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Authoritarian Parenting Style Analysis

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The strong, opinionated, ‘my-way’ aspect of the authoritarian parenting style has been passed down to the family members, where it is a fight for who is right. In contrast, some members of the family are lazier, will not do daily tasks for themselves, and do not pick up the slack. The Olson textbook (2014) discusses Eric Erickson’s stages of aging and one stage is where an able-bodied person does not wish to be mobile and uses age as an excuse. Since her forties, my Grandmother has not cooked and was not disciplining her children. This passive parenting provides an example of disorderliness and laziness, which Sister and Youngest Brother have exhibited, and yields neglected chores and an untidy home. Typically, Sister is left alone in her room to play on her computer and draw while Youngest Brother is consumed in his devices. Neither will help on their own with chores or cooking so Mom and I are making up for their uncooperativeness. As indicated on my genogram, the stars of the family are typically the oldest daughter, who runs the household, cares for the siblings, and nurses their elderly parents. These three members of the family all exhibit this lazy lifestyle and passive aggressiveness in their communication methods. Thus, strict discipline and unchanging rules are established to help balance the lack of responsibility and more …show more content…

My faith in Christ and college experiences have taught me the freedom found in Christ and wider perspectives than the boundaries I am held to within my family system. I have changed my view from needing my parents’ permission to now asking advice as I am maturing; however, I must still consider my actions that my parents believe reflect how they raised me. I can demonstrate humility and God’s teachings by putting my desires aside sometimes and respecting my parents’

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