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Barbie Basement, Unplanned Parenthood And Ascending Borders

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Amongst every friendship there is bound to have challenges. In my friendship, our challenges occurred when Lauren left for University and when she met her boyfriend. In regards to our course material, the main readings that connected to our challenges are Barbie Basement, Unplanned Parenthood and Ascending Borders. What brought my friend and I together was having the French language in common, we would practice the language and go to school together. However, she is a year older than me. We both went to the same elementary school and high school but when it came to University we went our separate ways. Barbie Basement from Secrets & Confidences portrayed the friendship between three girls that was created due to the fact that they all …show more content…

Lauren started dating a guy she met during her first year of University. I have never been in a relationship before and have no idea what a relationship is all about. When she came back for the summer, she would talk to me about conflicts that would arise in her relationship. I could never give her my opinion or suggestion because I have no personal experiences in a relationship. Now that she has a boyfriend I find it hard to connect and relate to some of the problems she wants to talk about. Unplanned Parenthood from Secrets & Confidences focuses on the conflict between Jennifer and her friends. Jennifer is unable to have kids and all her friends are starting families. She feels as if she can not relate to her friends anymore since they would spend a lot of time talking about their kids. She feels more comfortable talking with male friends because they never talk about their families. Jennifer stated that: “I don’t fit in. But now I don’t fit in because I’m exotic to them, not because I’m tragic” (Munro,139). To relate Jennifer’s conflict to my friendship, I feel exotic like Jennifer because all my friends have boyfriends and I feel like I don’t belong …show more content…

We have been very close friends for a while and this past year when she moved to Guelph, it has been a difficult times our friendship. The distance between us has resulted in a weaker friendship. The only way of communicating with Lauren was over phone or email. She came home for a few weekends during the year. When we got together the first time she got back, our friendship felt as if nothing happened but then the more and more she came home our friendship started to change. After she left for University I started to notice that her views on certain subjects changed. Even though we would sometimes argue it seems that our friendship always stays intact since we have been friends for a long time and we would work things out in order to remain friends. Ascending Borders from Secrets & Confidences, focuses on the friendship amongst Marisa and Ronit. They became really close friends when they were at the University of California, but once Ronit left for Israel they could only communicate through phone, mail and email. The first time they reunited in Israel, they continued their friendship as usual. After a lot of time spent apart, Marisa noticed that Ronit’s political views have shifted and she was upset with Marisa for working with the Tikkun Community. They got into a big argument and Marisa stated: “I thought about calling Ronit. I thought about how terrible it would be if she got killed in a bombing and we had not

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