality. If you are different it's great that you are in my opinion. You shouldn't be judged for being different. It's not wrong for someone to be different what's wrong with it? nothing. Everybody in the world should be accepted for who they are. If you were to be a different person you would want to be accepted just like them. People all around the world have difficulties telling their relatives or friends about their sexuality. They shouldn't be scared to tell them it should be accepted right away. 58% of americans say (pew research) it should be accepted but what about the other 42% it has to be changed or
A family member once told me never judge a book by its cover. If you open the book and see what is inside instead of overlooking it, you might find it interesting after all. This quote by my family member can easily be tied to “The Myth of the Latin Women: I just met a Girl Named Maria” by Judith Ortiz Cofer, and “Just walk on By: Black Men and Public Spaces” by Brent Staples. Cofer, talks about how she was stereotyped for being a Latin woman in American culture. Then Staples, talks about how he was discriminated for being a tall, black man that worked as a journalist in a predominantly white field. Both of these authors, were being put in categories based on their appearance. People assumed they were a certain way because she was Hispanic and because he was African American. Modern society is quick to judge people based on their appearance; mainly on attributes of race and gender, eventually affecting the person’s outlook on life. People can often be treated and judged in a less than an equal manner. Before they even get to know the true nature of a person, they are judged based on race. Additionally, a female may be overlooked for a certain job and the job is then given to a male counterpart, based solely on gender. Lastly, people will see the world in a different perspective because of the exposure of stereotypes. Being judgmental towards ethnicity and gender will keep us
We should mot judge the people based on their appearance because the appearance will not tell how the person is the person without the good appearance he will have a good talents and success in his life the appearance is a just the way what we see but based on the appearance we can't judge the people the people who have a good character and behaviour he will be success in his life if a person who don't have a good character but his appearance is good the person will not have a good future
All over the world people are struggling to be themselves and simply be happy. A lot of young men and women are teased, isolated, abused, and some even murdered. With all of the controversy in this day and age people are bullied for being gay, not being white, being transgender, having been previously abused, and a lot of the time there isn’t a real reason at all. Nobody has the right to judge and punish another human being for expressing who they are. Everyone is who they are, and they shouldn’t be punished for it. In the world that we live in today those people who don’t fall into the “social norm” must either hide who they are, or face the humiliation and abuse. Neither of those alternatives are optimistic. Anybody should be able to be out in public and not have to worry about being tormented for who they truly
For so long the world has had the mentality that same sex couples are unnatural and wrong. Opinions like this have lead to individuals suppressing their
In the case of bisexuality, our cultures dictate whether or not we will accept it freely or with a little opposition. This is most evident in the movie Brokeback Mountain which stirred the
My sexual orientation is not taken serious because it is deemed as me being confused. This was shown when I first came out, it was dismissed as me trying to fit in or confused. These accusations made me feel powerless as a bisexual person. My identity is invisible so I can hide it although I do not think it will be healthy to deny such an important part of me. To truly accept myself, I need to recognize my sexuality. However, this has proven to be difficult because of negative experiences. When I was in high school, a gay student said that being bisexual is impossible because a person cannot like both genders. This statement showed that in my own community, I was unwelcome. This feeling occurs in any LGBTQ event or space and non-LGBTQ spaces are not any better. The dominant group decides how much the LGBTQ community deserves and creates laws that affect us. They decide if we deserve to get married, be a part of a religion or can buy a simple cake. The mistreatment of my community is unnecessary. In order for there to be some change, the idea that being LGBTQ is a choice needs to be eliminated. To do this will be difficult, but normalizing gay couples on media is a start. There needs to be more LGBTQ characters on
When people are growing up, being normal is the cool thing to do. Everyone wants to be like everybody else and that’s the way it goes. What children and many adults still don’t understand that being different and having diversity is a good thing.
