preview

Young Adulthood : Young Adulthood

Good Essays

Young Adulthood His biggest dream was to enter the military after high school graduation. He applied and was refused because of his epilepsy. He was so intent on getting into the service that he waited a year and applied again, this time lying about his condition and not putting it on the application form. He got all the way into basic training when he told a friend about his lie. That friend told the commander and he was kicked out. He recalls being very disappointed and devastated because this was the only thing he wanted to do. As an average student he wasn’t interested in going to college. His greatest challenge as a young adult was dealing with his epilepsy and coming to terms with the reality that a career path he had always dreamed of and had the most passion for was not going to happen for him. He enjoyed cooking so he worked at several restaurants as a grill cook. He recalls being wild and sexually promiscuous. When the AIDS epidemic began he put a stop to that type of behavior so as not to contract that disease. It was during this time that he met his first wife and they were married in 1985 when he was 30 year-old. Although his wife was the same age he recalls knowing it wouldn’t last because he was attracted to much older women. When I asked him why he married her then he said sadly “because I thought that was expected of me”. Their social life consisted of working at their jobs and going out socially to concerts and sporting events. They hung

Get Access