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All Of Us Have Had One

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All of us have had one. You know, that one date we wish would have never happened. That one date that we only tell to another soul after several weeks of mulling it over in self-doubt as to whether or not you should ever speak of it again, or just let it listlessly fade from memory. For me, this date happened on July 6, 2007--ironically, about two weeks before I met the woman who is presently my wife. Alison and I had met online. With my busy work schedule, it made it impossible for me to find a girl the 'traditional ' way, and so a buddy of mine helped me create an online profile with OkCupid. The website was actually quite fun to play around with as it had some user-quizzes, and a pretty interesting profile-building experience. As suggested by the website, within a few days someone had already e-mailed me. Honestly, it took a while to weed-out the people I would blatantly not be interested in versus those that had potential, but finally I came across a profile that I thought would blend well with my values, likes, dislikes, etc--and so I sent her a message. Two days later I received a response and we began chatting. After two days of instant messaging the good ole ' fashioned way on AIM, we decided we wanted to meet one other. We set a date at Applebee 's for that coming Friday night at 7:30 PM. This was the first date I had been on in a couple of months since my previous relationship ended, so I was definitely nervous. I could tell because it took me more than 2

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