Judging someone is very bad in most cases, and usually, means that there jealous of you. When you're parenting a child in which has desires to play sports and enjoy the things that he does, you need to support him and let him do those things that he enjoys. Dave seems to think otherwise. Dave is against his child Steve’s enjoyment throughout the game of baseball, and Steve knows it. Dave clearly is not happy about it. The Diamond family are lacking money and are struggling to get more of it. Steve could be working as a delivery boy or selling papers to make some extra cash for his family. With this in mind, Steve remained going down to the ballpark after school every day with his friends and the kids at the park. The fact that he did this made Dave furious, which led to Dave
In conclusion, I just want to say that we (as people) need to stop judging people because of their race, culture beliefs, and their religion. We need to respect other people’s religions, and need to stop treating them in negative way. Also, avoid if there is any misunderstanding about any religion out there in the
Do you think someone should be judged for what they believe? What about how they look? Well, critics argue that people should not be gay because, people should only (be “normal”) or like the opposite gender because that is what is commonly practiced. While that might be true, people should be able to be who they want to be and do what makes them feel comfortable. It is often thought if someone is gay, they will do something to you especially, with a group of male teammates, but actually, they are normal people and most times you can’t even notice until it is spoken about. My argument is that, if you are gay, people shouldn’t judge you for that reason because, it is their decision and other people can’t change that even if they want to. Also, it is rude to judge them because there is nothing wrong with being gay.
Being gay or lesbian in America in the past half-decade has implied viewing boundaries fall in some amazing areas in our society. Organizations as marriage, the military and sports have readjusted their strict traditions to a degree that simply was unspoken of a couple of years back. In the U.S., where temperaments have developed positively to the LGBT community most drastically. Any individual who exposes their unadulterated truth longs for family acknowledgement. Those that decide to come out frequently think that it taxing for relatives to move past the apparent reality of who they thought their child, sibling or sister was. This can either be a positive or negative experience relying upon the way their family culture attitudes have been made to tolerance and open minds. If the family of the individual who is coming out accepts the truth and believes that they
Difference isn’t always a bad thing, it’s just unordinary. That’s why it’s an instinct to immediately judge people, whether it be good or bad, when they appear different. Good judgements aren’t that easy to achieve, though, so people tend to go in the direction as other “normal” people so they don’t attract attention.A direct example of this is when Hazel tries to convince George to take out some balls from his bags. He refuses, only because he is aware that there is consequences to taking them out. There would be a fine of two thousand dollars. Along with that, he would also spend two years in jail for every ball taken out.
Society often judges people unfairly because they are quick to assume or they judge based off of petty, trivial things. For example, they might see a person dressed a certain way and instantly assume it’s for one certain reason, and cannot possibly be for any other reason. If a person is dressed sloppily, it’s obviously because he is lazy and doesn’t care how he looks. After all it’s easier to accept a baseless conclusion than to gather evidence for other possible conclusions. It is also easier for one to distract himself from his own issues by embracing the bliss of ignorance and telling others about how wrong they are instead of looking at himself. People generally prefer the easy route, thus why people like this exist, and why innocent people get persecuted.
Even as I was growing up I always told myself do not judge someone because you do not know their story. I believe that it is part of our human nature even when you don 't want to that you make an assumption of someone weather good or bad. Even if this happens maybe it is best to keep your thoughts to yourself to keep from hurting someones feelings. You may not think this but you can assume a lot about a person by the way and what they eat, by the way they dress, what their overall appearance is.
It’s widely known that the LGBT life is spreading. There’s Pride month, same sex marriage is now legal, and more people than ever are starting to show who they really are. Even though it’s starting to be more accepted, I still struggled for months to find a way to tell people. I was scared my mom wouldn’t let me be happy and embrace who I really wanted to be. Then I had to consider how my friends would react, and it was an awful feeling losing some of the people that I thought was my friends through everything. Good definitely came out of the whole process though. Although, there are definitely still people who discriminate and banish people from their lives. All because others cannot accept who people choose to be. According to Morris (2017), in the 1950s, there was an investigation into homosexuals holding government jobs. This in turn, led into the first American demand for equality. In 67 years, we still cannot find a way for the life styles to be nationally accepted. “In 1965, as the civil rights movement won new legislation outlawing racial discrimination, the first gay rights demonstrations took place in Philadelphia and Washington, DC.” Also, in 1970, is when the pride marches started taking place in June every year Morris (2017). Acceptance is a hard pill for many to swallow, and it may even be