The Velcro Family: Together Now, Until Drawn Apart
Anderson Hall has brought together many unlike people and serves as a home base for its inhabitants to bond and have a family away from home. The term family can be defined in many ways. For this composition, family will be defined as a group of people related through shared characteristics, such as going to Snow and living in Anderson Hall. Anderson Hall is the farthest south on-campus residence hall at Snow College. Since it is exclusively sleep studies, residents of Anderson Hall have just their beds, desks, and TV’s in their rooms. About half of the rooms are shared and have two roommates living together, and the other half are private rooms with solely one student housed per room.
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The residents of Anderson create powerful bonds and connections while enjoying activities together, not just in the lobby, but also on late night trips to Maverick and Denny’s. Whenever a resident is in trouble, that person usually has a group of people around them that are in the same or a similar situation or have enough empathy that allow them to be able to help their friends and colleagues. The lobby is a popular place for the Anderson Hall family to talk about their stresses while going through life and school. These talks bond the students together even greater than the activities ever could and sprout support for the residents for when it is …show more content…
The family in Anderson Hall has bonded through shared experiences and stresses, such as problems with construction and mental crises. For many students, mom and dad are particularly far away, and this family is a great way for them to feel loved and safe while away to continue their education. Although temporary, this family is an important part of the college experience to many students. The experiences and support here are important to the success of the students and are matters that will not be soon forgotten. The residents of Anderson Hall are together now, and when the time comes, they shall be split like Velcro and placed into new experiences, new homes, and new
When entering college, there are many things to consider. Having to make such important life decisions can be very overwhelming for a high school senior. Not only are teenagers expected to make a decision on where they are going to potentially be spending the next four years, but they are also deciding who and how that is going to look like. In the article “A college education should include rooming with a stranger,” Ann Altman uses emotional diction to persuade readers to consider what their living conditions will be like their first year of college.
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Mr. Cedant has grown tremendously since accepting a position as a resident assistant with the Department of Housing and Residence Life at the University of Central Florida (UCF) in 2013. In this role, each semester he is tasked with the responsibility of living in a college housing community and providing advice, hosting educational programs, and facilitating campus awareness and growth for forty undergraduate students. Another responsibility that comes with
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This report was commissioned by the committee of the North West Trust for the Protection of Wildlife to analyses the financial statements of two project proposals for the Trust.