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Analysis Of Hook Up Culture

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Over a decade of sociological research has backed the stereotypes of around 80 million Americans born between 1980 and 2000. Teenagers and young adults have been deemed the Millennial Generation; Millennials are also being referred to as Generation Y because they come after Generation X. They are considered lazy, narcissistic, and delusional; because of this Generation Y has been under observation to uncover why growing numbers of Millennials have delayed typical adult milestones. Researchers have been working to figure out why this generation has been more prone to moving back in with their parents; as well as delaying marriage and beginning their careers. Constant debate centers around whether Millennials are self-centered narcissists or …show more content…

As the hook-up culture grows prominent in our society, so does our retrospect on ideas. There has been a recent buzz around hookup culture. A claim has been centered around the notion that this culture has derived from a female sense of liberation, convenience, and technology. According to Peggy Drexler, a Ph.D. holding professor of psychology, mobile apps make hookup culture more accessible. She is implying that Millennial women favor convenience over old fashion dating. While I credit Drexler’s extensive research in Psychology, I question her focus on women. She says, “The math is pretty simple: In the end, what social media dating does is give users — and, most poignantly — women more options. And more options mean more freedom, and more power, too.” While I believe her point to be valid, I don’t agree that she should’ve centered her article around women. She neglects to incorporate any data supporting that dating apps benefit women more than men. After conducting my research via twitter poll in regards to college students’ love-life, I found that within 1,018 total engagements, 18% of people preferred hooking up while 82% preferred a serious relationship. Unsurprisingly, I found that 72% of the population who preferred a serious relationship were women. This may be because men prefer hooking up, and in actuality, women have to conform to this new culture of dating. After all, women …show more content…

For example, as opposed to Peggy Drexler, journalist Gabriella Barkho, the author of “Why are Millennials Putting off Marriage?” blames marriage delay on the economy, dating apps, delayed childbirth, etc. By going in depth to say that “when there’s rough economic times, marriage rates go down,” she presumes to argue that people don’t favor a commitment during hardships (Barkho). While her stance is solid, she fails to acknowledge the possibility that people simply just may not want to marry at all. The Millennial generation is all about convenience. This is displayed all around us, from the way we communicate, date, and even choose our field of work. Every person is different, and every person has a different style of doing things. Millennials move at their own pace. They don’t let stereotypes define them, and they don’t let fear hinder them from accomplishing their goals. They are focused on themselves and establishing themselves before they create relationships with other

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